umm kind of pisssed UPDATE

As you know, grandma passed away last week. One of my 'closer' friends hasnt called, texted, FB'ed, messaged nothing! DH spoke with her hubby because we had to cancel plans for grandma's burial. I cant help but wonder if she's mad at me (about our vacation plans maybe? i vented about this on here before).

Who doesnt call their friend when their grandma dies?

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so literally 2 hours after posting this, i got a message from her. either she's staliking LIW or we're on the same wavelength. Either way, i love you urs!!

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maybe she just feels awkward and doesn't know what to say?

regardless, that's not an excuse.

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ew. even if she was upset over a petty argument about vacation, she should still call. that's not okay.

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umm even if shes mad at you for your vacation plans, i think grandma is a little more important. she should in way shape or form be mad at you for that.

i would call her and see whats up. and tell her that your upset that she hasnt even called

is she a close friend?

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

maybe she just feels awkward and doesn't know what to say?

regardless, that's not an excuse.

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this is what i was thinking.....

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That's terrible!

Even if she's pisssed, it's not about HER. It's about you and your family.

Selfish.

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Posted by little j

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

maybe she just feels awkward and doesn't know what to say?

regardless, that's not an excuse.

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this is what i was thinking.....

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thats weird cuz she's not the awkward type. she always knows the right thing to do and say... what's worse is I got a mass email from her asking to donate to a fundraiser she is doing. this week. wthh

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Posted by Becca2010

That's terrible!

Even if she's pisssed, it's not about HER. It's about you and your family.

Selfish.

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Agreed! I can understand being disappointed but build a bridge and get over it. She definitely should have reached out to you somehow in some way.

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i am the ultimate at not knowing what to say or being able to control my emotions but i would absolutely text/fb/email... thats crazy!

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Oh no! I'm sorry--that isn't cool.

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Aww, geez. That stinks. Sometimes people don't know what to say or do, but that's not an excuse. She still should have reached out.

Sorry.