Thanks all!

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Re: OK ladies, please help me out with this situation

I don't think you're a horrible person at all Mer! We all want to know that we are still desirable to other guys and we all crave attention from time to time. I wouldn't say anything to DH either since nothing has happened except maybe some inappropriate comments. DH would only get mad and then make up your mind for you (at least my DH would). My suggestion on this one is to just email the guy and tell him that you want to stay friends but some things make you uncomfortable. You are flattered but you are happily married and just want to keep the friendship for what it is...a friendship...hopefully he gets that.

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Posted by ourwedding9510

I don't think you're a horrible person at all Mer! We all want to know that we are still desirable to other guys and we all crave attention from time to time. I wouldn't say anything to DH either since nothing has happened except maybe some inappropriate comments. DH would only get mad and then make up your mind for you (at least my DH would). My suggestion on this one is to just email the guy and tell him that you want to stay friends but some things make you uncomfortable. You are flattered but you are happily married and just want to keep the friendship for what it is...a friendship...hopefully he gets that.

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ITA with this....
You're not a horrible person!! All of us would like to think that we're still attractive to other men, regardless of being newlyweds.

Nothings happened and there isn't any reason to tell DH (IMO)... but I would email this guy and set things very straight...and that he has to stop if he wants to continue the friendship.


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Re: OK ladies, please help me out with this situation

The attention is a wonderful drug. It feels so good, but not the stuff that comes alongside it.

It's easy to flirt back and it's certainly fun, but I think you have to set this guy straight.

Something like:

'I am extremely flattered that you think I'm a hottie, but I'm happily married! I think you're a really fun guy and you can continue to flirt with me, but It won't go passed that. I am perfectly happy being a c*ck tease.'

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Posted by dctead

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Posted by ourwedding9510

I don't think you're a horrible person at all Mer! We all want to know that we are still desirable to other guys and we all crave attention from time to time. I wouldn't say anything to DH either since nothing has happened except maybe some inappropriate comments. DH would only get mad and then make up your mind for you (at least my DH would). My suggestion on this one is to just email the guy and tell him that you want to stay friends but some things make you uncomfortable. You are flattered but you are happily married and just want to keep the friendship for what it is...a friendship...hopefully he gets that.

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ITA with this....
You're not a horrible person!! All of us would like to think that we're still attractive to other men, regardless of being newlyweds.

Nothings happened and there isn't any reason to tell DH (IMO)... but I would email this guy and set things very straight...and that he has to stop if he wants to continue the friendship.


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What they said.

Re: OK ladies, please help me out with this situation

You're married, not dead.