Search Forums

Wedding Forums > Brides Helping Brides ™ > I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll
I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll
little34 Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:39 AM+
little34 MEMBER SINCE: 3/07 TOTAL POSTS : 7426 WEDDING DATE: Oct 31, 2009
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:39 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

It is supposed to be really nice this weekend maybe you can lay outside for a few minutes...but nothing too long!! And be careful if you go tanning... some times you come out of there fried even if you only went for a short amount of time.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
jessnstu08 Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:39 AM+
jessnstu08 MEMBER SINCE: 1/08 TOTAL POSTS : 2558 WEDDING DATE: Sep 13, 2008
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:39 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

I spray tanned( airbrushed by a person , not a machine, that make you look orange) at Brazil Bronze in Queens . The owner who sprayed me did a fantastic job and it looked completely 'real' . I did have somewhat of a base tan from going to the beach already and Dh was tan too, but I wanted an even color and i loved it
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
jennarose023 Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:39 AM+
jennarose023 MEMBER SINCE: 1/08 TOTAL POSTS : 2728 WEDDING DATE: Oct 18, 2008
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:39 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

ok so now i'm torn again!!!

can anyone recommend a place in the massapequa or seaford area?
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
bonch20 Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:40 AM+
bonch20 MEMBER SINCE: 4/07 TOTAL POSTS : 2301 WEDDING DATE: Jul 03, 2008
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:40 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

what about using one of those self tanning lotions? just be careful since some make you orange! i know some girls hate the smell, but i love jergens!!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
jennarose023 Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:56 AM+
jennarose023 MEMBER SINCE: 1/08 TOTAL POSTS : 2728 WEDDING DATE: Oct 18, 2008
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:56 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

well i just called hollywood tans over by my house and i can do unlimited tanning for a week for $30 so maybe since it's not too expensive, i can do that maybe 2-3 times over the next week for just a few minutes at a time
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Mrs. Bernabe Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:57 AM+
Mrs. Bernabe MEMBER SINCE: 10/07 TOTAL POSTS : 2319 WEDDING DATE: May 01, 2012
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 10:57 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

I don't think you should go tanning. I thought I was to light for the wedding and did beach bum spray tan..omg I can out looking horrible, and I did it 2 nights before. My D had stopped by just to drop off something and told me off, that how can I ruin our wedding, I looked horrible, how great I look in my own skin tone. I ran to the bathtub and showered it off. It all came off luckily. Not sure when your planning on doing your tan but make sure it is nowhere near your wedding. I would never again in my life do such a thing!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Future Mulligan Posted: Oct 10, 2008 11:39 AM+
Future Mulligan MEMBER SINCE: 7/07 TOTAL POSTS : 9613 WEDDING DATE: Dec 05, 2008
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 11:39 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll


Posted by Mrs. Bernabe

I don't think you should go tanning. I thought I was to light for the wedding and did beach bum spray tan..omg I can out looking horrible, and I did it 2 nights before. My D had stopped by just to drop off something and told me off, that how can I ruin our wedding, I looked horrible, how great I look in my own skin tone. I ran to the bathtub and showered it off. It all came off luckily. Not sure when your planning on doing your tan but make sure it is nowhere near your wedding. I would never again in my life do such a thing!



spray tans can look funky right after they spray you - its not until you wait the 8 hours (i go at night and wait until the next morning to shower) and wash it off that you can see what it really looks like - usually they put a bronzer into the spray so they can see where it was applied - its more a of a guide for the person spraying you, the actual color doesnt happen right away - it takes some time for it to react to your skin and tan you, so right after you leave that is not how you will look once you wait a few hours and shower....i always look super duper dark when he is done - like scary - then when i shower it comes off and then underneath is nice glow....

if i were you i probably would have showered too - you should test something like that out a few times before the wedding to be sure you like it.....you should never do anything new right before the wedding - no tanning, waxing, nothing crazy right before
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Mrs. Bernabe Posted: Oct 10, 2008 11:45 AM+
Mrs. Bernabe MEMBER SINCE: 10/07 TOTAL POSTS : 2319 WEDDING DATE: May 01, 2012
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 11:45 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll


Posted by Future Mulligan


Posted by Mrs. Bernabe

I don't think you should go tanning. I thought I was to light for the wedding and did beach bum spray tan..omg I can out looking horrible, and I did it 2 nights before. My D had stopped by just to drop off something and told me off, that how can I ruin our wedding, I looked horrible, how great I look in my own skin tone. I ran to the bathtub and showered it off. It all came off luckily. Not sure when your planning on doing your tan but make sure it is nowhere near your wedding. I would never again in my life do such a thing!



