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Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..
curlysue Posted: Aug 23, 2003 10:51 PM+
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Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

I have deposited two checks so far from two couples who were not able to attend. Do I send a thank you card right away or wait till the end when I send out my thank yous to everybody this way they will get a thank you with our picture - what would you do?
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Boop2704 Posted: Aug 23, 2003 10:53 PM+
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Re: Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

I would send one now and then send one out later with the pic. In the second one you could put, Sorry you couldn't be with us, but thank you again for the gift and here is a picture of us on our wedding day. Or something like that.
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swags1016 Posted: Aug 23, 2003 10:54 PM+
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Re: Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

I sent them a thank you immediately! I got cute packaged ones with wedding bands on it!
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butterfly20 Posted: Aug 23, 2003 11:16 PM+
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Re: Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

send one now thanking them for their gift, then after the wedding send athank you with the picture in it
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Xelindrya Posted: Aug 23, 2003 11:31 PM+
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Re: Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

Id send one now.
JMO
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juju Posted: Aug 23, 2003 11:36 PM+
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Re: Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

I would send one now.
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Jen2704 Posted: Aug 24, 2003 12:18 AM+
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Re: Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

I would send one now and send one with the picture later.
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Nora101004 Posted: Aug 24, 2003 07:15 AM+
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Re: Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

Just a reminder: If you send the TY's out now, you use your maden name.
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flower1017 Posted: Aug 24, 2003 12:19 PM+
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Re: Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

I would send one now.
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yabbobay Posted: Aug 24, 2003 01:59 PM+
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Re: Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

If you cashed it...send it now!!! other wise when you get to the 2 week mark...you can hold out and wait until after the wedding...but don't cash it until after the wedding
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Sunny Posted: Aug 24, 2003 02:13 PM+
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Re: Question on receiving a response card of will not attend with a money gift attached..

I have been sending thanks yous as I receive gifts.
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