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How Rude!
roxyspark
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 01:46 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 01:46 PM
Re: How Rude!
Send out your save the dates before hers!That way if people have to choose which one to attend they will go to yours.
Shame on her.
Soon2BeMrsD
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 02:21 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 02:21 PM
Re: How Rude!
yes definately send your STD cards first and keep your details to yourself,,ugh how annoying! i feel for you
LADYV
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 02:26 PM+
Re: How Rude!
that ***** i am mad for you. thats being inconsiderate. i would say do what you need to for your wedding first, then try to make hers if you can not make it then she will have to understand!!! sounds harsh but she did not consider the fact that you had that date or time frame first
smurray
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 02:29 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 02:29 PM
Re: How Rude!
No your not over reacting. Some people these days are so inconsiderate, and it's sad b/c it shows I'm sorry you have to go throught his though
Soon2BeMrsS
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 02:44 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 02:44 PM
Re: How Rude!
I'd be too, that was wrong of them, but some people are inconsiderate
nygirl77
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 03:06 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 03:06 PM
Re: How Rude!
Maybe I'm in the minority, but I doubt she would do something like this to piss you off. I got engaged after my MOH and my wedding is 5 weeks earlier then hers. But I didn't do it to steal her thunder - I did it because a. the weekend seemed perfect for out of towners and b. I didn't want a long engagement. But I know she's upset that I did it that way - although I did ask her opinion when I was planning and she gave me the go ahead. Soooo...as rude as it seems - just take it with a grain of salt. Get your save the dates out early and this way the family knows about yours first.
haleyzcomet
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:24 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:24 PM
Re: How Rude!
I dont think the date meas anything to them because when we found out that they were engaged, they were thinking about having it in august but now we find out that its 2 freaking weeks before us!
haleyzcomet
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:28 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:28 PM
Re: How Rude!
Posted by lipglossjunky73
Is she an attention monger? If so, I would just be so put off at the new low she set....
Not really, but her mother is - at least thats what my FH says.
haleyzcomet
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:29 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:29 PM
Re: How Rude!
Posted by Love4Eva
i'd be pissed
is she going to be back from her honeymoon for you wedding?
I dont know, but i want to know that before we respond to her wedding. I'm not going to strap myself for time if shes not coming to ours.
haleyzcomet
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:32 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:32 PM
Re: How Rude!
Posted by LorinElizabeth
I know exactly how you feel! My roommate from college was talking to me about her and her boyfriend (it’ll be there 4 year anniversary in 2 weeks) and how she’s looking forward to getting married (they talk about it but aren’t officially engaged). Then she tells me, ‘oh I’d be soooo pissed off if Chris (her bf’s brother) proposes to Meghan (his girlfriend) before Andrew proposes to me since they’ve only been going out 2 years’.
This was somewhat an issue for me since my FI didn’t propose to me until our 8 year anniversary and there were a lot of other people going out half as long as us and they were getting engaged. And she knows we’re getting married on 9/8/07.
So then all of a sudden she comes out with ‘so Andrew and I decided we’re going to get married on 7/7/07 and have a Vegas-themed wedding.’ LIKE HELLLLLLOOOOOOOOOO. You’re pissed and complaining about them possibly getting engaged before you and you’re just going to go and get married 2 months before me?! So basically I haven’t spoken to her since then A because we’re both very busy with our jobs and B because I don’t want to totally blow up at her since they’re not even engaged and booked anywhere.
But I totally feel your ^&*%!^%&$(*@(**!!!! I mean, your day—all of our days—are going to be special in their own right and we shouldn’t compare our event to others, but when someone blatantly does that with no regard of anyone else knowing FULL WELL that you have already made those plans, I have no tolerance for that!
WOW thats crazy... so you see what i mean LOL
haleyzcomet
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:34 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:34 PM
Re: How Rude!
Posted by bride2b24
OMG .....honestly I wouldnt go.....but you wanna talk about stealing someones thunder....my FSIL has a SIL that announced her engagement at her engagement party.....and got married a year b4 her on the same date! then was 9 months preg as the MOH in her wedding!!! so it could always be worse
Oh my!
LorinElizabeth
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:58 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 05:58 PM
Re: How Rude!
Posted by roxyspark
Send out your save the dates before hers!
That way if people have to choose which one to attend they will go to yours.
Shame on her.
OOOOH... that's a GOOD ONE!!!!
haleyzcomet
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 06:15 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 06:15 PM
Re: How Rude!
Posted by roxyspark
Send out your save the dates before hers!
That way if people have to choose which one to attend they will go to yours.
Shame on her.
Hmmm... I handed out my save the dates at our engagment party my FH out of town relatives didn't come because our party was 3 weeks after my FSIL wedding. Do u think i should mail them the save the dates just to do make sure they know when our wedding is?
Lissy3077
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 07:10 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 07:10 PM
Re: How Rude!
i would be so pissed..
MrsMichel07
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 07:30 PM+
Posted: Jan 13, 2006 07:30 PM
Re: How Rude!
Posted by JazzyT
O wow, she did not have to do that. FH's sister decided to get married a 6/07 ao at least is after.
Becareful not to share tooo many details Gee.
Is she on LIW?
haleyzcomet
Posted: Jan 14, 2006 08:48 AM+
Posted: Jan 14, 2006 08:48 AM
Re: How Rude!
Posted by MrsMichel07
Posted by JazzyT
O wow, she did not have to do that. FH's sister decided to get married a 6/07 ao at least is after.
Becareful not to share tooo many details Gee.
Is she on LIW?
No. She lives somewhere in MD.
soinlove07
Posted: Feb 05, 2006 04:21 AM+
Posted: Feb 05, 2006 04:21 AM
Re: How Rude!
OMG! No way. I would be soooooo upset. that is really rude! I would not get too worked up about it, but def. not attend their wedding. Plan your wedding and enjoy...But WOW. What an insult.
soinlove07
Posted: Feb 05, 2006 04:24 AM+
Posted: Feb 05, 2006 04:24 AM
Re: How Rude!
Posted by haleyzcomet
Posted by bride2b24
OMG .....honestly I wouldnt go.....but you wanna talk about stealing someones thunder....my FSIL has a SIL that announced her engagement at her engagement party.....and got married a year b4 her on the same date! then was 9 months preg as the MOH in her wedding!!! so it could always be worse
Oh my!
Thats not right.
PegaLega
Posted: Feb 05, 2006 10:53 AM+
Posted: Feb 05, 2006 10:53 AM
Re: How Rude!
Yeah I would be IRATE!!!! I now how you feel dont you worry about that!My FSIL actually decided to TAKE my wedding date!!!! So-dont you worry it ok to po'ed at it! I feel for you!
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