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FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Invites are almost done woohoo
Member since 5/07 10609 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/2/2009 11:30 AM
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Swan Club
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RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?
There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given by the Chinese.....
Thumb represents your Parents
Second (Index) finger represents your Siblings
Middle finger represents your self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner
and the Last (Little) finger represents your children
Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers and hold them together - back to back
Secondly, open and hold the remaining three fingers and the thumb - tip to tip
Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents)... they will open, because your parents are not destined to live with you lifelong, and have to leave you sooner or later.
Please join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers (representing siblings).... they will also open, because your brothers and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own separate lives.
Now join the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers (representing your children)...., they will open too, because the children also will get married and settle down on their own some day.
Finally, join your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers (representing your spouse).
You will be surprised to see that you just CANNOT.....because Husband and Wife have to remain together all their lives - through thick and thin!!
Neat, huh?
(Wonder how many of you actually tried this).
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Posted 7/23/07 1:45 PM 
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FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Invites are almost done woohoo
Member since 5/07 10609 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/2/2009 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
I took me a while to figure out how to do this, (I'm slow I guess  ) But it is truly amazing
Try it out!!!
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Posted 7/23/07 1:47 PM
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DonnaPWhite1124
Been known to fry a panel or 2
Member since 5/07 2585 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/3/2009 3:00 PM
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Booked! HOO-RAH!
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
I think its funny that the middle finger represents us!
And no doubt its the finger i use towards other people to express my reactions to them!!
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Posted 7/23/07 1:57 PM
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FinallyEngaged
I AM MARRIED!!!!!
Member since 6/07 4861 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/8/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Russo's on the Bay
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
OMG i am sitting at my desk with my hands together doing this.... my co-workers are going to think i am nuts!
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Posted 7/23/07 1:59 PM
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GT143EA
All major vendors booked!
Member since 12/05 4284 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/19/2009 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
The Most Beautiful Place!
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Posted by DonnaPWhite1124
I think its funny that the middle finger represents us!
And no doubt its the finger i use towards other people to express my reactions to them!!
Thats hysterica Donna!!!!!!!!
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Posted 7/23/07 2:12 PM
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kabo0831
Almost paid off!!!!
Member since 5/07 8060 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/24/2009 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Meadow Club
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
wow i always wondered, LOL that is pretty cool
thanks for that. 
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Posted 7/23/07 2:17 PM
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TlovesD
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Member since 3/07 743 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/1/2009 12:00 AM
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
That is really cool..very beautiful explanation
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Posted 7/23/07 2:41 PM
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Ann 52409
I cant be without my babyyyyyy
Member since 6/07 5267 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/24/2009 12:00 AM
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beautifulllllllllllll
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Wow... I just did this with FH, It really works. Its a great explanation
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Posted 7/23/07 5:45 PM
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rsolano222
Can't wait to be his Mrs!
Member since 11/06 1250 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/28/2009 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
I love that explanation. It took me a while to get it also! lol
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Posted 7/23/07 5:48 PM
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dazies1011
Christmas is COMING!!!!! :)
Member since 6/07 12749 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/27/2009 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Riviera
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Trying to do it now!!!
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Posted 7/23/07 6:02 PM
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HotAir
Ordered my Save the Date!
Member since 11/06 3740 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/17/2009 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind Estate
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Should I be worried that I can seperate all of them?
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Posted 7/23/07 8:28 PM
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FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Invites are almost done woohoo
Member since 5/07 10609 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/2/2009 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Posted by HotAir
Should I be worried that I can seperate all of them?
Hahaha Yeaaaaa That might be a problem...
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Posted 7/23/07 8:35 PM
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HotAir
Ordered my Save the Date!
Member since 11/06 3740 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/17/2009 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind Estate
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Looks like I might be at a higher risk for divorce.
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Posted 7/23/07 8:44 PM
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DINAAMATUCCIO
He makes me nuts! but I <3 him
Member since 5/07 2056 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/8/2009 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Russo's!!!
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
After I did it myself looking like a retard at the computer I showed FH and him and my son are sitting on the couch doing it too laughing!!!
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Posted 7/23/07 8:46 PM
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FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Invites are almost done woohoo
Member since 5/07 10609 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/2/2009 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
OMG I read your original post all wrong!!!!!! I thought you said that you couldnt separate any of them!!!!!!
UGH... I'm sorry!!!! hahah I just said you were set up for divorce.. wow thats bad 
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Posted 7/23/07 8:46 PM
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FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Invites are almost done woohoo
Member since 5/07 10609 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/2/2009 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO
After I did it myself looking like a retard at the computer I showed FH and him and my son are sitting on the couch doing it too laughing!!!
Did it work for you guys?!?!? Cuz a girl on the 08board was able to pull the ring fingers apart too like hotair
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Posted 7/23/07 8:48 PM
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TlovesD
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7/1/2009 12:00 AM
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
I tried it and it worked for me!
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Posted 7/23/07 8:53 PM
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DINAAMATUCCIO
He makes me nuts! but I <3 him
Member since 5/07 2056 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/8/2009 2:00 PM
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Russo's!!!
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO
After I did it myself looking like a retard at the computer I showed FH and him and my son are sitting on the couch doing it too laughing!!!
Did it work for you guys?!?!? Cuz a girl on the 08board was able to pull the ring fingers apart too like hotair
Yep it worked for all of us ... FH couldnt take apart his pinkies either ..(Because he broke them a while back) so I guess the kids are never leaving home!!!
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Posted 7/23/07 9:04 PM
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HotAir
Ordered my Save the Date!
Member since 11/06 3740 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/17/2009 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind Estate
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
WAIT - I'm dumb - I didn't do it right! I can't seperate them now. Looks like there isn't a divorce in my future. lol
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Posted 7/23/07 9:06 PM
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FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Invites are almost done woohoo
Member since 5/07 10609 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/2/2009 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO
Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO
After I did it myself looking like a retard at the computer I showed FH and him and my son are sitting on the couch doing it too laughing!!!
Did it work for you guys?!?!? Cuz a girl on the 08board was able to pull the ring fingers apart too like hotair
Yep it worked for all of us ... FH couldnt take apart his pinkies either ..(Because he broke them a while back) so I guess the kids are never leaving home!!!
Oh boy!!! You poor poor thing!!!! I should ask my aunt & uncle to do it cuz 1 of their kids is almost 30 and still at home
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Posted 7/23/07 9:44 PM
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FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Invites are almost done woohoo
Member since 5/07 10609 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/2/2009 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Posted by HotAir
WAIT - I'm dumb - I didn't do it right! I can't seperate them now. Looks like there isn't a divorce in my future. lol
Thank god!!! You got me scared for a sec 
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Posted 7/23/07 9:44 PM
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MrsDrinkh20
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Member since 5/07 6800 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/3/2009 7:30 PM
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a lovely place
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Oh that is so sweet...FH and I just tried it together..I LOVE IT!
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Posted 7/23/07 9:55 PM
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FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Invites are almost done woohoo
Member since 5/07 10609 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/2/2009 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: RP from 08... Diff Reason Why Wedding Ring is Worn on 4th Finger!!!!!
Haha I had to call FH and explain it to him over the phone and he totally couldnt get what I wanted him to do with his hands hahahahah
But he finally got it... and at first he tells me that he can separate his ring fingers so i got mad... hahaha But then he said his middle fingers came apart so that didnt count... he redid it and he struggled to get them apart... So now I'm happy again...
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Posted 7/23/07 10:17 PM
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