How many childern are you planning to have?

How many and how long after the wedding are you going to start trying?


Well.. I've already got , so I wouldn't mind , but not for another five years or so.

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As manyh as we can afford!

We dont want to ahve kids for several years after we're married. I want to get my MFA first and hopefully have a house

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We hope between 2 or 3, but I would feel blessed just having one! We won't start trying right away, maybe a year or more after the wedding.

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I'm getting off the pills after the honeymoon, so whenever it happens it happens........he wants 4....I said let's go for 1 first!

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We're hoping for 2 - we won't start until we have a house to raise them though, so based on LI prices, about another 7 or 10 years! AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!

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2 or 3 depending on financial status - i wan't to be able to provide for my family. we wont start extending our family for a few years. we want to be settled in our careers.

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We have 2 They're 6 and 2. We're trying for a right after the wedding

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Hopefully 4...we want to have 2, and hopefully adopt 2, from out of the country.

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i always said that i wanted to adopt but it is very very expensive and time consuming - i have two family members who had adopted children and they each spent over 20,000. so I think financially we would not be able to do that

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One!!!

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God willing, we'll be parents to 3 healthy babies. And we'll take anything... , , , as long as their healthy!

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prob. 2.

start a couple months after wedding

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We want 6!!!! Well 4 at the least! That is why the FH is going to stick to his job and keep climbing the ladder so we can raise the little suckers! haha

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maybe 2..i am very far from thinking about it though..i want to enjoy being married

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anywhere between 2-3 but we will be happy with one to start...Not going to try for at least a year or two after the wedding...We want to enjoy our time being married & enjoy our new house!!!!

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2 or 3 would be nice..

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Posted by soontobemrsv

2 or 3 would be nice..

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FH already has 2, Boy whose 12, girl whose 7.

We are planning on having 2 more hopefully! Unfortunately, we have to go through in-vitro which is EXTREMELY expensive! In the end though, so very worth it!!!! So, we will be going through all the testing and everything right after the honeymoon. We've already done some testing and paperwork. I hope it all goes well. Who knows, I already have an insta-family....I may just have another.....we might end up with twins!

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Well MY plan is ... we have one all ready who is not a baby anymore, I want to take her to Disney World 1st after that ops I forgot to take my pills for a month.......and we shall see

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I'd love to have twins, to it all done in one shot...then again maybe not.

I really do hope everything goes well with you in-vitro. Best of luck!

I wanted to adopt kids at one point, but then I had my own. I think it's best to adopt first, 'cause then the adopted childern won't feel like they don't fit in or like they aren't a part of the family. They were there first. But it also is very expensive, you know they complain they need people to adopt childern, but yet they make so hard for those that do want to. If they made it easier I'd bet there would be a lot less childern in homes.

Also, I have three adopted cousin (2 girls and a boy- real siblings) My aunt had to give one of the girls back, because she kept calling the cops and CPS on my Aunt and Uncle when they weren't doing anything to her. She also got into a lot of trouble at school and with the cops, she just wasn't happy and didn't want to be with them. She ended up going back into a home, I have no idea where she is now. I don't even think my other adopted cousins know where she is.

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Adoption is a very diffucult thing to deal with when you are young. You go through all those why me issues, hate, lonelyness, and when you get older it is like..wow I am special, I was picked, and thoughts of thankfulness.
It took me a long time to deal with it though. I would love to adopt too since I was adopted from Bogota COlombia. Then have children.
That is great!! Good Luck!!!!!!

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We are planning on 2-3. If we have two boys we will try for the girl. If we have a boy and a girl we will stop and if we have two girls I hope to try for the boy...but FH says we will stop.It doesnt matter really what we have...we just want healthy babies...about 3-4 years after the wedding

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I think 2 is a good number for us so we can afford college one day would be nice but as long as they are healthy we would be happy

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I have a good chance of having twins - so at least 2!

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Posted by kissy27

anywhere between 2-3 but we will be happy with one to start...Not going to try for at least a year or two after the wedding...We want to enjoy our time being married & enjoy our new house!!!!

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