April is AMAZING! My husband first met her at our venue's showcase and insisted that we look into booking with her. We met with April a couple of months prior to our wedding to make our customize ceremony. She really got to know us on a personal level and that made all of the difference. Our ceremony was absolutely perfect. We received compliments from everyone not only on our ceremony but also on April herself! She is a terrific officiant with a personality to match. If you're looking for a beautifully personalized, non boring/cookie-cutter ceremony then look no further!
I would 100% recommend Pastor April (and have done so already) to anyone looking for an officiant. She's super pleasant, responsive, and it is extremely obvious that she loves what she does. The majority of guests at our non-denominational wedding made comments about how lovely the ceremony was and that it was their favorite part, mostly because of Pastor April. She's very flexible and works with you needs, making sure you have the most beautiful, special ceremony you could imagine. Please book her if you can!!!!
Bill and I are beyond thrilled that we chose Pastor April to be the officiant at our wedding. From the moment we met April at her home, we instantly knew we made the right choice. We felt as if we were talking with an old friend. April is warm, welcoming, and put us at ease. Her ability to capture our love story and weave it into a ceremony after talking with us for just about an hour was nothing short of amazing. Within that time, she captured the essence of who we are as a couple. Our family and friends had nothing but good things to say and thought it was written so well, and truly captured Bill and I in a very intimate way. I do not hesitate in recommending Pastor April, and can honestly say, you will not be disappointed!!!
I am beyond thrilled that I chose Pastor April as my wedding officiant! From start to finish, she was just absolutely AMAZING!! Her personality is magical, she makes you and everyone else smile. She took the time to write our personalized ceremony and it could not have been more perfect. My guests thought it was written so well, and really represented me and my husband in an intimate way. Any questions or concerns I had, April was there to answer them joyfully and quickly. She definitely knows how to put you at ease during what can be a very stressful time! I HIGHLY recommend Pastor April, you will not be disappointed!! Best choice I made!
Pastor April performed a beautiful and personal ceremony for us! She was extremely easy and fun to work with and helped us feel so comfortable speaking in front of our families. Pastor April captured what being married meant to my husband and I and how important it was for our families to be included and there to stand witness. She reached out to us before our ceremony to make sure we had everything that was needed on our wedding day. She arrived early the day of and walked us through what was going to happen during the ceremony. That was incredibly kind of her, it really helped relax the bridal party. Pastor Aprils attention to detail shined through our ceremony and we will be forever grateful for such a stress free and beautiful day!
'The ceremony shouldn't be the thing that you and your guests have to suffer through to get to the good part. I promise you a meaningful, enjoyable, ceremony that everyone will remember for years to come.'
What type of services do you offer?
I have performed all kinds of ceremonies, secular, religious, multi cultural, traditional, untraditional, sections that include children, even bi-lingual. I call what I do a “Couple Centered Ceremony” and my goals are always the same. I want to be the mirror that is held up high enough for everyone to see the couples own reflection in it. What ever aspects of traditional structure are important to the couple, we keep. The personal details are, in my opinion, that parts that really make a ceremony shine. When I ask 'Tell me about your guests. Who are these people to you and what does it mean to have them with you on your wedding day?' From that answer comes the welcome of the guests. 'What do you love and admire most in one another?' I love looking right into the eyes of the couple's mothers as I recount what has been said of their child. Although they know it already, to hear that someone sees and loves all the wonderful qualities that they have known all along in their child, moves them to tears. 'Why are you getting married? What is marriage from your perspective?' closes this nicely and it's interesting the answers that I get. My favorite is the oldest and truest of all. 'Because we love one another and want to spend our lives together.' My ceremonies are enjoyable in that everyone is emotionally and intellectually connected to everything that is being said, and then we are on to the next good thing!
Other services include, Baby Blessings, Memorial Services, Writing Services, and Elopement Specials.
What types of religious ceremonies can you perform?
This is an interesting question. I am well versed in world religion, - Christian - Jewish - Islam - Buddhist - Hindu - Earth Based Spiritualities - and always add the aspects of religion that my couples request. However, as an Interfaith Minister and a Professional Wedding Officiant, I don’t like perform any one religion’s ceremony in it’s entirety. It seems disrespectful to me in some way. Couples looking for a traditional religious wedding go to the church or temple. My couples want the aspects of their religion they love, yet in a more personal ceremony.
Do you conduct interfaith ceremonies?
I do! I conduct them most often as a single officiant, but I have worked with a Hindu Priest, Catholic Priest, and I have a favorite Rabbi to work with. Another important point, especially in our area of the country, is knowing how to be culturally as well as religiously considerate.
A quote that I have always admired, although it is a bit wordy, with respect to Interfaith is “The cause of human sectarianism is not a lack of sympathy in thought, but rather in speech. And this it is our not unambitious goal to remedy.”
A nice way to start an Interfaith Ceremony is to acknowledge this commonality with something like:
“Every marriage ceremony is unique, and today, not only are two special people being joined together, but two faiths, as well. Out of two different and distinct traditions, they have come together to learn the best of what each has to offer, appreciating their differences, and confirming that love, which is spoken of in all religions, is our true home, our true meeting place. So this is not only a joyous occasion, but a spiritual one, as well. May we all see the love we share and offer this couple in their marriage as truly a gift from God.”
How far in advance should a couple book with you?
Most couples meet with me a year to a 18 months in advance, but others are within weeks. Both ways work, it depends on your comfort levels, and if your date is in the popular months. However if you have your heart set on my being available, meeting early is always best.
Do you have any special requirements for marrying a couple?
Nope! I eat sleep and breathe wedding, so I am overjoyed to be at every ceremony I perform. I also consider it quite an honor to be chosen and trusted with these once in a lifetime words and moment.
They have a great story captured here by Rob Coup of Couped Up Productions
Great personal section shot by the wonderfully talented Capture The Moment Productions
Beautiful couple, video shot by Capture The Moment Productions to show an originally written ceremony
Thank you again Capture The Moment Productions!
One of my awesome Church of Ancient Ways Officiants Aviva Sala, captured by Capture the Moment!
After 17 years together, they each have a husband.
I have been doing many a quick signing of the license for my couples sometimes a year or more in advance of their wedding date. Why? Many reasons, insurance, buying a house, immigration, having a baby and IT'S ALL GOOD. How you live that long and happy life together is tricky to negotiate in today's world and 'what ever works' is different for every couple.
I do many showcases at the best venues on Long Island all year long. If you have been stressing how and where to secretly be married COME SEE ME. It's a great opportunity visit some of LI's most beautiful halls and whether I perform your next ceremony or not, bring me a license at a showcase and I would be honored to sign it for free.
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