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MrsSx2 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 07:52 AM+

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NWQOTD 2/23/2011

Good morning ladies!!!!!

Today's QOTD is...

What “tricks” do you use to get yourself out of trouble with your DH?

After DH and I have a bad fight..we usually ignore each other. So, to get back on his good side...I try to make little conversations with him about cr@p he loves (and I couldn't care any less about). Then he usually will ramble on and on until he forgets that we were mad at each other. Also, a little sex never hurts either!

SummerBride10 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 08:04 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 08:04 AM

Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

It's not really a trick..but when he gets mad at me I always end up crying. And he doesnt like to see me cry.

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Feb 23, 2011 08:12 AM+

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Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

If we are arguing and Im wrong I'll usually just cool off and say Im sorry and go over and kiss him. He does the same thing. Its the most mature relationship Ive ever had. haha

Future Mrs H Posted: Feb 23, 2011 08:20 AM+

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Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

Posted by MrsSx2

Good morning ladies!!!!!

Today's QOTD is...

What “tricks” do you use to get yourself out of trouble with your DH?

After DH and I have a bad fight..we usually ignore each other. So, to get back on his good side...I try to make little conversations with him about cr@p he loves (and I couldn't care any less about). Then he usually will ramble on and on until he forgets that we were mad at each dother. Also, a little sex never hurts either!

OMG DH and I do the same thing. Just like yesterday when we were fighting he called and told me about the breeder. The fighting just all disappeared.

halfbaked Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:11 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:11 AM

Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

Posted by SummerBride10

It's not really a trick..but when he gets mad at me I always end up crying. And he doesnt like to see me cry.

Same here. That usually stops him in his tracks, not that I use it as a weapon... usually. The other day we were fighting and I went out to do laundry and DH went out to get something for his car. We both came back with each other's favorite candy as a peace offering.

jhines4684 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:55 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:55 AM

Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

I cry, tell him he doesn't love me.

AwaitingAugust Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:09 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:09 AM

Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

i usually do something silly ... like throw the pillow from the couch on him ... or have a staring / no-smiling 'contest' with him .... it usually leads to us both smiling and we're able to just resolve our issues

lisagail55 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:10 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:10 AM

Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

I wish 'tricks' worked on DH. I just have to appologise profusely and let him be for a few hours. Damn hot headed Sicillians!

Im_My_Own_Princess Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:13 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:13 AM

Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

Posted by SummerBride10

It's not really a trick..but when he gets mad at me I always end up crying. And he doesnt like to see me cry.

I wish my DH was like that... if I cry he just yells more, making me cry harder. and I'm a big crier.

honestly, when we fight there is no real way out of it. he's stubborn and wont admit when he's wrong. I'm the same way.. but I usually give in and apologize. but he tells me my apologies are halfassed.
lets say we get into a fight over.... forgetting to return a movie.
rather than saying 'i'm sorry i didn't return it on time' i'll say 'i'm sorry you forgot to remind me to return it on time'

that might not be the best example, because usually its something that we both did or didn't do...

dctead Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:24 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:24 AM

Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

I cry...which usually works..
Or
I just play the unemotional ... 'Fine. You're right, I'm wrong.. Don't worry about it'.... and then he feels all upset and will try to comfort me (cause I don't admit I'm wrong alot... )

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:33 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:33 AM

Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

He plays guitar almost every single day, so if we're both still hurtin' from some b.s. earlier in the day I'll walk in while he's playing and compliment him...or I'll walk in with one of the cats and sing along in a kitty voice. I do these things on a regular basis too, though.

Or...this is mildly retarded but whatever...I'll 'talk through' the cats. As in, I will hold one of the cats and say 'poppa, why you still mad wif meeee?'

bride2be1012 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:35 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:35 AM

Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

I apologize and give him his space. No real tricks sadly.

MrsSx2 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:43 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:43 AM

Re: NWQOTD 2/23/2011

Posted by kris_gets_hitched

He plays guitar almost every single day, so if we're both still hurtin' from some b.s. earlier in the day I'll walk in while he's playing and compliment him...or I'll walk in with one of the cats and sing along in a kitty voice. I do these things on a regular basis too, though.

Or...this is mildly retarded but whatever...I'll 'talk through' the cats. As in, I will hold one of the cats and say 'poppa, why you still mad wif meeee?'

omg thats so cuteeeeeee

Becca2010 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 11:21 AM+

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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 11:21 AM