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jilmadison
Happily Married
Member since 2/05 2226 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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I am getting married in 12 days
and FMIL keeps asking to invite more people. I am so mad. She keeps pulling out these random people.
We asked her for her final list 3 months ago. and since then she keeps adding. Now it is 12 days before, this is soo rude!
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Posted 2/13/06 1:11 PM 
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JanuaryBride06
boyfriend in my head
Member since 4/05 13019 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/8/2006 12:00 PM
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
Mine did, too. And it is annoying. Can FH tell her to cut it out?
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Posted 2/13/06 1:13 PM
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October Bliss
Beyond Obsession
Member since 8/05 7629 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/8/2006 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Country Gardens @ East Wind
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
Did you explain that the invitations went out months ago, the RSVP date has long past, and you already gave your headcount to the hall???
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Posted 2/13/06 1:16 PM
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hmpena
Momma to be- team blue!
Member since 1/05 14747 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/15/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow A+
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
 I am so sorry!! Are you cutting her off?
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Posted 2/13/06 1:17 PM
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kissy27
Sweet Memories
Member since 4/04 10934 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/31/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Floral Terrace
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
sometimes you just want to 
Doesn't see realize that there is absolutely NO WAY to send out invitations with the RSVP date expired & the wedding less then 12 days!!!
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Posted 2/13/06 1:18 PM
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jilmadison
Happily Married
Member since 2/05 2226 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
Posted by October Bliss
Did you explain that the invitations went out months ago, the RSVP date has long past, and you already gave your headcount to the hall???
She knows we dont give the headcount untill Thursday, but I dont really care. I just spent 5 hours yesterday doing the seating arrangements and placecards. I said to FH to tell her no way! But it just makes me soo mad
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Posted 2/13/06 1:18 PM
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Laura&Phil
Married! The stress is OVER!!
Member since 4/05 1254 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2006 10:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow A++
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
The best defense is to have your FH tell her no and explain why. My FMIL kept wanting to add people and asked that we cut our HM spending down because she is worried about our finances- FH eventually got her to stop saying that she's taking money away from us- even if she pays for them- that's more money that can help us- not her add ons. Plus, add-ons might not be as generous with gifts so stand your ground!
Good luck! Maybe I'll see you at your final fitting! Mine is Thursday! It's almost over and we'll be on our HM!!
 Can't WAIT for that!! 
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Posted 2/13/06 1:21 PM
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DanaMZ
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 5/05 1078 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/9/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
Can you tell her that you already gave the final head count?
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Posted 2/13/06 1:26 PM
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serendipity0680
I'm a Mrs!!!
Member since 11/04 1943 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/8/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Harbor Club - Huntington
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
I know it must be annoying but try to just let it go, you have too many others things to worry about and get ready.
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Posted 2/13/06 1:30 PM
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jilmadison
Happily Married
Member since 2/05 2226 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
Posted by Laura&Phil
The best defense is to have your FH tell her no and explain why. My FMIL kept wanting to add people and asked that we cut our HM spending down because she is worried about our finances- FH eventually got her to stop saying that she's taking money away from us- even if she pays for them- that's more money that can help us- not her add ons. Plus, add-ons might not be as generous with gifts so stand your ground!
Good luck! Maybe I'll see you at your final fitting! Mine is Thursday! It's almost over and we'll be on our HM!!
Can't WAIT for that!!
where did u decide for your honeymoon?
I am going for my fitting at 7:30 on thursday night
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Posted 2/13/06 1:38 PM
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autumn
Good bye 06 board its been fun
Member since 10/04 3126 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Majestic Gardens A++++
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
Tell her its to late now, hopefully she is not telling people don't worry your invited.
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Posted 2/13/06 1:51 PM
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JPCP4806
Due May 2007!!!
Member since 9/04 1153 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/8/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green A++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
I wouldnt invite more people only because the people you are inviting now might think they are last minute fillers... Ya know? They might feel bad, when they really arent its just your FMIL effed up with her list... Im sorry if that sounded rude ( It wasnt supposed to be) 
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Posted 2/13/06 1:54 PM
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R&J0806
I have the greatest husband!
Member since 9/05 1620 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/6/2006 11:15 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: I am getting married in 12 days
First of all, (IMO) that is really insulting to the guests she first wants to invite now....seeing as your wedding is only 12 days away (congrats, by the way!!!!) they will obviously know they were a last minute thought. Can you or FH tell your FMIL that?
This sounds like something my idiotic FMIL would do.......
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Posted 2/13/06 2:00 PM
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