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NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?

buggiegirl Posted: Apr 07, 2005 07:20 PM+

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Posted: Apr 07, 2005 07:20 PM

Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?

not a chance!!!!!!!!!!!!

girlygrl33 Posted: Apr 07, 2005 09:17 PM+

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Posted: Apr 07, 2005 09:17 PM

Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?

Posted by jimmysgrl

Everyone's situation is different so please take everyone's exclamation marks on the subject with a grain of salt. IMO, if thats what you and your FH want to do then I'd say go for it! My friend is doing that for her upcoming wedding remembering that her first child took a couple of months to conceive. Although the girls had really good points that I would have to consider before doing it, you do what feels right for you.

Awww thank you, see Im 34 and getting married the 22 of this month. We really want a family right away and Im ovulating NOW so we thought hmmm maybe- i wouldnt be sick for the wedding or HM, you can still drink ( I asked the doctor) and theres a chance I may not conceive right away. A lot of my friends have been trying for years and months and nothing so we figured what would it matter if we started now and if I did get prego right away its a gift, especially at my age and would be first child. But we'll see we may wait till next month, after the wedding, we are tossing it in the air but I had to ask you guys what you thought. Thank you for all honest opinions I appreciate it. I am really curious if anyone else was possibly thinking of this as well.

girlygrl33 Posted: Apr 07, 2005 09:23 PM+

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Posted: Apr 07, 2005 09:23 PM

Re: NWR- anyone trying to get pregnant before the wedding- like weeks so you dont show?

Posted by JessicaM.

I understand the desire to start...I don't want to wait too long either, but I agree with everyone else about what it will do to you physically, but think also of the child...wedding time, as well all know, is very stressful especially the days leading up to it, which is not good for a growing fetus.

but with 4 weeks to go, no one's telling you not to have a few 'practice' runs!

Enjoy being a bride and a newlywed. those moments are fleeting...being a parent is for a lifetime.

We have been living together for 4 years and allready have a house so to us its like weve been married allready so thats another reason why we figured too why wait and practice makes perfect,