I've seen this happen to other people but I never expected to see it on one of my RSVPs!!

Someone added their child (about 4 or 5 years old) who was not invited!! She wrote Mr. and Mrs. X and son X!! Actually put an exclamation point at the end, underlined son X, and wrote a 3 and circled it! I was totally shocked! I feel like she could have at least called and asked. Unbelieveable!

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How rude!!! Are you gonna let her bring him?

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Posted by MattsBride

Someone added their child (about 4 or 5 years old) who was not invited!! She wrote Mr. and Mrs. X and son X!! Actually put an exclamation point at the end, underlined son X, and wrote a 3 and circled it! I was totally shocked! I feel like she could have at least called and asked. Unbelieveable!

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Wow, that is extra ballsy to be underling and exclamation pointing! Rude!

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Posted by Jackie&Justin

How rude!!! Are you gonna let her bring him?

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Yeah, we are just not saying anything, but it was unbelievably rude!

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wow! some nerve!!! same thing is happening to me...my cousin wants to bring his 3 kids to the wedding...what does he think i'm made of money?!?!?!?

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that is sooo rude!!
i'm so sorry!!

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I would have a FIT!!!

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Yikes!! We made it clear that chidren were not invited, but I guess you never know. I'm sorry

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I am sorry but that is horrible. People have some nerve. You would think that they would want an 'adult night' or a break from the kids for 1 night. Well - they should pay for 3 people then if they took the liberty of inviting the third

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Posted by Suzannebride

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Posted by MattsBride

Someone added their child (about 4 or 5 years old) who was not invited!! She wrote Mr. and Mrs. X and son X!! Actually put an exclamation point at the end, underlined son X, and wrote a 3 and circled it! I was totally shocked! I feel like she could have at least called and asked. Unbelieveable!

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Wow, that is extra ballsy to be underling and exclamation pointing! Rude!

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I know, I felt like I was being yelled at! I guess she was mad that I didn't invite him, but we didn't invite any children except for the ones in the BP and FH's first cousins.

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Posted by chesca

I am sorry but that is horrible. People have some nerve. You would think that they would want an 'adult night' or a break from the kids for 1 night. Well - they should pay for 3 people then if they took the liberty of inviting the third

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Yeah, my mom said they better give a gift for him too!

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Wow, that's nervy!!!! How dare they?!

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Posted by MattsBride

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Posted by chesca

I am sorry but that is horrible. People have some nerve. You would think that they would want an 'adult night' or a break from the kids for 1 night. Well - they should pay for 3 people then if they took the liberty of inviting the third

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Yeah, my mom said they better give a gift for him too!

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What are you going to do now if other parents come and see another kid there?

I would not let these people get away with that,

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The fact that they underlined and circled it would've made me so mad. If someone did that to me, there's no way they'd be allowed to bring their kid. It's one thing to ask, but what they did was extremely rude.

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Posted by BHW

The fact that they underlined and circled it would've made me so mad. If someone did that to me, there's no way they'd be allowed to bring their kid. It's one thing to ask, but what they did was extremely rude.

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Omg so true without a doubt! I would NEVER let that kid come at this point and I would uninvite the parents as well. Talk about RUDE!

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Posted by MattsBride

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Posted by Jackie&Justin

How rude!!! Are you gonna let her bring him?

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Yeah, we are just not saying anything, but it was unbelievably rude!

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Yeah I wouldn't say anything either. RUDEEEEE Let them circle & underline.. They are the ones who will have to chase after their rugrat!! lol

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I'm curious as to how you're going to handle this! What NERVE.... I sometimes wonder if people even realize how insensitive and rude they are....ugh.

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Posted by Jen2999

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Posted by MattsBride

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Posted by chesca

I am sorry but that is horrible. People have some nerve. You would think that they would want an 'adult night' or a break from the kids for 1 night. Well - they should pay for 3 people then if they took the liberty of inviting the third

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Yeah, my mom said they better give a gift for him too!

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What are you going to do now if other parents come and see another kid there?

I would not let these people get away with that,

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I thought about that. All of the children in my immediate family are in the wedding party. FH has a cousin that has 2 kids we didn't invite and I feel bad. I talked to FMIL today and she said they won't know that this boy isn't a first cousin, so she said not to worry about it.

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Wow.. to circle it and put a !... that is a bold guest!

I had one of FH mom's friend making travel plans with their son (older than us) when he wasnt even on the guest list.. then FMIL fwd'd me an email saying oh they think he is invited.. i am like well you know he is not y are you telling me this.. explain to them FH hasnt seen your friend's son in about 15yrs nor do they talk or email.. y would he be invited.. no offence but we have cut off some of our friends and we are supposed to add your friends son!?!?!

dont ya just love the wedding list!

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Posted by ginny26

I'm curious as to how you're going to handle this! What NERVE.... I sometimes wonder if people even realize how insensitive and rude they are....ugh.

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We decided just to ignore it and let them bring him. Everyone else in their family is coming, so I guess they have no one to watch him. If she had called and said this to me I probably would have said yes anyway. I just don't like the way it was done.

The boy's cousin is in the bridal party. They are acually my brother's in-laws. I know he would stick up for me and it would start a huge fight in their family. We decided it's not worth the drama. Nothing will ruin our day!