So....Fh and i decided where we are living after the wedding........

We are moving into his parents basement. It not quite what i wanted but its gonna be cheap lol.
Steves mom was put in a nursing home 2 weeks ago and his dad is home alone now. We were gonna talk to his dad about it but he brought it up first, and we figured it will be better for him to have people around. So we are gonna fix the basement up a bit and move my stuff over there closer to the wedding. Eventually we are gonna get the house so we might as well be there, his dad is in his 80's so we will feel better living there just in case something ever happened to him someone will be around. So at leat now we know where we are gonna be living. We will be sharing the kitchen and bathroom with his dad but the basement has a washer dyer, bed room and living room area...so it works for me. 1 stressful thing off my mind!

Message edited 12/15/2007 11:24:51 AM.

Re: So....Fh and i decided where we are living after the wedding........

That's good to know! I'm sure it will keep FFIL's spirits up having people around too!

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i'm sorry to hear about FMIL....but at least you will be there to keep FFIL company - that'll be really great for him!!!

I'm glad to hear you have progress on this front -

If you need help moving or anything - please ask!

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Thanks ladies....i never really got along with his mom but his dad and I get along pretty well...he pretty much accepts me for me not like his mom, so im a little bit better going into this with her not being there as horrible as that sounds. I will feel alot better knowing we were around his dad thru all of this. Its hard especially because they are so much older. I think Steve and I would worry alot about him. So we wont have to worry so much and he won't be lonely!

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Thanks Jess will do!

PS did your package come that i sent you? I ordered something for me and it came yesterday so i was hoping you got yours

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Posted by angl2001

Thanks Jess will do!

PS did your package come that i sent you? I ordered something for me and it came yesterday so i was hoping you got yours

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its nothing big dont worry ! lol

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Heather, I'm sorry to hear about your FMIL.
Glad that you guys have your living situation figured out though. It's one less thing to worry about. It'll also be good for your well being to not be worrying about your FFIL all the time too.
If you need help with anything let me know.

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Sorry to hear about FMIL!!!
I think its great to move in with FFIL... Helps to keep him sane too...
YAY to 1 less stressful thing!!!!!

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Read what you wrote I think thats a great idea...

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um gee does that mean one of the cars you will be using moving day would be your red minivan??? LMAO

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Posted by MeaganAndJoeC

Read what you wrote I think thats a great idea...

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Re: So....Fh and i decided where we are living after the wedding........

Thats great!!!!

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I am so sorry to hear about FMIL but I am glad to hear that the living situation has been resolved. If you need any help moving, let me know!

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so sorry about your FMIL, but I'm sure it will be great living together!!

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awesome! im happy you were able to get some stress off your back! hey, we're gonna live in my parents' basement (i have a full brand-new apartment in it) until we can get our own place too...