spray tans can look funky right after they spray you - its not until you wait the 8 hours (i go at night and wait until the next morning to shower) and wash it off that you can see what it really looks like - usually they put a bronzer into the spray so they can see where it was applied - its more a of a guide for the person spraying you, the actual color doesnt happen right away - it takes some time for it to react to your skin and tan you, so right after you leave that is not how you will look once you wait a few hours and shower....i always look super duper dark when he is done - like scary - then when i shower it comes off and then underneath is nice glow....

if i were you i probably would have showered too - you should test something like that out a few times before the wedding to be sure you like it.....you should never do anything new right before the wedding - no tanning, waxing, nothing crazy right before



I have had friends that have done the spray tan the night before and they have looked awesome the following day, but OMG I scared myself when I looked in the mirror. Thank God it washed all off. My DH would have been real real upset if I would have been that color for the wedding I don't know what I was thinking...I should have taken a picture before I showered...didn't think of it then
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
LauraD419 Posted: Oct 10, 2008 06:42 PM+
LauraD419 MEMBER SINCE: 10/07 TOTAL POSTS : 2237 WEDDING DATE: Apr 19, 2008
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 06:42 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

i wouldn't bother. I only went for a little while with a short time and I ended up burning with less than a week til my wedding. Thank god it was my stomach and you couldn't see it, but when I took off my dress at the end of the night I had started to peel. be pale..its ok.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Future Mulligan Posted: Oct 10, 2008 07:19 PM+
Future Mulligan MEMBER SINCE: 7/07 TOTAL POSTS : 9613 WEDDING DATE: Dec 05, 2008
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 07:19 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll


Posted by Mrs. Bernabe


Posted by Future Mulligan


Posted by Mrs. Bernabe

I don't think you should go tanning. I thought I was to light for the wedding and did beach bum spray tan..omg I can out looking horrible, and I did it 2 nights before. My D had stopped by just to drop off something and told me off, that how can I ruin our wedding, I looked horrible, how great I look in my own skin tone. I ran to the bathtub and showered it off. It all came off luckily. Not sure when your planning on doing your tan but make sure it is nowhere near your wedding. I would never again in my life do such a thing!



spray tans can look funky right after they spray you - its not until you wait the 8 hours (i go at night and wait until the next morning to shower) and wash it off that you can see what it really looks like - usually they put a bronzer into the spray so they can see where it was applied - its more a of a guide for the person spraying you, the actual color doesnt happen right away - it takes some time for it to react to your skin and tan you, so right after you leave that is not how you will look once you wait a few hours and shower....i always look super duper dark when he is done - like scary - then when i shower it comes off and then underneath is nice glow....

if i were you i probably would have showered too - you should test something like that out a few times before the wedding to be sure you like it.....you should never do anything new right before the wedding - no tanning, waxing, nothing crazy right before




omg one time we went out to dinner with FHs family right after i got sprayed - and there is a pic of us from the restaurant OMG i look like an oompa loompa - actually worse!! i cant believe i was out and about looking like that
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
MrsD71208 Posted: Oct 10, 2008 07:24 PM+
MrsD71208 MEMBER SINCE: 5/07 TOTAL POSTS : 7387 WEDDING DATE: Jul 12, 2008
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 07:24 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

You have a week and less than a day to go at least three times. Go and tell them you are getting married and want a subtle glow, but NOT a burn. They'll put you in a good bed (I'd do stand-up though) and will put you in for like 5-7 minutes TOPS for the first time. I'd go like two days later and do like 8-9 minutes and then two days after that and see if you could handle 10 minutes. That will take you to a day and a half before. Good luck!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
mRm2008 Posted: Oct 10, 2008 09:29 PM+
mRm2008 MEMBER SINCE: 12/07 TOTAL POSTS : 5933 WEDDING DATE: Sep 27, 2008
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 09:29 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

I am a HUGE fan of hand air brushed spray tans. I got mine the day before the wedding, and although I was darker than most people at my wedding I didn't feel it was 'slap you in the face' tan nor orange. Honestly I have done Mystics in the booth and many air brushed tans and never once looked orange - tanning sprays have come a long way over the last few years.

And for those of you wondering YES it did transfer onto my dress, mostly in the underarm areas and on the inner lining of the bodice, but the salon told me the professional gown preservation companies should have no problem getting it out. In essence its just makeup

Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
mrsjpc3 Posted: Oct 10, 2008 11:56 PM+
mrsjpc3 MEMBER SINCE: 8/07 TOTAL POSTS : 2034 WEDDING DATE: Nov 29, 2008
Posted: Oct 10, 2008 11:56 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

I recommend spray tanning 2 days before hand. I went to Sunplicity in lindenhurst a few times, and the airbrush tanning came out perfect.

or,,, I know tanning is bad, but try a regular bed for 10 mins. see how it works out. if you dont burn, then go do another 10 mins 2 days later, and so on.

