Why is my FH so freaking lax!?!?!

As of now, we are NOT going on a HM, even a short weekend to New England is outta the question! We are TAPPED!! Except...... FH has a car thats worth enough for a HM. He bought it for REAL cheap with the intent to sell it for full value (and that was how we were going to pay for HM) Well, I've been sooooo up his A$$ to sell the thing. He is just moving in slow motion!! It's just freaking sitting there for a month and a half!! What is his problem?!?! Put a F-ing for sale sighn on it!!! If He doesn't sell it in time, it would be a shame to waste $200 on passports!! He is killing me!!! The other thing is he is WAY behind on his saving for the wedding, he tells me 'Don't worry about it!! It will be fine, it's all under control!! ' Uhm, HOW?!?!?!?! I swear, if he's short, he's putting his tail between his legs and BEGGING mommy and daddy!! I feel sick about money all the time and he's like whatever.... whats his problem!?!?!? I say, go to this place in the city and get me my wedding band for a great deal, and he says 'Whats the rush?' I swear I am about to explode!!

Thanks for letting me vent!!

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Oh man I want to smack him too. Sometimes Men don't understand. AAAAHHHHHH. LOL Hopefully everything will get better.

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My FH is the same way. We were talking about tuxes last night and he gives me the same line 'i'm not even thinking about tuxes at this point. I don't want to talk about it' I know we have a while until the wedding but I don't want to be running around in the months before the wedding. Guys just don't understand the stress of planning a wedding.

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Posted by 06NovBride

My FH is the same way. We were talking about tuxes last night and he gives me the same line 'i'm not even thinking about tuxes at this point. I don't want to talk about it' I know we have a while until the wedding but I don't want to be running around in the months before the wedding. Guys just don't understand the stress of planning a wedding.

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OMG!! Fh has been saying that to me for months!!! 'I'm not even thinking (tuxes, Favors, flowers, wedding) right now' I'm 3 mo and 2 weeks to go!!! When is a good time for you?!?!

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I just took charge and took care of everything else. The tuxes we really don't need to look at until like 2 months before the wedding, so I won't start pestering yet. It's just really frustrating.

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Posted by 06NovBride

Guys just don't understand the stress of planning a wedding.

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That's because WE, the brides, do all the planning!!!! Every place we go, FH tells people what a great job I did planning the entire wedding, and how everything is done. I just and think to myself, umm, well let's see, there are the programs to make, and the invitations to order, and the chairs for the ceremony to rent, and the GM gifts to buy and on and on. Just because all the major vendors are booked, does not mean the entire wedding planning is over!

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Posted by October Bliss

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Posted by 06NovBride

Guys just don't understand the stress of planning a wedding.

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That's because WE, the brides, do all the planning!!!! Every place we go, FH tells people what a great job I did planning the entire wedding, and how everything is done. I just and think to myself, umm, well let's see, there are the programs to make, and the invitations to order, and the chairs for the ceremony to rent, and the GM gifts to buy and on and on. Just because all the major vendors are booked, does not mean the entire wedding planning is over!

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They really dont understand..my new favorite thing to say is 'If wedding planning was easy, everyone would do it!' Its the hardest thing I have ever done...and definately the most stressful..but when its all said and done you can look back and see how all the stress and hard work paid off...

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I think all of our FH's are brothers or something! We just got into a fight last night, when I was simply asking him some advice on something and he says 'Why are you freaking out over everything?!' I wasn't freaking out! If I were you, I'd make a 4 Sale sign on the computer, stick it in the window, and take care of it yourself. You deserve a HM! It's obvious we can't count on these boys for much, so we have to do it all ourselves!