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▼ 7132 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 2/28/1998 6:00 PM
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This is a touchy subject. Before the holidays my boss let me know that she had a gift for me but left the card at home and felt really bad about it. We knew we weren't going to see each other for a week and I told her no problem and thanks and I would see her in the New Year.

So here I am back at work. I was out sick yesterday so this is my first full day back. No card as of yet. We did catch up already even though she's been in meetings most of the day.

The ? is, do I say something (my first instinct is absolutely not) She is a very good manager and a fabulous boss so I don't really think she will "forget" to give it to me for long. Would you say something? If so, when?

TIA-this is a hard one!
 
 

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▼ 668 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 11/5/2005 7:00 PM
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I wouldn't say anything... JMO.
 
 
▼ 849 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 5/21/2005 12:00 AM
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Trust your instincts - they're reliable. I wouldn't say anything. JMHO.
 
 
▼ 1295 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 9/10/2005 6:00 PM
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You are questioning yourself whether you should ask your boss "where the gift is she told you she had for you"??

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!
 
 
▼ 3787 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 3/13/2005 5:00 PM
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nope..nada word
 
 
▼ 7132 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 2/28/1998 6:00 PM
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Yep, that is my instinct, not to say a word. Just wanted to confirm my gut.
 
 
▼ 1748 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 5/28/2006 11:45 AM
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Posted by Blu-ize

Yep, that is my instinct, not to say a word. Just wanted to confirm my gut.



Maybe she just forgot.

 
 
▼ 7132 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 2/28/1998 6:00 PM
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Posted by Blu-ize

Yep, that is my instinct, not to say a word. Just wanted to confirm my gut.



Maybe she just forgot.




She definitely did. I remind her of everything at work and personally..I'm her assistant and look after her. This is one area that I'm just going to have to stay away from.

 
 
▼ 7867 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 8/19/2006 6:00 PM
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▼ 2435 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 11/6/2005 5:00 PM
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Posted by Katherine121

Trust your instincts - they're reliable. I wouldn't say anything. JMHO.

I agree. like you said, she's been in meetings all day.

 
 
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▼ 4810 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 4/22/2006 3:00 PM
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Posted by tray831



You are questioning yourself whether you should ask your boss "where the gift is she told you she had for you"??

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!




I MUST AGREE WITH THIS...SORRY

 
 
▼ 2783 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 9/4/2005 12:00 AM
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I would not say anything because I would not want to seem desperate for any gift.
 
 
▼ 7132 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 2/28/1998 6:00 PM
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Thanks for confirming my gut instincts, but I really want to walk in her office and say "show me the money!"

Only kidding...

thanks all for your input.
 
 
▼ 849 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 5/21/2005 12:00 AM
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Posted by Blu-ize

Thanks for confirming my gut instincts, but I really want to walk in her office and say "show me the money!"

Only kidding...






When she realizes she forgot, she'll probably give it to you with profuse and embarrassed apologies.

 
 
▼ 7132 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 2/28/1998 6:00 PM
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Posted by Katherine121

Posted by Blu-ize

Thanks for confirming my gut instincts, but I really want to walk in her office and say "show me the money!"

Only kidding...






When she realizes she forgot, she'll probably give it to you with profuse and embarrassed apologies.




Probably, she was so embarrased that she left it at home before. Of course I acted very non-chalantly. Of course you can give it to me after the new year...blah, blah..

 
 
▼ 2477 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 10/15/2006 11:00 AM
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Posted by ShortBride

I wouldn't say anything... JMO.


Ditto Id wait it out a little while

 
 
▼ 6140 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 6/30/2007 2:45 PM
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i wouldn't say anything!!!
 
 
▼ 1320 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 6/17/2006 7:00 PM
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I wouldn't say anything.

She'll remember eventually, I hope!
 
 
▼ 7132 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 2/28/1998 6:00 PM
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I hope too!
 
 
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aww I guess the best thing to do is not to say anything, but you want your gift, as you should. Maybe when things calm down in your office when she;s around say somthing like o-wow I'm still getting christmas/channuckaha cards
 
 
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▼ 11862 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 5/28/2006 12:00 PM
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▼ 7132 POSTS | WEDDING DATE 2/28/1998 6:00 PM
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I got it...and boy did I get it!

She gave me a beautiful sweater and scarf from Banana Republic and +++++++++++++++++++++++moooooolllllaaaaaaahhhh!
 
 
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I wouldn't. If she has the gift I am sure she will give it to you.
 
 
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