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Why do I keep looking back??
LIWeddings Archive Posted: Dec 21, 2000 12:00 AM+
MEMBER SINCE: 12/69 TOTAL POSTS : 18488 WEDDING DATE: Dec 31, 1969
Posted: Dec 21, 2000 12:00 AM bride-minus.png

Why do I keep looking back??

How crazy is it that I have been married for over a month now, but I keep checking the Bride sites including the Knot, this one, Wedding Channel. I feel like I am having planning withdrawal...although, I wouldn't want to have to re do the whole thing!!! I would elope given the chance to do it again...lol!!

So I thought of some ideas, thought I would share them.

He has no real hobbies, but he does like to do puzzels and they are cheap, so I'll get a few.

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Brenda A. Posted: Dec 14, 2000 12:00 AM+
Brenda A. MEMBER SINCE: 2/01 TOTAL POSTS : 381 WEDDING DATE: Oct 22, 2001
Posted: Dec 14, 2000 12:00 AM bride-minus.png

Why do I keep looking back??

I;ve been married for over 6 months and I still come here. It's an addiction, the first few weeks after the wedding, I came on everyday. It get's more sporadic as time goes on.

It feels like there's nothing to do after the planning is over and then the wedding. But as long as you have some other things to look forward to, it will be OK.

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LIWeddings Archive Posted: Dec 14, 2000 12:00 AM+
MEMBER SINCE: 12/69 TOTAL POSTS : 18488 WEDDING DATE: Dec 31, 1969
Posted: Dec 14, 2000 12:00 AM bride-minus.png

Why do I keep looking back??

I have been married for 5 months and still check in on the wedding sites. It was really bad for the first 2 months - I was sad that all the planning was over - it does get easier.
By the way - your pictures were beautiful!!

He has no real hobbies, but he does like to do puzzels and they are cheap, so I'll get a few.

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Glory Posted: Dec 15, 2000 12:00 AM+
Glory MEMBER SINCE: 3/01 TOTAL POSTS : 405 WEDDING DATE: Nov 04, 2000
Posted: Dec 15, 2000 12:00 AM bride-minus.png

Why do I keep looking back??

That's why this website exists!!! ...just for us who are in withdrawl :-)

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LIWeddings Archive Posted: Dec 18, 2000 12:00 AM+
MEMBER SINCE: 12/69 TOTAL POSTS : 18488 WEDDING DATE: Dec 31, 1969
Posted: Dec 18, 2000 12:00 AM bride-minus.png

Why do I keep looking back??

Thanks. At least I am not going through witdrawal alone. I think I should develop LiWeddings Anonymous...LOL!!!

After two years of planning it's all over. I thought it would never end and then it was ending too soon. Lucky me, my friend at work is getting married in two months and she is always asking for my help. My day went great!!! Everyone is still raving on about the wedding. It's a great feeling when everything turns out perfectly. Just wanted to say HI!!!

He has no real hobbies, but he does like to do puzzels and they are cheap, so I'll get a few.

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LIWeddings Archive Posted: Dec 19, 2000 12:00 AM+
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Posted: Dec 19, 2000 12:00 AM bride-minus.png

keep cking in

every day to this site. I do miss the planning but not the emotiona ups and downs- that is for sure. Planning Thanksgiving dinner and Christmas was a cinch!!!
I havent been on the site for a while...I'm sure we're all extremely busy this time of year !

I just wanted to share with you all.. My twin sister (web junkie !) created a website of some of our wedding photos ( Oct 8, 2000 ).

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LIWeddings Archive Posted: Dec 20, 2000 12:00 AM+
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keep cking in

Hey Phyl-
How is everything going with your family? I know you were looking forward to sharing the holidays with them?

Anna,

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LIWeddings Archive Posted: Dec 20, 2000 12:00 AM+
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keep cking in

I stopped in to Bed Bath and Beyond the other day and they had this cool gadget on sale. It's a radio/TV Band/Non-fogging mirror to hang in the shower while showering! It's cool and cute and I don't know about you guys but my husband loooooves a long hot shwoer. It was on 29.99
:)

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LIWeddings Archive Posted: Dec 21, 2000 12:00 AM+
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Posted: Dec 21, 2000 12:00 AM bride-minus.png

Why do I keep looking back??

I've been married almost three months now, and literally every day, I keep checking the LIWeddings website. I love it, and miss planning my wedding too. Although now I can read it, and not be stressed, because it's over. But, I wish I could do it again, because I had such a good time, that now I want to relax and enjoy it even more. I hope I'll stop reading the LIWeddings site soon. So, you're definitely not alone.

Please don't put yourself down. What you are feeling is totally human. That what we all are. Emotions/Hurt/Pain and even Love affect how you feel. Please try to over-come your feelings of guilt and look at this in a different way.

You came to your senses and decided that your marriage was worth another try... that in itself is a wonderful step. You did make the right decision!! Try to say to yourself 'I've made my mistakes, I've learned from them and now I'm starting new'. Keep telling yourself that. Best of luck to you. HUG!

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