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Has anyone done a sand pouring ceremony instead of a unity candle?
LisaJill
Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:10 AM+

Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:10 AM
Has anyone done a sand pouring ceremony instead of a unity candle?
I really love the idea, my fh is not soo thrilled. We actually got engaged on the beach and when he proposed he collected sand into a jar so we could use that sand. anyone seen it done? Anyone have pictures???TIA!
It goes like this:
Sand Ceremony as an Alternative to the Unity Candle
If you choose not to use a Unity Candle during your ceremony, the sand ceremony can be a beautiful and meaningful addition to your vows. Simply find three containers, one for you and your fiancé to pour the sand into, two for each of you to pour the sand from. You may wish to leave a small amount of sand in each container to symbolize that although you are now joined as one, you each remain individuals.
and they would say:
Bride and Groom, you have just sealed your relationship by giving and receiving of rings and this covenant is a relationship pledge between two people who agree that they will commit themselves to one another throughout their lives. You are committing here today to share the rest of your lives with one another. Today, this relationship is symbolized through the pouring of these two individual containers of sand into a third one. One, representing you, bride, and all that you were, all that you are, and all that you will ever be. One, representing you, Groom, and all that you were, all that you are, and all that you will ever be. As these two containers of sand are poured into the third container, the individual containers of sand continue to exist, but a third entity is also created; one which did not exist before but one which will forever more continue to be
laural2979
Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:10 AM+

Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:10 AM
Re: Has anyone done a sand pouring ceremony instead of a unity candle?
We're planning on doing it. Our ceremony will be outside and I don't want to risk having the candle blow out.
MJDoc12
Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:15 AM+

Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:15 AM
Re: Has anyone done a sand pouring ceremony instead of a unity candle?
we too are doing the sand ceremony. we bought a cute double heart glass container to pour the sand into for it.EPA:

tropicalbride07
Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:19 AM+

Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:19 AM
Re: Has anyone done a sand pouring ceremony instead of a unity candle?
we are!
seta
Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:20 AM+
Re: Has anyone done a sand pouring ceremony instead of a unity candle?
my friend this , this past weekend and it was beautiful!
LisaJill
Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:23 AM+

Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:23 AM
Re: Has anyone done a sand pouring ceremony instead of a unity candle?
where did you get your jars?
tropicalbride07
Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:27 AM+

Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:27 AM
Re: Has anyone done a sand pouring ceremony instead of a unity candle?
michaels had a pretty frosted jar with a cork top.
cjb88
Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:31 AM+

Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:31 AM
Re: Has anyone done a sand pouring ceremony instead of a unity candle?
we did it
hmpena
Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:38 PM+

Posted: Jul 07, 2006 11:38 PM
Re: Has anyone done a sand pouring ceremony instead of a unity candle?
My sister did a sand ceremony at her wedding.
October Bliss
Posted: Jul 08, 2006 12:22 PM+

Posted: Jul 08, 2006 12:22 PM
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