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jcslady
matron of honor...next!
Member since 7/07 2447 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/11/2008 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Mezzanine
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since people cannot manage to
put the f...n RSVP in the mail!! when should i make that phone call??
how sad...
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Posted 9/4/08 12:56 PM 
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ammie1016
Board Fanatic
Member since 9/07 852 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/12/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
CHECK
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Re: since people cannot manage to
I am giving them a week after the RSVP, then making the calls.
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Posted 9/4/08 1:01 PM
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08JulyBride
:o)
Member since 1/07 1193 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/20/2008 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Bellport Country Club...A+
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Re: since people cannot manage to
how far past your RSVP date are you?
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Posted 9/4/08 1:02 PM
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ttw910
Married!
Member since 8/07 1224 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/26/2008 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Hamlet Golf & Country Club
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Re: since people cannot manage to
I said I was going to give people a week after the RSVP date to start calling, but within that week I received all of the remaining RSVP's, so I didn't have to call anyone.
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Posted 9/4/08 1:02 PM
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jcslady
matron of honor...next!
Member since 7/07 2447 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/11/2008 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Mezzanine
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Re: since people cannot manage to
Posted by 08JulyBride
how far past your RSVP date are you?
about a week!
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Posted 9/4/08 1:07 PM
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jennarose023
I'm the new Mrs. Po!!!
Member since 1/08 2639 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/18/2008 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Gurney's Inn
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Re: since people cannot manage to
Posted by jcslady
Posted by 08JulyBride
how far past your RSVP date are you?
about a week!
i would start calling/emailing...it would drive me nuts!
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Posted 9/4/08 1:17 PM
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Kerin2804
Married !!
Member since 12/07 2755 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/27/2008 6:15 PM
Wed. Location:
WSCC
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Re: since people cannot manage to
We waited a few days after the date. Then I sent an email to a few close friends/family members that I knew I could do this with. The others straggled in and my mom called a few.
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Posted 9/4/08 1:22 PM
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sheyrena1314
Board Fanatic
Member since 4/07 318 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/4/2008 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow Country Club
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Re: since people cannot manage to
don't feel bad - i'm 5 days passed the deadline and still have 90 response cards that need to come back (that's 180 people!)
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Posted 9/4/08 1:33 PM
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bluekat16
194=Y 101=N
Member since 1/08 9679 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/27/2008 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - Dome Room
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Re: since people cannot manage to
I'm soo not looking forward to this part.
I'm sorry you're going through this...def. start calling them.
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Posted 9/4/08 1:35 PM
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sweetdoublenn
MARRIED 2 1/2 MONTHS!
Member since 10/07 3108 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/12/2008 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Meadow Club
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Re: since people cannot manage to
I know how you feel! I felt the same way..I gave them past the rsvp day and made 1 call..if they didn't call back that was it!!!!
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Posted 9/4/08 1:43 PM
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shcole08
offically Mrs. Heinze!
Member since 7/07 2276 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/27/2008 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
the woodlands
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Re: since people cannot manage to
I gave them a week. Still some of them haven't responded to that. UGH,  If they don't respond by the end of the weekend I am putting them down as not coming.
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Posted 9/4/08 2:02 PM
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Kricket212
I am a now Mrs. K. YIPEE!!
Member since 6/08 2361 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/15/2008 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Sand Castle
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Re: since people cannot manage to
I would figure out when you need to came the final payment. If it's the first week of OCt? then I would give them 2 more weeks & then call.
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Posted 9/4/08 2:15 PM
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dante31300
Board Fanatic
Member since 8/06 589 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/4/2008 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
VIP Country Club
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Re: since people cannot manage to
I would start calling and emailing now. It's sad that even with a stamp on the damn thing people find it hard to respond on or before the due date.
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Posted 9/4/08 2:20 PM
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wifetobe
Never sweat the small stuff!!!
Member since 10/07 2605 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/3/2008 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Riviera
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Re: since people cannot manage to
Im not even waiting a week. My date was yesterday.. I emailed a friend today and Im giving my FMIL names of people tonight. FH is going to call his friends Monday.
I only had two people from my side not respond. FH has 40!!!
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Posted 9/4/08 2:23 PM
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emomma17
YAY Proofs are In!!!
Member since 7/07 4544 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/10/2008 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Sans Souci
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Re: since people cannot manage to
Posted by jcslady
put the f...n RSVP in the mail!! when should i make that phone call??
how sad...
