NWR Stress

Ok, so I came to the conclusion over this past weekend that my brother is plain crazy. I won't get in detail over it, but I am soo stressed to even go home. I am afraid that he may start to start things with FH and myself again. He has been majorly stressed and trying to take it out on the two of us. He actually wasn't even talking to us all weekend! Such child-play. It's driving me nuts. He will be moving in December, and as screwed up as this sounds, I can't wait for that day to come. He's been acting so shadey to me and FH for the longest. Sorry... just needed to vent this out. I just want the stress to go away... I don't want my brother and FH to start fighting.

I never air out the stupid every-day stuff on here, but I am just soo hurt... my brother just changed so much over the past few months, that I don't really know who he is anymore...

Thanks for listening... Keep me and FH in your thoughts that my brother will just leave us alone! Thanks!

Message edited 10/6/2008 4:06:51 PM.

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im so sorry you are going through this ... can you stay at your Fhs house tonight?

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That ***** you're going through that but you have a good attitude. just lay low. Who knows what he';s going through (not that any of that gives an excuse) hope he lets you in peace and finds his way back to being 'normal'

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Aww... thanks girls. He's just being real nutty lately...and it's mainly since he met this girl over the COMPUTER only 3 WEEKS ago, and is now planning on moving down to the Carolinas to LIVE with her! I have still been acting the same towards him, but he said very hurtful things to us this past weekend. If he wants to turn the rolls around as if we are the wrong ones than I will HAVE to leave.

I don't really want to have to stay at FHs place... he's been living with me for the longest... But if he starts to say things then SURE... We'll pack up and leave, and I really don't care.

I'm just hurt... and freaked out all at the same time. I don't want to be going through this anymore.

He even said he doesn't know if he wants to walk me down the aisle... And that was a knife in the heart!!!

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OMG i am sorry you are dealing with all of this. I wonder why he changed so much ..I really hope he changes his mind about walking you down the aisle... he will always regret that if he doesn't

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Yes, I know... he just goes through these stages. It's funny... my friend asked me how I can live with him and I'm sooo normal, but he's faaaar from it. LOL> Thanks for cheering me up. I'll make do tonight... just like I usually do. I told FH to just ignrore him... hopefully he will and that will makes things a bit better........

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ha didn't you use a poem to ask him to walk you down the aisle?? maybe you should write him a new poem like


I wish I'd get my brother back
because you've gone quite crazy
you used to be fun to have around
but now you're mean and lazy
so though I know that all of life
has clear and stormy weather
right now you're a pain in my A**
so get your s*it together

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I hope things get better for you with your brother. I am so sorry that he knew just the words to hurt you the most (not walking you down the aisle).

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so sorry u r going throught this..hope it all works out for u