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Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?
JoanneAndJustin Posted: Jul 02, 2008 10:28 PM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

FH asked my mom (my dad passed away almost 12 years ago). We were hanging out one day, and I thought he was going downstairs for a drink... and then I heard him talking to my mom... but then I kind of realized what was going on... so I turned up my TV so I wouldn't hear them

He didn't ask me until three weeks later so I was surprised.
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VickiR510 Posted: Jul 03, 2008 09:08 AM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

Yes my FH asked both of my parents. They both said you had our permission from day 1. We love you & would love for you to be part of our family. I was actually there when he asked. It was so sweet.
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lilpiggy742 Posted: Jul 03, 2008 09:13 AM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

nope, he didn't tell anyone ( except my grandma b/c i have her ring) he knew if he told anyone they would have told me and he didn't want it ruined. When I called my family they were in shock, but extrememly happy for me!
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PROBM Posted: Jul 03, 2008 09:54 AM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

Yes My FH asked my dad and my best friend(MOH) bc she got engaged 2 weeks prior and wanted to make sure it was ok with her I thought that was so awesome!
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Steffie Posted: Jul 03, 2008 09:57 AM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

Yea FH ask my mom like 6 hours before he was going to do it!!!! He's so cute
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ELluvsMB Posted: Jul 03, 2008 09:59 AM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

FH called up my parents and asked them. They were so excited my Dad though it was a joke at first, lol. I would have been upset if he didn't ask them and he knew.
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sabrescinderella Posted: Jul 03, 2008 03:56 PM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

yes he asked my dad, and he was the first to be like when i asked your dad he was happy and gave me a hug and said welcome to the family,, i thought it was cute he was excited
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ttdiff11 Posted: Jul 03, 2008 04:52 PM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

yea my fh did!!
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jenniferd Posted: Jul 03, 2008 06:47 PM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?


Posted by azailia

its not something that i ever really thought about....


however, he did go over to the house and ask them.... he hung out for about a half hour and showed them a picture of the ring!!!

i am so glad he did that.... i thnik that was so sweet!!!



My FH did the same thing. He stopped by my house while I was at work and waited for my Dad to get home and asked both of my parents. He had the ring with him and showed them.
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Jessiegrl Posted: Jul 03, 2008 06:51 PM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

yes he asked my mother and father
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DnJ0809 Posted: Jul 03, 2008 07:48 PM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

FH asked both of my parents... they were all sitting in the room together when I was at work one night. His whole family knew as well.
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bride2be8 Posted: Jul 04, 2008 11:30 PM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

Yep like a total gentleman. He took my parents out to dinner and asked them. <3<3
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JKFris09 Posted: Jul 05, 2008 08:59 AM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

Yes and my dad kinda gave him a hard time about it (like in a busting his chops kind of way) and was like permission is not the right word to choose and stuff like that. Then he told FH he had to ask my mom too. It was pretty funny.
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jmd75 Posted: Jul 05, 2008 09:10 AM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

My FH asked my parents. He had bought the ring on 2/23 with his sister and then went and asked my parents on 3/9. He was so nervous - he brought them the ring to show them. We've been living together for 6 years already so it wasn't really about 'permission' - it was more for their blessing which he knew he already had. FH then went to his parents house right after and showed them the ring too so everyone in our families knew. I have no idea how no one spilled it!!!
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TaraVinny Posted: Jul 05, 2008 09:15 AM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

yes he did. my parents love him and were very happy. my dad and him drank a beer to celebrate.
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Lisa218 Posted: Jul 05, 2008 10:49 AM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

My FH did.. he took them to dinner and asked them. My parents said he was so nervous
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Theresa2104 Posted: Jul 05, 2008 11:24 AM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

Yes he asked my father like 3 months before he proposed....but he didn't ask his parents!

I love that he asked mine, but I wish it wasn't my suprise to his parents after we got engaged.

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bebedoll57 Posted: Jul 05, 2008 02:36 PM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

My dad is very old school puerto rican. Of course he asked me dad lol !!! My fiancee took my father and his father out to dinner. I thought that was very sweet
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meli722 Posted: Jul 05, 2008 02:37 PM+
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Re: Did your FH ask your fathers/mothers permission?

Nope, but we had a kid together already, and we lived together, so both families knew it was coming.
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