I was just going to ask this question!!! My RSVP date was the 1st of the month...I am going to give it this week and than I am officially calling (ok a little lie I made my mother start calling her friends bc she is my mom and I can!). I know I have some time but I don't have time to start figuring out my seating chart the day before the wedding :)...this is what pushes me over the edge. I forget who wrote the RSVP Poem on here, but it should be put into each envelope for people to read!
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Posted 9/4/08 2:26 PM
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stephanienyc2002
Board Fanatic
Member since 12/06 652 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/20/2008 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Garden City Country Club
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Re: since people cannot manage to
i'm going to start calling sat. i'll make my mom call her friends and feel them out. only have about 20 out but that's still a lot and the wedding is in about 2 weeks.
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Posted 9/4/08 2:59 PM
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fujamaga
Board Fanatic
Member since 8/07 751 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/15/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Crest Hollow
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Re: since people cannot manage to
Start calling now and don't put them down as not coming. I did that with one of my RSVP's because I called/emailed, etc and they never responded. Guess who showed up at the wedding....
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Posted 9/4/08 3:07 PM
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KarinAmanda
It's A Sickness!
Member since 3/07 6346 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/10/2008 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club - Camelot
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Re: since people cannot manage to
ugh I hear ya, my RSVP date is 8 days away and HALF MY FREAKING BRIDAL PARTY hasnt bothered to send the RSVP, not to mention our families ....
we are missing about 115 
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Posted 9/4/08 3:13 PM
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BklynBride2Be
I'm Mrs. Fascianella!!!
Member since 4/07 4880 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/15/2008 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow - Garden Terrace
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Re: since people cannot manage to
I'm waiting 5 mailing days for overdue RSVPs and then start calling people.
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Posted 9/4/08 3:36 PM
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JBoothIn2008
I'm a newlywed!
Member since 3/07 9151 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/25/2008 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: since people cannot manage to
My RSVP date is Sept 25. I am going to start making calls on Oct 1.
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Posted 9/4/08 3:41 PM
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pa56
Married!
Member since 5/06 1626 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/4/2008 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
NJ
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Re: since people cannot manage to
My RSVP date is monday Sept 8th and we still have about 35 outstanding (that's 70 people)!!
I am going to wait until the weekend (5-6 days after the deadline) and start emailing people. I am going to tell them that the reception hall needs our final count in a week and we can't make any changes after that. We'll see.
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Posted 9/4/08 3:43 PM
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Gigi08
Married the love of my life!
Member since 3/08 3003 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/14/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's
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Re: since people cannot manage to
I gave it about a week and started calling. Guess what? A couple of the people still never extended the courtesy of a return phone call...how 'bout that! I just found out a couple of nights ago that the last person we were waiting on is not coming...what was so hard to put the card in the mail?
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Posted 9/4/08 3:47 PM
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eleven29bride
Cant believe we are married!
Member since 8/07 1203 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/29/2008 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Bayview House
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Re: since people cannot manage to
MAybe I am weird, but I am not calling anyone. Let the RSVP date come and go.. I am not calling you.
I will just take it that you are not coming, and that is fine.
I know my family and friends that I invited are all coming, so I am not worried. But I will be damned if I have to be responsible for these types of people who cant even put a card in the mail.
And if/when they show up to the reception, and there is no place card with their name.... Oh WELL...
I am responsible for everything of that day going right, i just cannot be responsible for guests like that.
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Posted 9/4/08 5:29 PM
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lyss0908
I love being a MRS!
Member since 9/07 2187 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/19/2008 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow-Garden Terrace
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Re: since people cannot manage to
I am a week away from my RSVP date and my mom said she is gonna start calling the very next day!!! I told her to give them at least a week, but I guess she is sort of impatient and can't wait that long. I say you should call, especially if you are a week past your date.
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Posted 9/4/08 5:35 PM
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AlyNJoe
Board Enthusiast
Member since 3/08 134 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/26/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
The Grandview
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Re: since people cannot manage to
UGHHH I feel your pain.
I think its incredibly RUDE and disrespectful that people cannot put the damn thing in the mail. We are about a week past and still missing a few. The worst one -- his mom and stepdad!!! I mean obv I know they are going but come onnnn.
I told my Mom one phone call...if they dont tell us by tomorrow (when we are doing the seating chart) then that's it...I'm considering them a no.
So sorry... too much other stuff to worry about.
Esp when you sent save the dates like a year beforehand!!1
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Posted 9/4/08 10:37 PM
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