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JBC12510 Posted: May 10, 2011 09:28 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 09:28 AM

b!tch?

Do you consider yourself a b!tch?

Just wanted to know your thoughts.

I personally am way too nice and I get walked all over. I need to be more of a b!tch sometimes.

AwaitingAugust Posted: May 10, 2011 09:29 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 09:29 AM

Re: b!tch?

i don't consider myself a b!tch at all... but i do stand up for myself when i need to.

2010BTB Posted: May 10, 2011 09:30 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 09:30 AM

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My friends tell me I'm a bish I don't think I'm that bad. Part of it is that I just have a natural bish face. I've been told when people meet me for the first time I just look like a bish but I don't mean to.

Next time you realize that someone might be trying to take advantage of you - take an extra 10 seconds to reply to them and find a nice way to stand up for yourself. Doesn't have to be full out bish on the person but just a little jab at them with a smile can go a long way.

Rosalind_75 Posted: May 10, 2011 09:32 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 09:32 AM

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

i don't consider myself a b!tch at all... but i do stand up for myself when i need to.

same here
im super nice

Byrne2Be Posted: May 10, 2011 09:35 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 09:35 AM

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Nope -- I don't consider myself a b1tch and I've rarely been called one. I, like you, am way too 'nice'...

My manager's recent feedback from a sales day together was that I am 'too nice.'

I just don't really have it in me to be catty or cruel or nasty or aggressive or loud. Well, I can be loud. DH thinks I am the loudest person he's met ha!

I understand the need to be assertive but I just don't really understand when women are straight b1tchy.

AngnShaun Posted: May 10, 2011 09:44 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 09:44 AM

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sometimes...

Clover23 Posted: May 10, 2011 09:51 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 09:51 AM

Re: b!tch?

do i really need to answer this?

kris_gets_hitched Posted: May 10, 2011 10:09 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 10:09 AM

Re: b!tch?

I consider myself more of an '@sshole' than a 'b!tch'.

dctead Posted: May 10, 2011 10:15 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 10:15 AM

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Sure.. I can be a b!tch when I need to be... but I do try not to be...

flibbertigibbet Posted: May 10, 2011 10:21 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 10:21 AM

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

I consider myself more of an '@sshole' than a 'b!tch'.

this.

to me '*****' is a clearly awful 'female' type behaving person.

can i be a *****? yeah. but on a day to day basis, absolutely not.

but i'm pretty much an a-hole every day of my life. albeit -- i'm a pretty friendly a-hole.

ourwedding9510 Posted: May 10, 2011 10:23 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 10:23 AM

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I can be...only when need be...I'm more of a b!tch at work but that's because people are just stupid and I have NO PATIENCE!

I can be SUPER nice and a lot of the time too nice for my own good but if you push me too far or you mess with me or family/friends then you will get my 'b!tch' side!

halfbaked Posted: May 10, 2011 10:25 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 10:25 AM

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I do. Everyone thinks I'm all nice and sweet... until they piss me off.

cateydee Posted: May 10, 2011 10:54 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 10:54 AM

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im a bish at work. because ppl here are ruthless and will do anything to take advantage. I tried being nice but that got me almost fired so now I'm a bish. Sometimes it carries over to my home life, especially when Im driving

AdriandSteve Posted: May 10, 2011 10:57 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 10:57 AM

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Posted by JBC12510

Do you consider yourself a b!tch?

Just wanted to know your thoughts.

I personally am way too nice and I get walked all over. I need to be more of a b!tch sometimes.

This!

MrsSx2 Posted: May 10, 2011 11:05 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 11:05 AM

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Im a ***** at home with DH. I cant help it. I've bene living with him for 10 years..I cant be nice to him all the time lol

I am nice everywhere else! :)

Linzee636 Posted: May 10, 2011 11:28 AM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 11:28 AM

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Posted by JBC12510

I personally am way too nice and I get walked all over. I need to be more of a b!tch sometimes.

ITA with this. However, when I do stand up for myself, I think people think I'm an even bigger b!tch than if I would just always give people an attitude.

I feel guilty when I try to stand up for myself and thereby act like a b!tch, but I think I need to put my foot down. If you don't stand up for yourself, no one will.

Cookie De La Devine Posted: May 10, 2011 01:47 PM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 01:47 PM

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I'm going to 3rd or 4th the Im more of an a-hole than a bish some 90% of the time. My sister however is a biatchhhhhhhh.

Even when shes being sweet and really nice, she comes off as being bishy like. Some people just have that look

BklynBabe1624 Posted: May 10, 2011 02:58 PM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 02:58 PM

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No, far from it. But, I have seriously bad road rage, I wonder what people call me then? I don't think standing up for yourself is considered to be bitchy. I find it to be assertive =)

Fh calls me a tiger, when someone is a moron, I just attack. LOL

Clover23 Posted: May 10, 2011 03:10 PM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 03:10 PM

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Posted by Cookie De La Devine

My sister however is a biatchhhhhhhh. Even when shes being sweet and really nice, she comes off as being bishy like. Some people just have that look

this is totally me. people don't believe i'm sincere when i'm being nice because i still have that 'look'

dh's friends call it the 'death look' lol

T E R I Posted: May 10, 2011 03:38 PM+

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Posted: May 10, 2011 03:38 PM

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Posted by Clover23

Posted by Cookie De La Devine

My sister however is a biatchhhhhhhh. Even when shes being sweet and really nice, she comes off as being bishy like. Some people just have that look

this is totally me. people don't believe i'm sincere when i'm being nice because i still have that 'look'

dh's friends call it the 'death look' lol

I knew Cookie was going to say that about me, but I can be an @sshole too, it depends on the day. I also have a very good 'death look' that comes in handy and Cookie will ask me to give people it sometimes for her