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Girls is this normal???????

mskittynj Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:28 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:28 PM

Girls is this normal???????

I am SOOOOO nervous about my wedding!!!!! I just booked today and my stomach is in a knot!!!! Is this happening to anyone! My friends say Im crazy my wedding is not till 07!!! But I feel like it will be here in the blink of an eye!!! HELPPP!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty

afrodyt2000 Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:30 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:30 PM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

I don't know what to tell you. I wasn't nervous when we booked or even when we make payments. I'm sure it is normal though. I get excited sometimes when I watch wedding shows and look at other people's pics though.

espresso Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:31 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:31 PM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

Posted by mskittynj

I am SOOOOO nervous about my wedding!!!!! I just booked today and my stomach is in a knot!!!! Is this happening to anyone! My friends say Im crazy my wedding is not till 07!!! But I feel like it will be here in the blink of an eye!!! HELPPP!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty

what about it is making you nervous?

mskittynj Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:32 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:32 PM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

Im afraid for things to go wrong, afraid not enough people will come, afraid it will snow, basically afrais anything bad will happen!
XOXOXO
Kitty

Nic and Ant Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:36 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:36 PM

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I think it's normal to be nervous. My fh and I are paying for alot of the wedding with help from our parents. And I was nervous too when we booked the reception hall cuz it makes it finally sink in that this is real. Especially if your paying for the wedding. Try not to be nervous though it's gonna get alot more exciting. That's how I look at it.

espresso Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:36 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:36 PM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

Posted by mskittynj

Im afraid for things to go wrong, afraid not enough people will come, afraid it will snow, basically afrais anything bad will happen!
XOXOXO
Kitty

oh i'm kind of nervous about that stuff too. i get carried away thinking about things that might go wrong/won't be fun/etc. ...i think that's why its taking me so damn long to pick a hall in the first place!

I think it's normal (to a degree

)

afrodyt2000 Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:53 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 08:53 PM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

I'm a little nervous about those things too but as long as you have your contingency plans ready, you should be fine. We are paying for 90% or more of the wedding ourselve. FSIL and FBIL are paying for our flowers and Limos, everything else is on us. It is a lot to pay for but even if lots of things go wrong, at the end of the day, if you're married then that's all that matters.

lisaslove Posted: Dec 21, 2005 09:39 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 09:39 PM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

thats not crazy. everyone is nervous

Sapphire77 Posted: Dec 21, 2005 09:48 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 09:48 PM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

I was nervous after I signed that contract. To me that was a big step and I was like I'm actually going to get married.

Lissy3077 Posted: Dec 21, 2005 10:01 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 10:01 PM

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i felt like that too!!!

JazzyT Posted: Dec 21, 2005 10:01 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 10:01 PM

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Its normal to be a little nervous, but its also exciting to be getting married

MrsMichel07 Posted: Dec 21, 2005 10:03 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 10:03 PM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

Posted by mskittynj

Im afraid for things to go wrong, afraid not enough people will come, afraid it will snow, basically afrais anything bad will happen!
XOXOXO
Kitty

Hon,...... U ARE NOT ALONE!!!!

MrsMichel07 Posted: Dec 21, 2005 10:04 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 10:04 PM

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Posted by Sapphire77

I was nervous after I signed that contract. To me that was a big step and I was like I'm actually going to get married.

Ness, I was nervous when I signed my contract to......

@ Chad......

PegaLega Posted: Dec 21, 2005 10:32 PM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2005 10:32 PM

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Im sure its normal to be nervous-dont worry though.
Everything will be fine and perfect!!! As long as you dont lose it!

Missladybug15 Posted: Dec 22, 2005 12:13 AM+

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Posted: Dec 22, 2005 12:13 AM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

I hear you I am totally nervous about things going wrong and making sure I have enough time and evrything set up right, it is normal

Nina Posted: Dec 22, 2005 03:40 AM+

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Posted: Dec 22, 2005 03:40 AM

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Normal to be nervous...
Just breathe

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Dec 22, 2005 08:27 AM+

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Posted: Dec 22, 2005 08:27 AM

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I wasn't nervous after we signed the contract. I was estatic. But now figuring everything else out has me stressed. We are here if you need us!

prinses777 Posted: Dec 22, 2005 08:39 AM+

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Posted: Dec 22, 2005 08:39 AM

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The only thing I was nerous about when we gave our down payment... is HOW THE FREAK ARE WE GOING TO PAY FOR THIS WEDDING!!!!!!!!!!!

Making all these down payments, and knowing you need to pay them all off in less then 2 yrs... that makes me nervous...

OUCH>>>> now my tummy hurts!

BernandRob Posted: Dec 22, 2005 09:05 AM+

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Posted: Dec 22, 2005 09:05 AM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

Posted by afrodyt2000

I don't know what to tell you. I wasn't nervous when we booked or even when we make payments. I'm sure it is normal though. I get excited sometimes when I watch wedding shows and look at other people's pics though.

That's exactly how I am I wasn't nervous when I see other peoples pics and watch wedding shows I'm like OMG I can't wait until that's me.

Mel329 Posted: Dec 22, 2005 09:06 AM+

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Posted: Dec 22, 2005 09:06 AM

Re: Girls is this normal???????

I am a worry-wart. I worry about everything. I worry if my vendors will be on time the day of my wedding (and I haven't even booked a vendor yet) I worry what will happen if the photographer's camera breaks, etc. etc. I think being nervous/worrying is all part of getting married. Some people have more anxiety than others, but things will all fall into place.