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I can't even believe I am writing this.....
jimmysgrl
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:06 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:06 AM
I can't even believe I am writing this.....
I started to write you all on Wednesday complaining about how much stress we are under in regards to us moving, putting the house on the market, FH no longer working, and how sad I was that everything was going on with only 4 weeks to the wedding when the worst thing has happened. My FH mother passed away 2 days ago. Completely unexpected with a brain aneurism. No symptoms. No problems. Just passed away. I just cannot even believe. I just can't. It is so overwhelming, so sad, so absolutely horrible that it's just so hard to wrap your heart around. The first thing my FFIL said was that the wedding goes on because Mom was so excited about it and would be so sad to have us postpone it. She is getting buried in the dress she was going to wear. I guess what I'm asking is for some hugs, prayers, and thoughts. With three weeks to the wedding, the funeral arrangements beginning today, I don't know why, but I've been on here for a little over a year and just felt like writing. Love your parents. Love your in-laws. Nothing is certain in life. Hug them all the time and let the small things go. The only thing that matters is family. Thank you everyone.
july06bride
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:08 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:08 AM
Re: I can't even believe I am writing this.....
I am so sorry for your loss and for all the stress you are experiencing.
You are my my prayers
Mrs_B
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:09 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:09 AM
Re: I can't even believe I am writing this.....
OMG Danielle I am soooo sorry for your, and your FH's loss! I cant even imagine what it must be like for you right now.
jennandrob
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:18 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:18 AM
Re: I can't even believe I am writing this.....
I am so so sorry about your loss!
I'm keeping both you and FH in my thoughts and prayers
JimmysBride
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:19 AM+

JimmysBride
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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:19 AM
Re: I can't even believe I am writing this.....
I am so sorry for your loss.
PeterNChris
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:23 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:23 AM
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I am so very sorry.
soon2bmrsdunn
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:29 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:29 AM
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Huge hugs and prayers coming your way. Please let us know if you need anything!!!!!
96to06
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:31 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:31 AM
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You & your FH, and family are definitely in my thoughts & prayers.
DebsNY
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:32 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:32 AM
Re: I can't even believe I am writing this.....
I'm so so sorry
My parents went through a similar situation - my Grandfather passing about about 5 weeks before the wedding.Although it will be sad that his mother isn't there, it will be good to have a happy event.
My thoughts are with you and your families
akaMrsT
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:36 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:36 AM
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So sorry for your loss. An aunt of ours passed away in the same manner - no symptoms at all.
Chelle
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:41 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:41 AM
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Many hugs and prayers and love coming your way.Just remember, she'll be watching over you and your FH and making everything perfect as can be on your special day and for the rest of your lives. You have one very important guardian angel watching over you. She will always be with you.
glinda_goodwitch
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:44 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:44 AM
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I'm so sorry.
beautyq115
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:45 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:45 AM
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Words cannot even express how badly I feel for you
FruNor
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:48 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 08:48 AM
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Oh Danielle I am so very sorry. I know what you are going through. My FI's mom passed away suddenly of the exact same thing 2 years ago. If you need to talk, let me know. I have been there. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Be strong for FH. He needs you now more than ever.
amyg1033
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:00 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:00 AM
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Thank you for writing those words. They are so true and I will take them to heart. Everyone gets so caught up in everyday life that we forget to stop and just be thankful of everything we have. I can't imagine what you and you fh's family are going through right now, but maybe you're wedding will be just what everyone will need to put a smile on their face again. I'm sure you both will take comfort in knowing that she will be watching over you on your wedding day, and every day after. Now you and your family will have a guardian angel with you all the time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and you family.
gigles319
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:00 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:00 AM
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so sorry XOXOXOXOOXOXO
KarAnthony
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:05 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:05 AM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. How tragic.
prncssrachel
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:08 AM+

prncssrachel
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Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:08 AM
Re: I can't even believe I am writing this.....
I am so sorry to hear this. You and your FH will be in my thoughts and prayers.
gina674
Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:09 AM+

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 09:09 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss.... You and your family are in my prayers....
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