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Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??
july06bride Posted: Sep 16, 2006 10:38 AM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

We used a fork! No smashing...
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tropicalbride07 Posted: Sep 16, 2006 10:39 AM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

i think we are opting for the fork. It's just me, but I think it looks classy
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Valor06 Posted: Sep 16, 2006 02:53 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

I didn't even know people use their hands. Fork for me.
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MrsMichel07 Posted: Sep 16, 2006 03:39 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

Fork of course.... that's what it's there for.

No smashing cake in the face either...
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EJSD2006 Posted: Sep 16, 2006 04:15 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

we used a fork...but after i fed him his piece i took some icing with my fingers and dabbed it on his face. made for a funny pic
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Chrissywish Posted: Sep 16, 2006 06:13 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??


Posted by AlmostMrsKelly


i went to a wedding last fri night and the groom SMASHED the cake in the bride's face. it was in her hair, eyebrow, eyelashes. FH and i talked about that - i would kill him right there and then. he will be using a fork to feed me... i'm making him go 1st i might kick it up a notch, but just to dab a lil icing on his nose. no harm - he's not spending 100 bux on makeup that day!



Now FH has already warned me that he cannot wait to see me wearing wedding cake. I understand his desire..However, we will use forks, and I have warned him that I can fix my lipstick, but it better not be anywhere above my eyes on my dress or in my hair.

So we will use Forks...I want him to go first...and I will hold the plate with the cake on it!!!
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Blu-ize Posted: Sep 17, 2006 01:40 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??


Posted by Chrissywish


Posted by AlmostMrsKelly


i went to a wedding last fri night and the groom SMASHED the cake in the bride's face. it was in her hair, eyebrow, eyelashes. FH and i talked about that - i would kill him right there and then. he will be using a fork to feed me... i'm making him go 1st i might kick it up a notch, but just to dab a lil icing on his nose. no harm - he's not spending 100 bux on makeup that day!



Now FH has already warned me that he cannot wait to see me wearing wedding cake. I understand his desire..However, we will use forks, and I have warned him that I can fix my lipstick, but it better not be anywhere above my eyes on my dress or in my hair.

So we will use Forks...I want him to go first...and I will hold the plate with the cake on it!!!



Cake should be eaten not worn!!

It would be a waste of a perfectly good piece of cake.

I would also tell him that he will get nothing on the wedding night if he does this.

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jenn122397 Posted: Sep 17, 2006 03:12 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

definitely using a fork - FH knows that if he gets so much as a crumb on my dress he is in big trouble that night
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MalteseMommy Posted: Sep 18, 2006 12:06 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

We will def be using a fork. I too have a serious issue with germs!
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LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Sep 18, 2006 12:07 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

we used forks...

ETA: I just wanted to say I think smashing cake in each others face is disrespectful, not cute. I mean putting a little frosting on the nose and licking it off is cute, but getting a whole slice of cake in your face is a bit much.
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MnM52607 Posted: Sep 18, 2006 12:22 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

Lately, I have seen a lot of couples use forks. I think it looks more elegant too.
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cindyandkevin Posted: Sep 18, 2006 12:25 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

We used a fork, esp with chocolate cake!! I couldn't imagine us using our hands, we didn't want to act like crazy animals!!

When we first got engaged, one of the first things DH promised me was that he wouldn't smush the cake in my face!! He understood the cost of everything and how upset I would be. Plus I've just never found it to be funny.
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103005FallBride Posted: Sep 18, 2006 12:32 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

We used a fork too.
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chrissyandvin Posted: Sep 18, 2006 12:33 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

we will be using a fork!!
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R&J0806 Posted: Sep 18, 2006 01:13 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

fork.
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ChrisnAmy Posted: Sep 18, 2006 01:23 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??

We will be using a fork also!


And we both promised no smashing cake in each others faces! There will be too many hours and a lot of money spent to look nice.
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IlianaR Posted: Sep 18, 2006 01:31 PM+
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Re: Do you feed each other wedding cake with your hands or with a fork??


Posted by iffy

no question...fork



I second that.
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