Just be sure to have no tan lines.... go naked (at least from the waist up)
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
lila Posted: Oct 11, 2008 12:47 AM+
lila MEMBER SINCE: 10/08 TOTAL POSTS : 519 WEDDING DATE: Aug 17, 2008
Posted: Oct 11, 2008 12:47 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

I am very pale. I went to a wedding 2 weeks before my own and caught the bouquet, and in their pro pictures i look like a ghost! i did one coat of the jergens lotion before my wedding and it looked very natural. i looked 'tan' in my non-pro pictures and healthy in my pro pictures. didnt look unnatural or legit tan, but i looked healthy and more toned. looked so natural, but i played around in advance and knew 1 coat was natural and 2 was not on me

FM me for pictures

I'd stay away from tanning beds. so bad for your skin, my dad had a cancerous mole removed and it's just not worth it.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
SugaBeans Posted: Oct 11, 2008 01:26 AM+
SugaBeans MEMBER SINCE: 10/06 TOTAL POSTS : 6117 WEDDING DATE: Oct 18, 2008
Posted: Oct 11, 2008 01:26 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

I actually just bought my package yesterday and started yesterday. I went for 12 mins, i will go again tomorrow and sunday and a few times during the week. Not only do i want it for the wedding day but i dont want to burn on my honeymoon. I wanted a base tan.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
KSquared Posted: Oct 11, 2008 10:48 AM+
KSquared MEMBER SINCE: 2/07 TOTAL POSTS : 1284 WEDDING DATE: Jul 19, 2008
Posted: Oct 11, 2008 10:48 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

I'm so glad I didn't go tanning before my wedding! I was so convinced I would, but I decided that I just wanted to look like myself, and I'm never really that tan since I'm a sunblock freak.

So you really need to do what is going to make you happy, if you will be more comfortable a little tanner then go for it - just be careful!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Dee606 Posted: Oct 11, 2008 11:06 AM+
Dee606 MEMBER SINCE: 7/06 TOTAL POSTS : 4371 WEDDING DATE: Sep 29, 2007
Posted: Oct 11, 2008 11:06 AM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

I am like you, very very pale.
In the past when I would use tanning salons, I needed to go about 10x for 10 min each time before I even noticed a bit of color. I say skip the tanning salon & go spray tanning. I used Brazil Bronze in great neck. A person sprays it on you.. tell them that you want the lightest shade possible. I got the lightest shade & it looked awesome! My skin looked great & just had a subtle color. Just do it 2 days before the wedding if you plan on doing it because some of the color will wash off in the shower.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Saram Posted: Oct 11, 2008 03:42 PM+
Saram MEMBER SINCE: 4/07 TOTAL POSTS : 1589 WEDDING DATE: Nov 08, 2008
Posted: Oct 11, 2008 03:42 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll


Posted by jennarose023

ok so now i'm torn again!!!

can anyone recommend a place in the massapequa or seaford area?

theres a beach bum on merrick rd in seaford
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
davenjess Posted: Oct 11, 2008 03:48 PM+
davenjess MEMBER SINCE: 6/07 TOTAL POSTS : 10968 WEDDING DATE: Dec 31, 2007
Posted: Oct 11, 2008 03:48 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

sweety - you don't know pale until you meet me. My nickname is 'casper' and my friends joke that Dave & my baby will be born CLEAR.....

Irish, Polish & German - they don't get much whiter...

That being said....pale is HEALTHY....don't fake & bake...

Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
ShaDom9301 Posted: Oct 12, 2008 08:09 PM+
ShaDom9301 MEMBER SINCE: 8/08 TOTAL POSTS : 234 WEDDING DATE: Dec 13, 2008
Posted: Oct 12, 2008 08:09 PM bride-minus.png

Re: I'm sooooo pale....w/ poll

I wouldn't bother! It's not like june or july when your expected to have color LOL
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
No Posts Found With Your Match.
  • Chat With Local Long Island Brides
  • East Wind Super Show
  • Eastwind Super Show
  • Chat With Local Brides
  • Villa Lombardi's-Villa Lombardi's
  • NYIT de Seversky Mansion-NYIT de Seversky Mansion
  • Plastic Surgeons-
 
Welcome New Vendors
X
X
X
X
Email to Friend
X
Submit a Report