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werock0709 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 06:58 PM+

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Posted: Mar 10, 2006 06:58 PM

BM's Hair Question

Are you girls having your BM's do their hair the same way? I don't know if I should be that bridezilla about something that I really can care less about.( Besides I could never be a bridezilla even if I tried). Any opinions, and if so what do you plan to do? Thanks girlies, I appreciate all of your insight

Vicky423 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 07:21 PM+

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Posted: Mar 10, 2006 07:21 PM

Re: BM's Hair Question

Yeah, I am, but its because they all have the same kind of hair and around the same length so no one will have to really go out of their way.

Soon2BeMrsS Posted: Mar 10, 2006 07:27 PM+

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Posted: Mar 10, 2006 07:27 PM

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I think I'll let them decide how to wear it, I'm having 3 or 4 stylist come to my Aunts house....

Nina Posted: Mar 10, 2006 09:10 PM+

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Posted: Mar 10, 2006 09:10 PM

Re: BM's Hair Question

I'm still having to figure this out myself.....
There is that part of me that says, leave it to them, they can do what they want, its no big deal.

Than the other part wonders...what if they do their hair down or don't do it right and it looks bad or....I don't know...

You're right, I don't want to be bridezilla about it...but at the same time....I don't want one of the girls showing up with that new Clubbing look...(pony tail with the raised front part...up top...cute..not for my wedding) And the only reason I mentioned that style....one of the girls asked if she could do it...I'm not knockin it, just not for my wedding...

JazzyT Posted: Mar 10, 2006 09:16 PM+

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Posted: Mar 10, 2006 09:16 PM

Re: BM's Hair Question

I'm still struggling with this one myself...I wan to let them do their own style because people have to be comfortable and some people may not like their hair all up..however there is that other part that says one style make it look uniformed....What i think i will do is pick two styles and let them decide between the two like maybe some with one hair style and other with another hairstyle

Mrs_C_in_'07 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 10:45 PM+

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Posted: Mar 10, 2006 10:45 PM

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Not me. I'm letting all the girls do what they want. Same for shoes. I want them to be comfortable.

D's Girl Posted: Mar 10, 2006 10:48 PM+

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Posted: Mar 10, 2006 10:48 PM

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I am probably going to let them do what they want. Everyone has different hair types and I want everyone to be comfy.

Athee07 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 11:55 PM+

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Posted: Mar 10, 2006 11:55 PM

Re: BM's Hair Question

Posted by Mrs_C_in_'07

Not me. I'm letting all the girls do what they want. Same for shoes. I want them to be comfortable.

same here

PegaLega Posted: Mar 11, 2006 03:08 AM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 03:08 AM

Re: BM's Hair Question

Nope-they are basically going to be the same idea, but not the same. All of my BMs are VERY different in taste and what they like so it makes it so complicated at times!

haleyzcomet Posted: Mar 11, 2006 08:03 AM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 08:03 AM

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I am just tellin them to put it up anyway they want.Same with shoes as well...give them the color and make sure they are all strappy sandals.

transamgirlie Posted: Mar 11, 2006 08:31 AM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 08:31 AM

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yeah I am letting them decide, they are all so different so it's going to be up to them.

lilpie19 Posted: Mar 11, 2006 10:54 AM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 10:54 AM

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I'm letting the ladies decide also.....I don't need them all matching.

chellynyc Posted: Mar 11, 2006 10:57 AM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 10:57 AM

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I'm letting them do their own thing too - whatever makes them comfortable and happy.

sugarkube4 Posted: Mar 11, 2006 11:15 AM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 11:15 AM

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Idealistically yes, I would love for them all to have the same style, but they each have different lengths of hair and my moh HATES her ears and will never wear her hair up uless she has big earrings co cover her ears and THAT'S not happening, she's wearing her hair down.. my other BM has issues with things going into her ears if they are uncovered, (a fear her grandmother gave her at a young age), she will be wearing her hair down, my other BM has short hair that I have no idea what to do with.. so yea, everyone is wearing their hair down!!

charliesbride Posted: Mar 11, 2006 11:51 AM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 11:51 AM

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I am letting them do what they want...i dont feel that having them all wear their hair the same way is enough for me to go nuts over.ha

2Be1 Posted: Mar 11, 2006 12:26 PM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 12:26 PM

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Posted by lilpie19

I'm letting the ladies decide also.....I don't need them all matching.

I feel the same way. . . .I trust that they will select something tastful, elegant, appropriate and classy.

camerakrazie Posted: Mar 11, 2006 02:33 PM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 02:33 PM

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i dont care how they wear their hair..i am letting them wear it however they please

bride2b24 Posted: Mar 11, 2006 02:38 PM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 02:38 PM

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im just gonna say an updo......i wont be too specific

Nina Posted: Mar 11, 2006 05:01 PM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 05:01 PM

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Gosh...I'm starting to feel bad now...maybe I should just let them do what they want so long as its done

werock0709 Posted: Mar 11, 2006 05:34 PM+

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Posted: Mar 11, 2006 05:34 PM

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I'm just going to let them do what they want. I know some of my girls are on a tight budget, and buying a dress, shoes and then asking them to get their hair done? I can't do it. Their all beautiful in my eyes anyway, so I'm NO longer worried.