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I am changing my name- I wouldnt have it any other way

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I am changing mine. I kinda didn't want to more on the principle that his name is impossible to pronounce and needs to be spelled multiple times...it also sounds like bafoon, which I am not excited about, but especially once we have kids I want us all to have the same last name.

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I am very torn too...

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Posted by Diana12

I am very torn too...

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it's good to know i'm not the only one!! what's making you torn? do you like your last name? do you like fh's? did your mom change her name?

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i will be changing mine. at first i was all for it because his last name is so easy and mine is a longer polish last name but as i get closer, i will admit, im sad about changing it. it has been my identity for the past 27 years and now poof gone!

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Posted by CloudNine

i will be changing mine. at first i was all for it because his last name is so easy and mine is a longer polish last name but as i get closer, i will admit, im sad about changing it. it has been my identity for the past 27 years and now poof gone!

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I feel the same way. I never imagined that changing my name would bother me so much. I don't think I'll hyphenate it because I feel like I might regret that later on, but I am definitely sad that I have to lose my name. Why can't men change their names??? Who came up with this anyway?

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I really never thought of NOT changing it. I like my last name fine, but changing my name is just something I always knew I'd do. I feel (JMO) that it's an additional acknowledgment on paper that you're a family. Also, once we have children I think it makes everything easier.

Also, my mom did change her name.

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I am changing my name!! I can't wait. It is kind of weird because I am a teacher so I hear my last name CONSTANTLY (it's kindergarten, so you can imagine how many times they call my name over and over LOL). I

I am looking forward to being Mrs.____ though!!! I am also happy it is still an Italian name!

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Definitely changing mine since FH's last name is much shorter and easier to pronounce than my own. However it is going to be a total pain in the a$$ because I have to get Affidavits to change it with the Attorney Registration Unit in NY state and that will take a few weeks to process.

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Do any teachers out there know if I would have to change the name on my certifications???

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Changing my name. My last name actually completely dies with me (I'm an only child with nobody else in family with our name) but I'm okay with it--mine is longer and more Jewish than FH's last name.

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Posted by bellaitalian618

There's no way I'm hyphening my name. I don't want to keep my name anymore. Since my parents got divorced, my mom uses her maiden name anyway and I don't associate with my dad's family. But FH has an apostrophe in his name which causes problems for him sometimes - not looking forward to that.

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oh dear, yes the horrid ' . After 30 years I am so excited to change names just to not have to deal with that! I recommend that you just don't write it. The dr's can never find my name cause they don't know if they did D'A (right way), DeA, DiA, etc. one reason i WANT to change. he last few years I do everything just DA!

me... i am def changing. I just always felt I would, i guess cause that what everyone in my family has done. I also want us and our children to have the same name when the time comes., we are one family, i like the idea of having one name!

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I am..... was told I don't have a choice! I was gonna do it anyway... but I will be sad to lose my name.

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Posted by Relish21

I am..... was told I don't have a choice! I was gonna do it anyway... but I will be sad to lose my name.

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why didnt you have a choice?

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I am changing! But I get to keep my initials and go from an always mis-pronounced last name to a simple, single syllable last name!! I really can't wait to share it with him. It doesn't change who you are, it is just a name, and to a lot of people I've known for years, I'll still be known as...'_____' (my last name, for now)

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Posted by 20mrsc10

im changing
personally i wouldnt have it any other way
thats me though

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yes I agree!

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I'm changing mine