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Tired of planning..(vent)

regina2 Posted: Jun 11, 2003 11:48 AM+

regina2 MEMBER SINCE: 12/02 TOTAL POSTS : 1039 WEDDING DATE: Nov 08, 2003

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 11:48 AM

Tired of planning..(vent)

I have 5 months to go until my wedding...any one else hit this point and is kind of tired of the planning already. I've got to admit that I just want to get married and move on with our lives!

Everything seems to be put on hold until we get married...buying a house/condo, taking classes in order to become a teacher. Maybe I'm just getting impatient, I have a low attention span.

Also my FI and BP are not a big help. I have been planning the entire thing by myself for the most part. I asked one BM to order the BM dresses (over two months ago) and guess what I was doing yesterday! Yupp..ordering the BM dresses.

Anyway, 5 more month to go!! Yippee.

kelly6273 Posted: Jun 11, 2003 11:49 AM+

kelly6273 MEMBER SINCE: 2/03 TOTAL POSTS : 4907 WEDDING DATE: Jun 27, 2003

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 11:49 AM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

It goes by fast...try to enjoy it!!!

nrvbrd Posted: Jun 11, 2003 11:51 AM+

nrvbrd MEMBER SINCE: 10/02 TOTAL POSTS : 5249 WEDDING DATE: Sep 06, 2003

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 11:51 AM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

My thoughts exactly.

I really am tired of this planning. My FH and I have been arguing more so now than ever, he does nothing but complain that we do not go out as much anymore.

I just want this to be over with and go back to my normal life.

I am always worried about money!!!

Lunatrek Posted: Jun 11, 2003 11:57 AM+

Lunatrek MEMBER SINCE: 9/02 TOTAL POSTS : 2442 WEDDING DATE: Aug 24, 2003

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 11:57 AM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

I was just saying the same thing last night!!

90% of our planning has been a lot of fun (the other 10% has been STRESS!) but we're both ready to just be Mr. and Mrs. and get on with our future!

Sunny Posted: Jun 11, 2003 11:57 AM+

Sunny MEMBER SINCE: 2/03 TOTAL POSTS : 7281 WEDDING DATE: Oct 04, 2003

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 11:57 AM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

I feel the same way!

goldilocks Posted: Jun 11, 2003 12:20 PM+

goldilocks MEMBER SINCE: 5/03 TOTAL POSTS : 400 WEDDING DATE: May 30, 2004

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 12:20 PM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

Right there with ya!! Fortunately my FI and I are doing everything together (I'm on my own for flowers), but it's so time-consuming! I want to be done! And I haven't even gotten my dress, BM dresses, flowers, invites, honeymoon, I know there's more.
I hate shlepping all over the Island to do stuff.
I've only been planning since March 22 and I'm already tired of it!

At least I'm not the only one!

lltravis Posted: Jun 11, 2003 01:11 PM+

lltravis MEMBER SINCE: 6/02 TOTAL POSTS : 381 WEDDING DATE: Oct 12, 2003

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 01:11 PM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

I hear ya..I feel the same way and there are defintely times i wish we had run away! I am sure looking back we will all be so happy and glad we did it but some days I just can't see, hear or talk about anything wedding related! Glad to know I am not alone!

kelly6273 Posted: Jun 11, 2003 01:17 PM+

kelly6273 MEMBER SINCE: 2/03 TOTAL POSTS : 4907 WEDDING DATE: Jun 27, 2003

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 01:17 PM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

Am I the only one enjoying every minute of it?

reallybehind! Posted: Jun 11, 2003 01:44 PM+

reallybehind! MEMBER SINCE: 1/03 TOTAL POSTS : 1453 WEDDING DATE: Sep 13, 2003

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 01:44 PM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

i'm sick of it too. the only part i've enjoyed so far is picking out my dress. the rest is just a pain in the butt. i'm not really big into to playing hostess even for a simple dinner party though. but only 94 days left!

kal8878 Posted: Jun 11, 2003 01:44 PM+

kal8878 MEMBER SINCE: 5/03 TOTAL POSTS : 148 WEDDING DATE: Jun 11, 2005

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 01:44 PM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

Don't get overwhelmed!! Hang in there and think about what a beautiful day it will be!!!

atlastbride Posted: Jun 11, 2003 06:03 PM+

atlastbride MEMBER SINCE: 11/02 TOTAL POSTS : 156 WEDDING DATE: Oct 25, 2003

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 06:03 PM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

Tired of planning, totally alone with the planning process, and beginning to procrastinate.

WeezieNY Posted: Jun 11, 2003 06:09 PM+

WeezieNY MEMBER SINCE: 2/03 TOTAL POSTS : 1193 WEDDING DATE: Oct 11, 2003

Posted: Jun 11, 2003 06:09 PM

Re: Tired of planning..(vent)

everything seems to be going at a strong pace. I am so glad I heeded my sisters advise not to have the date in 2004 planning for more than one year can get fustrating. we book in December and wed in October so about 10-12 months was good.
The only bad thing is I always have deadlines to meet. Those damm checklists. ahah