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Family drama anyone?????
PaddysGirl Posted: Mar 02, 2012 12:22 PM+
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Re: Family drama anyone?????

You are not alone.
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Jessica1219 Posted: Mar 03, 2012 01:25 AM+
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Re: Family drama anyone?????

Reading this thread makes me feel so much better that I'm not alone!!! FH's family couldn't be more selfish throughout the entire process and their lack of enthusiasm makes me sick. I'm sticking them all in the back corner of the catering hall and ignoring them all night since they're incapable of making our wedding about us and not them... God picks our family, thank God we pick our friends!!!
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queenofhaerts Posted: Mar 03, 2012 11:36 AM+
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Re: Family drama anyone?????


Posted by Jessica1219

Reading this thread makes me feel so much better that I'm not alone!!! FH's family couldn't be more selfish throughout the entire process and their lack of enthusiasm makes me sick. I'm sticking them all in the back corner of the catering hall and ignoring them all night since they're incapable of making our wedding about us and not them... God picks our family, thank God we pick our friends!!!



Haha, this is me too. Each of his siblings is getting a corner of the room (cause none of them are talking to each other), and they are going to have to deal with it. I have no patience for their 'all about me' attitudes. Its good to know we all aren't alone.
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kattus Posted: Mar 03, 2012 12:15 PM+
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Re: Family drama anyone?????


Posted by cdh2672


Posted by kattus

You're not alone! FH's mother has five sisters, one of whom refuses to go to the wedding because of her extreme dislike of me, and another who keeps complaining to my FMIL about everything, especially that it's on a Sunday and that we sent her invite to her P.O. Box and not her job

The aunt who dislikes me even told FH before we were engaged, 'if you marry that b$tch I'm not going to the wedding.' She will not acknowledge my presence in the room, talks about me behind my back and expects FMIL to go along with everything. My FMIL is BEGGING her to go; FH and I are hoping that by her refusal to go, they'll stop speaking. Ha.

Well, there's my bit of family drama, so the point is, I think everyone has this. How to deal? Just remember that it's YOUR day and anyone who wants to rain on your wedding parade is envious of your happiness.



This is terrible!! I'm sorry you have to deal with this ....thanks for sharing :)




Oh guess what! The aunt who hates me sent back her rsvp as a 'yes.'
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cdh2672 Posted: Mar 03, 2012 08:59 PM+
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Re: Family drama anyone?????


Posted by kattus


Posted by cdh2672


Posted by kattus

You're not alone! FH's mother has five sisters, one of whom refuses to go to the wedding because of her extreme dislike of me, and another who keeps complaining to my FMIL about everything, especially that it's on a Sunday and that we sent her invite to her P.O. Box and not her job

The aunt who dislikes me even told FH before we were engaged, 'if you marry that b$tch I'm not going to the wedding.' She will not acknowledge my presence in the room, talks about me behind my back and expects FMIL to go along with everything. My FMIL is BEGGING her to go; FH and I are hoping that by her refusal to go, they'll stop speaking. Ha.

Well, there's my bit of family drama, so the point is, I think everyone has this. How to deal? Just remember that it's YOUR day and anyone who wants to rain on your wedding parade is envious of your happiness.



This is terrible!! I'm sorry you have to deal with this ....thanks for sharing :)




Oh guess what! The aunt who hates me sent back her rsvp as a 'yes.'



Ahhh!!! My mother got a call from a relative the other day asking not to seat him with another relative!
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LIbridey88 Posted: Mar 03, 2012 11:19 PM+
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Re: Family drama anyone?????

OMG You are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO not alone!!!
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kattus Posted: Mar 04, 2012 03:36 PM+
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Re: Family drama anyone?????

I guess I'm gonna get snubbed by that aunt when we're in the receiving line. ignore the bride, awkward on HER!
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Bride2012 Posted: Mar 05, 2012 07:43 PM+
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Re: Family drama anyone?????

You are so not alone!!! I hate it!! I love when people are like its your wedding and your day bbuuuuttt and then continue to run their mouths forever!!! I'm so happy I'm so glad I am not alone!!!
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