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Please post your 'do not play' lists
eternityawaits
Posted: Aug 13, 2003 04:53 PM+

Posted: Aug 13, 2003 04:53 PM
Please post your 'do not play' lists
I have to get my lists together for my DJ, but I keep drawing blanks!!! I'm hoping someone else's list may refresh my memory. Thanks girls!!!
ddunne23
Posted: Aug 13, 2003 04:55 PM+

Posted: Aug 13, 2003 04:55 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
YMCAElectric Slide
Chicken Dance
Macarena
Paradise by Dashboard Light
Hands Up
ETC
No Britney Spears, Boy Bands, Mariah Carey, & Celine Dion
Who let the Dogs Out
ChristineC68
Posted: Aug 13, 2003 04:56 PM+

Posted: Aug 13, 2003 04:56 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
We didn't want the macarena, chicken dance, mariah carey, whitney houston, rap, Boy bands/Bubble gum type music. We also told them no requests from this list which they adhered to.
Deenice
Posted: Aug 13, 2003 05:01 PM+

Posted: Aug 13, 2003 05:01 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
It depends on what you like. I some of the things I had on my 'DO NOT Play list':hokey pokey
Hand ups
Rap, Country songs
Song like that involve things - the macerena - things like that.
My DJ gave me a huge list of song and I had to circle the ones I wanted to hear. I also met with him, I told him the age group: late 20's early 30's and 50 yr old. So play some 50's, 60's 70's disco, techno. I had them play the electric slide and the Taratella ( I am Italian).
I also told him ABSOLUTELY No Requests from anyone just me and the groom - no friends and/or family.
Good luck!
Red30NY
Posted: Aug 13, 2003 05:08 PM+

Posted: Aug 13, 2003 05:08 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
I didn't have so much of a do not play list, mainly because I've always found it annoying when I request songs from a dj and they don't play it. The only song I did ban was the Macarena. I told the dj that if anyone requests it, they should be removed from the room immediately and banned from the reception.
Xelindrya
Posted: Aug 13, 2003 05:34 PM+

Posted: Aug 13, 2003 05:34 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
LOL!!!
banned from the wedding! CUTE
I should think of a list.
Mariah Carey is WAAY out
Anything even closely resembling hip-hop or rap is out
Celion Dion
That song with Michelle Branch and Santana.. GOD HELP Me NO!!! (I like them both, just hate that song)
I'll have to think of more.
Macarena I'm not offended to, too much
or the YMCA. It gets kids and people moving!
Electric silde - out
HearzBellz
Posted: Aug 13, 2003 05:38 PM+

