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The TIPPING subject.....
cantwait2bewed
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 12:46 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 12:46 PM
The TIPPING subject.....
How much are you tipping each vendor?For me:
Photo: $25 per photographer
Video: $25
DJ: $50
Maitre'd: Unsure?
DOC: $25
Kerrycec
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 12:49 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 12:49 PM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
we did$50-photographer
$50-videographer
$50-DJ
$50-MC
$2 per person at Villa for everyone
nov06
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 12:49 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 12:49 PM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
Not sure yet. ProbablyPhotographer/Videographer/DJ - $75 - $100 each
Maitre'd- $350 - $500 (depending how many people I have)
Bridal Attendent - $100 - $150
Delivery People - $10
Limo - whatever FH tips
Hair/Makeup - 20%
SweetCin704
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 07:52 AM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 07:52 AM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
If the tip is already in the limo contract is anyone paying them more on top of that?
CTarantino
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 07:54 AM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 07:54 AM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
Posted by SweetCin704
If the tip is already in the limo contract is anyone paying them more on top of that?
FH and I agreed no. We are paying 120 for a tip ..20% why do I have to tip and that is alot already! UNLESS he goes out of his way for something maybe an extra 20?? Am I crazy to think this??
SweetCin704
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 08:05 AM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 08:05 AM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
No we feel the same way, but I wanted to see what the majority of you guys were doing
lcherian
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 08:17 AM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 08:17 AM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
heck no!! why do they deserve a tip on top of a tip?
October Bliss
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 03:10 PM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 03:10 PM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
Posted by SweetCin704
If the tip is already in the limo contract is anyone paying them more on top of that?
Heck no!! Our budget is completely tapped.
cantwait2bewed
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 03:31 PM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 03:31 PM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
Posted by October Bliss
Posted by SweetCin704
If the tip is already in the limo contract is anyone paying them more on top of that?
Heck no!! Our budget is completely tapped.
Hollaaaaaaaaaaaaa
KarAnthony
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 03:32 PM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 03:32 PM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
How much should we tip our band?If it's 20%, I'm screwed, that would be a LOT of $$$$$$$$$$$
DandS
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 04:20 PM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 04:20 PM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
We are probably going to tip:$100-photographer
$100-videographer
$5 per person to the Maitre D'
$100 each Bridal Attendant
I can't say what we are tipping our DJ and Limo's because both companies read these posts and I don't want them to know until our big day (you will have to wait to find out Vinny and Manny
)And I heard you should tip the delivery guys for the florist, but I don't know yet what we are tipping them. Is anyone else doing this?
Boston&NY2006
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 04:30 PM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 04:30 PM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
Are you guys tipping vendors that work independently (for instance, a hair or make-up person that comes to your house and therefore gets the full amount of what you're paying them)?A lot of my vendors work on their own, and I don't know if it's weird for me to tip them. For instance, I am paying the organist's fee directly to him, so I know he's getting the full $200 (it's not like I'm paying the church and they're paying him a portion of the fee).
I'm totally clueless about this stuff...
Soon2bMrsERH
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 04:43 PM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 04:43 PM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
Wait, wait a minute....you have to tip? I had no idea you had to tip...omg, I am an idiot
Bigbroad555
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 09:34 PM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 09:34 PM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
First off the Gratudity is the tip at the hall as well as the Limo that is why it is called Gratudity 20%On my contrat I am paying for the hall 541.00 gratudity and 90.00 on the limo that is more then what they should get..
Anywhere it says Gratudity then it is included..
CTarantino
Posted: Apr 19, 2006 08:16 AM+

Posted: Apr 19, 2006 08:16 AM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
Here is my list, still working on the prices...Set prices for...
Officiant: 370.00
Organist: 125.00
Cantor: 100.00
Limo: 120.
Pending services here is approx...
Maitre d': $200-300
Banquet Manager: NO CLUE (HELP)??
Photographer(Meal Inc) $100.
Assistant Photo (Meal Inc.) $50.
Videographer(Meal Inc.) $100 each
Dj:(Meal Inc. & Owner) $?
MC (meal Inc.) $
Hair:(owner of salon) did not accept tip at trial do I still try to tip her day of??? I am bringing juice and bagels and minosas to salon??
Makeup: ?
Cake Delivery: $15.
Florist: $20 not sure if she is coming to set up?
Cleaner at Church:$15
Bartenders: $?
Anyone wanna fill in the blanks?? I have to start preparing this!! Thanks so much for any help, I need it!
kase21
Posted: Apr 19, 2006 09:32 AM+

Posted: Apr 19, 2006 09:32 AM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
Ok I think we don't tip the Banquet Manager - I think it's just the Maitre'd.So yay one less person
hsacks23r
Posted: Apr 19, 2006 09:43 AM+

Posted: Apr 19, 2006 09:43 AM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
this is what I have:MD 350.00 (90 guest) little over 3.80 pp
DJ 50.00 + dinner
photot (2) people 50 + dinner
video (2) 1 guys for 45min (20.00) the other guy 40.00 + dinner
hair/make up 40.00
violin & piano during ceremony $20.00 each
limo $50 (we are not paying for the limo)
floriest $10.00 (he is just dropping off flowers to the house)
DOes that sound GOOD??
thats 700.00 in tipping
kase21
Posted: Apr 19, 2006 09:59 AM+

Posted: Apr 19, 2006 09:59 AM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
This is what I have so far....Tipping is subject to change.....
Maitre'd $525 -700 (175 @ $3 & $4 - could be more or less)
Bridal Attendant $150 - 200
DJ $200 (for 2 ppl) + dinner
Photo $150 - 200 (for 2 ppl)+ dinner
Video $75 - 100 (1 guy) + dinner
Day Limo $50-100
Pick-up Limo $50 (after Reception)
Florist $20.00 (delivery guy)
Total $1220 - $1570
hsacks23r
Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:14 AM+

Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:14 AM
Re: The TIPPING subject.....
Posted by kase21
This is what I have so far....
Tipping is subject to change.....
Maitre'd $525 -700 (175 @ $3 & $4 - could be more or less)
Bridal Attendant $150 - 200
DJ $200 (for 2 ppl) + dinner
Photo $150 - 200 (for 2 ppl)+ dinner
Video $75 - 100 (1 guy) + dinner
Day Limo $50-100
Pick-up Limo $50 (after Reception)
Florist $20.00 (delivery guy)
Total $1220 - $1570![]()
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your tiping amount is much higher then mine, AM I being cheep??? both the dj and photo own the business and are doing the gigg....the video poeple in my opinion realy dont have that hard of a job...
do you think my tipping amounts are ok??
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