Spinnoff

there had been a few discussion on LIF about how often your SO pleasures themselves lol

i was just curious how people know how often this happens... do you actually have discussions about it...??

i know it happens but i dont really feel the need to know how many times a week ... im totally happy being kept in the dark about this...

anyone else feel that way too?

Re: Spinnoff

I can usually tell by his recently visisted websites lol.

Re: Spinnoff

I don't discuss it much with DH. Even though I ask him the most rediculous questions about EVERYTHING, this is something I just don't want to go into detail.

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Yeah, I don't need to know. It happens, big whoop, don't need to know any details though.

However, our blinds in our computer room are almost always open and yesterday morning I noticed that they were closed, so there's gotta be a reason why he felt like closing them

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I have no idea and really dont need to know.

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I dont ask. I'm happy not knowing.

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Posted by JBC12510

I dont ask. I'm happy not knowing.

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ita

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I prefer not to know. Unfortunately sometimes I happen to come across his recent downloads......and well, you can use your imagination from there

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OMG...this used to be a BIG problem with us! When we first got together I found out that DH did it a lot more than I thought he did. Pretty much every day that we didn't have sex. It was ridiculous! I was starting to think he had an addiction. I started checking our internet browser history and would see the sites and the times he would visit them. A lot of the times, I noticed that he'd do it after I went to sleep, or before he went to work. I used to nag him a lot for it. It made me feel unwanted and inadequate. Over the years though, I learned to let it go. He doesn't do it as much...and then it takes the pressure off of me to put out as often as he'd like.

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For better or for worse DH and I talk about EVERYTHING.

So yes... lol i know.

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URGH.. stalker

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I think I more likely to than he does!!!
I have more time on my hands...

I am the one most likely to watch porn.

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess

URGH.. stalker

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what is with you and this stalker thing?

I know everything about it although sometimes i wish i didn't

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Posted by SummerBride10

I can usually tell by his recently visisted websites lol.

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Clever.

I have no idea, nor do I care. It's probably more often than I think.

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It's so funny because we just had this convo yesterday. I apologized to him because I haven't been in the mood lately. And he said not to worry about it, that he takes care of himself in the shower. So, I asked him how often and he didn't answer. I am deducing that it's about 2x a day, since he takes 2 showers a day. He's a horndog.

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LOL im crazy about this topic bc ive caught DH in the act! I felt like he was cheating on me with his penis! I blew up like a bomb!
then realized i was being irrational bc i do it too

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Posted by JBC12510

I dont ask. I'm happy not knowing.

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ITA

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yeah i think i know too much.... and i can totally tell...because if im in the mood and all over him, he wont be soo in to it, cuz he already took care of himself

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i dont know when and i would like to keep it that way. i dont really need to know.

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Its the one thing we don't talk about... I don't ask him, he doesn't ask me - and that works out fine for us!