I am FREAKING OUT...UPDATE

Ok 2 weeks before the wedding...2 friggin weeks!!!!!!!!! Everyone except a couple of my bridesmaids, decide that my make-up and hair person is too costly for them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now I have to manipulate and maneuver things so that they'll friggin work out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I've had it...Im reaching my breaking point!

UPDATE

Its all settled...I dont have to worry about my hair nor make-up...mom and three BMs came to the rescue and made it all better! But oh what a day it was...

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I am so sorry your BM are being difficult. But I can relate. Mine are being the same way. I am having a difficult time understanding why I have to accomadate everyone else
shouldn't it be all about the bride????

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just breathe! i understand completely how you feel but remember that in the end, everything will work out!

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Syl-You are using Jenn & Oksana, they are the sweetest. Talk to them & let the know the situation, I am sure they will understand. As for the BMs tell them that they are on their OWN & you DON'T need this DRAM right now!!

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They effed me up COMPLETELY!!!!!!!!!!

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My BM's flaked out on me the week before as well. I called Mia and told her the situation, and she was fine with it. She still came earlier, and when they saw her do one of the BM's they instantly wanted it done.

Let them know it's for your and their convenience, and that you don't expect a gift from them....to help w/the cost.

The price their paying is the NORM!!!! They go to any other salon outside it will be more.

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Sylvia, calm down luv.

you know, when it comes down to it, you can only worry about yourself. you chose GROWN women to be in your BP. let THEM figure out how they are getting their hair and make up done. they've known about this for months..

I am so sorry you are dealing with unnecessary drama right now. sometimes you rely on people and they let you down when you need them most

two days until

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hey calm down.....your wedding day will turn out great. dont stress about who is making who pretty. as long as your going 2b sitting pretty - that is all that matters....

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Thanks ladies...Im going to talk to Oksana and Jen and see if I can work something out with them...I am a complete wreck right now...who the heck knew that I'd be dealing with this now...oh and thank God I bought this up to everyone TODAY...otherwise I probably would be dealing with this Thursday the 31st!

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You have every right to be frustrated...but it may help if you offer to pay the difference between what it cost and what they think they should be paying. This will only save you aggrvation.

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

Thanks ladies...Im going to talk to Oksana and Jen and see if I can work something out with them...I am a complete wreck right now...who the heck knew that I'd be dealing with this now...oh and thank God I bought this up to everyone TODAY...otherwise I probably would be dealing with this Thursday the 31st!

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very true - better these people back out now....not that you look like a fool the day of your wedding or something.

oh miss sylvia!! your day is going 2 b great!!! you waited a long time for this to come!! i wish you the best of everything with mike!!

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

Thanks ladies...Im going to talk to Oksana and Jen and see if I can work something out with them...I am a complete wreck right now...who the heck knew that I'd be dealing with this now...oh and thank God I bought this up to everyone TODAY...otherwise I probably would be dealing with this Thursday the 31st!

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very true - better these people back out now....not that you look like a fool the day of your wedding or something.

oh miss sylvia!! your day is going 2 b great!!! you waited a long time for this to come!! i wish you the best of everything with mike!!

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Aww Trish you're so sweet...although I feel like barfing now...

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no barfing!

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

Thanks ladies...Im going to talk to Oksana and Jen and see if I can work something out with them...I am a complete wreck right now...who the heck knew that I'd be dealing with this now...oh and thank God I bought this up to everyone TODAY...otherwise I probably would be dealing with this Thursday the 31st!

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very true - better these people back out now....not that you look like a fool the day of your wedding or something.

oh miss sylvia!! your day is going 2 b great!!! you waited a long time for this to come!! i wish you the best of everything with mike!!

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Aww Trish you're so sweet...although I feel like barfing now...

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just wait until Thursday. we can ALL share some horror stories with you..

like how my 'friend' didn't finish my bm's dresses until the DAY OF my wedding...or how my mom decided she needed to stay at her house with her bf so he wouldn't go HOME instead of attending my wedding (b/c he apparently wouldn't go 'alone') so she didn't get her hair or m/u done, didn't help me get dressed or any of the 'mother' things you'd expect...

blah blah blah..the list is endless...point being..you will have a FABU day even WITH all the BS drama that comes with dealing with other people...especially (and God forgive me) with other women...

if they don't want to spend the $$ and risk being immortalized looking half-a$$sed in their awesome dresses, that is THEIR problem..you, my luv are going to look FABULOUS!

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I will do it for you! I know how you feel-don't stress it. On 9/1 it's all about you kid!

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

no barfing!

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agreed. this is so minor in the grand scheme of things...only 2 of my BMs wanted to spend the money on hair and makeup. everyone ended up looking amazing!

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i swear ... i have said this a million times people do not know how to act.... im sure they knew you were getting married or maybe did they forget... why didnt they just put a few $ away each week... i mean i know everything is expensive but come on now good luck!

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SO sorry you're dealing with this sweetie. Like everyone said, it's better you find out now. You're going to be a beautiful bride and once you see Mike standing there waiting for you, all of this will just melt away!

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hug: Don't let them get to you sweetie!