Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

HA! how else did you think i found out my rnig was coming!!!

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

always!!!lol...not for like phone #'s or anything..im just nosey....and if i did find sumtin suspicious...i would def speak up!!!

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

No, I never have. It's enough to know that if I actually did want to go through his wallet he probably wouldn't care. Just like sometimes he goes through my pocketbook to see what's in there because it weighs a ton.

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

I don't snoop in his email or wallet ever. I occasionally snoop in his drawers if my birthday is coming up, but that is usually to tease him. I know that if he runs after me that my gift is hidden in that drawer.

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Never. There is zero reason to do that.

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

I only read his email when he calls me over to read his funny emails Once I organized his wallet for him (OCD much!?), but he was sitting right there watching me do it

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

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Posted by MissingTheBGene

No, I never have.

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same here

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Fh and I go into each others wallets all the time. If I need money and I don't have any I take it out of his wallet...same With him. (so we trust each other that there is nothing to hide) he takes receipts out of my wallet cause he is the money handler! As far as emails go.. he told me his password once and I forgot it.. no need to check on him. We trust each other. The way I look at it..If I start feeling I need to snoop... I really would need to rethink about marrying him.

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

never. He would never go in my things, so I would never do it to him. Even if I ever thought or suspected anything. its just his personal 'space'

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

I snooped once and it ended up in a huge fight we almost broke up! I figure what I dont know won't hurt me! To be in a successful relationship and stay sane I choose to have faith and trust, and to stay aware, but not snoopy! Also, I've seen some people drive themselves and those around them crazy because they were being 'detectives' with their mates. That's not the life I want to live!

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

I wouldn't call it snooping since he knows I look at his email sometimes to see if we got any house info, but I don't read other emails

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Never snooped. One time FH asked me to get something out of his wallet for him, and I got his wallet and handed it to him to get it. Sometimes if my FH's not near his phone and it rings, he will ask me who it is if I am by the phone, so I will look at it and tell him, but that is as far as that goes. I don't go through his things.

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

No, I don't have a reason to.

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

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Posted by SPITSBRIDE

No, I don't have a reason to.

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Ditto...trust is key in our marriage and I want him to treat me the way I treat him.

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

i have read his old emails when we first started dating. he got out of a 3 year relationship a few months before me and it got me thinking.. i read some horrific things in his mailbox and its still taking me a hard time to forgive him (almost 4 years later) he was still in love with her when he started a relationship with me and thats something thats VERY hard for me to get over.. i just think its a horrible thing to do to someone. but he denies it.. he said he loved her as a friend. blah. 4 years later he hasnt said one word to that girl haha. i did feel horrible but i didnt trust him.

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Sometimes, I snoop, but I do not want to because things always get misinterpreted. If I found a girl's number, I would ask him right away, and it would be his cousin's or something.

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

Never have .....I have no reason too ....and if i ever feel like i do then we have a bigger problem on hand -

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

I never have. What's to snoop for??

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

his 'wallet' is more of a money clip with a few pockets for credit cards
its left on the table every night. i imagine hes not fitting much in there

also he leaves everything open for me to see- empties his pockets out - his crap is all over our house

so nothing to snoop.

however, if he had a wallet, id never go through it

i trust him

Re: QOTD: Does anyone ever snoop in FH's email/wallet, etc?

No i don't snoop