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ok i had my engagement part back in july and just got pics from a bunch of girls from work and my fmil and boy was i not happy!!! the girls from work were acting like a$$holes!! excuse my french but i got yelled at from my fmil and my own mother that day for there behavior and i was so lost cause i had 130 people to talk to and wasnt with them all night. now ive been to a wedding with them in july before my engagement party and saw how they acted there and it was to late to disinvite them( i know that sounds wrong but you have no idea what they were doing!!) they were humping the floor a girl was faking giving her BF a blowjob( sorry ladies if im a little graphic) faking an orgasim. screamin and acting like 10 yr olds and these girls are 24 25 30 all over in ages and actin like this at a wedding so the bride came over and asked them to stop and they didnt. she didnt know what to do. i would of kicked them out! so at my engagement party my mom said she spoke to them and they calm down, but what i didnt know is that they went in front to act dumb and take dumb pics in front of my FH house with all the kids playing basketball out there. they dont act like this at work and never thought they would be this out of control at a engagment party or a wedding. ive been out with then tons of times and never did they get this out of hand. i dont want them at my wedding and they were at my engagment party and they know when the wedding is. how do i tell them they arent invited?? am i wrong im just scared on what they will do. i mean come on my mother had to tell them to calm down 25-30 yr olds?!WHAT SHOULD I DO!! AM I WRONG FOR FEELING THAT I DONT WANT THEM AT MY WEDDING?!
here is two pics! they are much worse. wish you could see there faces they had on!! thre are tons more!! cant post them tho sorry

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I replied on the BHB board!

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OMG I cannot even believe what I just saw, and the worst part is the one pic with the family sitting behind them!!
Their behavior is absolutely unacceptable and you are not wrong for feeling the way you do!

I think that you do not need this type of shenanigans at your wedding at all! Distance yourself from them (personally I would not even speak to them again) and if they should require an explanation as to why they are not invited (which they absolutely do not need or deserve) say you had you cut your guest list do to your budget being over or something along those lines!

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I JUST WOULD NOT INVITE THEM TO THE WEDDING AND SAY SOMETHING LIKE................. I HAD TO X OUT PEOPLE DO TO THE FACT THE LIST WAS TOO LONG AND IT WAS GETI=TING EXPENSIVE I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND.. I WOULD NOT WANT THAT AT MY WEDDING!!!

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i agree, obviously don't invite them and tell them you had to cut your list

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they do not deserve a reason as to WHY they are not invited with that type of behavior.

just don't invite them and when they ask 'why' tell them you had to cut the guestlist drastically.

I'm sorry you had to go through that.

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holy crap! I would absolutely NOT invite them to your wedding. what a bunch of idiots

if they can act like that and be so disrespectful, they are NOT your friends.

good luck with whatever decision you make!

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Posted by citycrab705

i agree, obviously don't invite them and tell them you had to cut your list

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I agree - wow I'm so sorry they acted like that at your e-party.