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This is a touchy subject. Before the holidays my boss let me know that she had a gift for me but left the card at home and felt really bad about it. We knew we weren't going to see each other for a week and I told her no problem and thanks and I would see her in the New Year.

So here I am back at work. I was out sick yesterday so this is my first full day back. No card as of yet. We did catch up already even though she's been in meetings most of the day.

The ? is, do I say something (my first instinct is absolutely not) She is a very good manager and a fabulous boss so I don't really think she will "forget" to give it to me for long. Would you say something? If so, when?

TIA-this is a hard one!
 
 

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I wouldn't say anything... JMO.
 
 
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Trust your instincts - they're reliable. I wouldn't say anything. JMHO.
 
 
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You are questioning yourself whether you should ask your boss "where the gift is she told you she had for you"??

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!
 
 
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nope..nada word
 
 
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Yep, that is my instinct, not to say a word. Just wanted to confirm my gut.
 
 
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Posted by Blu-ize

Yep, that is my instinct, not to say a word. Just wanted to confirm my gut.



Maybe she just forgot.

 
 
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Posted by nygirl77

Posted by Blu-ize

Yep, that is my instinct, not to say a word. Just wanted to confirm my gut.



Maybe she just forgot.




She definitely did. I remind her of everything at work and personally..I'm her assistant and look after her. This is one area that I'm just going to have to stay away from.

 
 
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I would say nothing.
 
 
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Posted by Katherine121

Trust your instincts - they're reliable. I wouldn't say anything. JMHO.

I agree. like you said, she's been in meetings all day.

 
 
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I wouldn't
 
 
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You are questioning yourself whether you should ask your boss "where the gift is she told you she had for you"??

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!




I MUST AGREE WITH THIS...SORRY

 
 
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I would not say anything because I would not want to seem desperate for any gift.
 
 
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Thanks for confirming my gut instincts, but I really want to walk in her office and say "show me the money!"

Only kidding...

thanks all for your input.
 
 
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Posted by Blu-ize

Thanks for confirming my gut instincts, but I really want to walk in her office and say "show me the money!"

Only kidding...






When she realizes she forgot, she'll probably give it to you with profuse and embarrassed apologies.

 
 
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Posted by Blu-ize

Thanks for confirming my gut instincts, but I really want to walk in her office and say "show me the money!"

Only kidding...






When she realizes she forgot, she'll probably give it to you with profuse and embarrassed apologies.




Probably, she was so embarrased that she left it at home before. Of course I acted very non-chalantly. Of course you can give it to me after the new year...blah, blah..

 
 
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Posted by ShortBride

I wouldn't say anything... JMO.


Ditto Id wait it out a little while

 
 
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i wouldn't say anything!!!
 
 
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I wouldn't say anything.

She'll remember eventually, I hope!
 
 
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I hope too!
 
 
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aww I guess the best thing to do is not to say anything, but you want your gift, as you should. Maybe when things calm down in your office when she;s around say somthing like o-wow I'm still getting christmas/channuckaha cards
 
 
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nope
 
 
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No, don't say anything.
 
 
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I got it...and boy did I get it!

She gave me a beautiful sweater and scarf from Banana Republic and +++++++++++++++++++++++moooooolllllaaaaaaahhhh!
 
 
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I wouldn't. If she has the gift I am sure she will give it to you.
 
 
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