Trying and Trying... Is it not meant to be

DH and I are trying and trying. I have tried the ovulation kit and nothing. I thought for sure this was the month then bam 2 days late and aunt flow shows up. Im getting really discouraged. me having all this trouble does this mean if and when i do concieve i will have trouble keeping it.

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I know what you're going through. DH & I have been trying for a year now and every month I think this it it and no. I have a gynecologist appt. on the 17th and I'm going to ask them to maybe start testing me to see if everything is ok.

I will say some prayers for you & DH that you get your wish very soon!!

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Don't be discouraged...I know that is easier said than done....because at times I feel the same way...but we have to be positive....

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We JUST started trying, 3 months in and still no luck... (Aunt Flow came 2 days ago) :(

Anyway, we haven't used anything in 2 years, we were okay with whatever happened... and NOTHING happened! So now that we're ready, I made an appt. and spoke with my Doctor... I want to find out now if we have problems, not a long time from now... I just went for a blood test today we'll see...

Talk to your doctor...

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Do you have the book Taking Charge of your Fertility? I'm a physician assistant and that is the book they told us about in school. Also I have heard that taking robitussin can help because it thins out cervical mucous. I don't know who long you have been trying but it may make you feel better to know that it takes the average couple 6 months to get pregnant. Good Luck!

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makes you wonder about all these young young girls getting pregnant... 'i only did it once'...

makes me cringe LOL

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Dont stress it (i know, easier said then done) but trust me...Ive known of 2 people who have tried for years, then stopped trying and then BAM! Preggo! dont lose hope

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I am so upset. I have been trying for 6 months. I am hoping that this will be the month. I am on day 21 and on day 33 I will test to see if i am PG. Each month i feel like I am PG and aunt flow comes. I really feel a little different this month. I dont really know what i am suppose to feel. I just know that my boobs hurt like i am gonna get my period. so that makes me dicouraged.

Re: Trying and Trying... Is it not meant to be

how long have you been trying?

have you spoken to your dr.?