Posted: Aug 13, 2003 05:38 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
same as ddune23 & denice, except we are having country songs b/c FH likes country.We ARE having the Time Warp & the Dollar Wine song... that's it.
No grunge, no hard core Rap or hip hop, no Mariah, Whitney, Celine, Diana Ross, Elton John or any of those other screechy divas.
Um, also no requests..... we do not want our guests to 'take over' our DJ by making requests for songs we don't want to hear. I know it sounds mean, but too friggin bad, it's not their wedding.
silibonz
Posted: Aug 15, 2003 02:19 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2003 02:19 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
Here's mine...I like that HearzBellz.....'Screechy Divas'..I need to add those to mine too!DO NOT PLAY
Eminem Chicken Dance
Whitney Houston Hands Up
Meatloaf Conga Line
Pink Macarena
Billy Joel Mony Mony
Anniegrl
Posted: Aug 15, 2003 02:26 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2003 02:26 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
My D.J. (Spin Around Sound) doesn't play any of the cheesy wedding songs, so that's one of the reasons I hired him!If I had to do a 'Do Not Play' list, it'd be all the stuff that was already mentioned, plus 'Hot Hot Hot' and also 'Celebrate' by Kool and the Gang. Ew!!!!!!!
yabbobay
Posted: Aug 15, 2003 02:33 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2003 02:33 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
I used SAS as well...but I gave him this list to be sure...DO NOT PLAY
Whitney Houston
Mariah Carey
CELINE DION!!!
Gloria Estefan
NO Divas!!
Oh What a night
Who let the dogs out
Wind beneath my wings
Hot Hot Hot, Electric Slide, Macarena, Chicken Dance, Hokey Pokey
Any ballad
Butterfly kisses
I will survive
AC/DC (i.e. you shook me all night long)
Meatloaf
Aerosmith or any “hair” band
Boy Bands
Jennifer Lopez
Ricky Martin
Mony Mony – Billy Idol
Mambo #5
Elton John
Billy Joel
Rap, hip-hop, techno.
Celebration
We are family
Anything after 1990 unless requested on this list
Any grease songs
Jive Bunny
Country
btrflygrl
Posted: Aug 15, 2003 02:45 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2003 02:45 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
No Mariah CareyMichael Bolton
Celine Dion
YMCA
Macarena
Chicken Dance
hands up
no heavy rap
no drug references (obvious ones)
no boy bands
no britney spears, jessica simpson, mandy moore, etc.
And I got roped into allowing Garth Brooks 'I've got friends in low places' for all my FI friends....but we like country music
***no major disco
no Last Dance by Donna Summer
Maribelle7777
Posted: Aug 15, 2003 03:30 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2003 03:30 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
Yabbobaby....no songs AFTER 1990?Was that a mis-type?I actually like alot of those songs. I have to have the Electric Slide since me and my college friends used to do it all the time in college. But no macarena. YMCA...eh...I can take it or leave it. I mean if they play it I can take a pee break at that time or just walk outside. I love Hands Up, I Love 'Shook me all night long', I like Disco and so does FH. He also loves Garth Brooks, 50's, 60's music, loves Elvis so some of his stuff,too.
I am not a big Shake it up Baby fan but I don't mind it played. I don't know. I would rather not hear 'Danny Boy' but if my FFIL or a relative requests it (no friend would dare, thank God) I am not going to tell DJ not to play it. Plus there's going to be some irish music...no reels or jigs but there's a few pieces that have specific dances that go along with them that I know FH's side would want to have and I don't mind at all....I'll probably dance to them myself
But only one or two of those. Last Dance by Donna Summer is a definte, Chicken Dance - again I'll go on a pee break..hee hee. I am not a big Whitney, Celine, Britney or Mariah fan myself, I'll take Celine though for maybe 1 song and possibly Whitney, but I can't think of any Mariah or Britney songs I'd want to hear. I'm more concerned with getting the DJ the irish songs we want to have/need to have than what *not* to play.
WithThisRing
Posted: Aug 15, 2003 03:49 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2003 03:49 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
so far all we thought of is no rap, no organized dancing, no requests, no salsa type music.we also plan on making sure absolutly no who let the dogs out.
3 years ago at our friends wedding the DJ thought it would be cute to change the words to who let the bikers out (it was one of our biker friends weddings) so i told FI under no way will we have that song played at our wedding.
yabbobay
Posted: Aug 15, 2003 04:15 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2003 04:15 PM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
we all have different tastes in music...so what one person wants or doesn't want...doesn't mean another person could feel the same way...the reason behind no songs after 1990 is b/c I had an older crowd at the wedding....and I went to a wedding 3 weeks before...and they started playing club music...I didn't like that...i wanted to make sure that my 75 year old aunt would want to dance the whole night...
my old roommate gave me a lot of slack when she saw my music list...but after the wedding she apologized and raved about the music
YOU know your guests...
soon2bmrs2004
Posted: Aug 16, 2003 08:50 AM+

Posted: Aug 16, 2003 08:50 AM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
no:Macrena ( OMG I hate this song!!!!!)
Electric Slide
Hands Up
Mony Mony
Mariah Carey
Michael Bolton
Meatloaf
KC & the Sunshine Band
Kool and The Gang ( much to my fathers protest)
Anything Disco
Boop2704
Posted: Aug 16, 2003 10:20 AM+

Posted: Aug 16, 2003 10:20 AM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
Definitly out are:Macarena
Electric Slide
Chicken Dance
Hands Up
The Train Song
Anything Lame is out.
No boy band junk. I am also going to tell the DJ to take NO requests from the children at our wedding. I trust the older folks, but since we are having a lot of kids, I don't want any britney, Christina, Justin or American idol stuff happening. I don't want our wedding turning into a club.
eroxgirl
Posted: Aug 16, 2003 10:25 AM+

Posted: Aug 16, 2003 10:25 AM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
I will survive...absolutely cannot be played at my wedding (or anyone's wedding IMO - its a song about breaking up!!)other than that I don't know yet.
Elizabeth
Posted: Aug 16, 2003 11:22 AM+

Posted: Aug 16, 2003 11:22 AM
Re: Please post your 'do not play' lists
I dont remember my DNP list anymore, it's been awhile but I just want to say - I hate that 'Hands Up' song. No offense meant to anyone who loves it.
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