Re: At an impass

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Posted by amandah75

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Posted by T E R I

Big hugs for you Amanda

And thank you, me and FH are going to be sitting down this weekend to discuss everything for the wedding to see what's going to happen. The only thing that stinks is we have been paying deposits to the RH and we have everything booked with deposits down.

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Luckily we've only booked the photog and we're hoping to work something out with her. maybe do a photo shoot in our wedding duds or something like that. if you are going to change dates that may not be an issue or even if you change the venue i'm sure you can get your vendors to follow you.

Good luck and keep us updated.

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I will keep everyone posted

I'm hoping not to have to push the date back, considering we already have our favors and some things with the date on it. I'm hoping maybe we can figure something out.

Re: At an impass

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Posted by T E R I

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Posted by amandah75

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Posted by T E R I

Big hugs for you Amanda

And thank you, me and FH are going to be sitting down this weekend to discuss everything for the wedding to see what's going to happen. The only thing that stinks is we have been paying deposits to the RH and we have everything booked with deposits down.

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Luckily we've only booked the photog and we're hoping to work something out with her. maybe do a photo shoot in our wedding duds or something like that. if you are going to change dates that may not be an issue or even if you change the venue i'm sure you can get your vendors to follow you.

Good luck and keep us updated.

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I will keep everyone posted

I'm hoping not to have to push the date back, considering we already have our favors and some things with the date on it. I'm hoping maybe we can figure something out.

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good luck Teri, i am sure your vendors will be flexible should you decide to move it- as far as the favors and other things, dont stress it, you have to do what is right for the both of you, keep us posted!!!

Re: At an impass

Amanda, you have to do what is best for you and FH. In the end you will make the right decision. If you push it back to 2011 then book ASAP so you get all the current rates for 2008. We are all here to help you and listen to you!!

Re: At an impass

so many people took the words directly from my mouth, but basically i want to reaffirm that i think you're not crazy and I can definitely understand your reasoning. No matter the size of the function, I know you and Matt will have a beautiful wedding because you are both two very beautiful people.

All the stress takes it's toll on your health and it's not worth it since this is supposed to be the happiest part of your life. I think it's great that you're waiting it out to come to a full decision. Either way, I'm always here if u need to talk.

Re: At an impass

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Posted by soontoobemrsk

Amanda. FH and I decided to do a small wedding partially for economic reasons and partially because we feel it is a more intimate affair. Having a small weddng doesnt mean that it has to be a bbq. It can still be formal and beautiful, just smaller. But if you have your heart set on the big wedding, I would push it back to 2011 but book now so you get the current rates. If you need to talk, as always, feel free to fm me. [/QUOTE

ME TOO ...A BIG WEDDING WOULD BE JUST TOO MUCH MONEY ... SO WE ARE DOING A DW INSTEAD