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signing my annulment papers tomorrow

suven Posted: Jan 26, 2005 08:56 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 08:56 PM

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palebride Posted: Jan 26, 2005 08:56 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 08:56 PM

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I wish there was something i could do or say that would make this easier for you - you are one of the sweetest, most caring people I've ever met....and you truly don't deserve all of the hurt you've experienced.....
Please know that you will be in my thoughts.....
And I truly believe that you are doing the right thing for you.....and I can't imagine how difficult a decision it was to come to....

danigirl0 Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:05 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:05 PM

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wow. i wish you all the best of strength tomorrow. i really admire you for making a wise decision as a woman, when many do not. i know you feel guilt and sorrow over this, and i am sure a lot of it is because of things he may have said or done. you ARE right about living once. and with all of our freedoms and opportunitites it would be wrong for you to subject yourself to something that may eventually put you and your future children in danger.

when you feel guilty, remorseful, and all of your other versions of emotions, remember that you are a role model for those who do not have the strenght that you do to recognize a problem and do something about it. as you said, your husband had the chance to change, and rather than seeing this as a wakeup call, he continued with lies and manipulation.

good luck. i dont know you, but i am proud of you!

Moehick Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:09 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:09 PM

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Your a strong girl and are doing the right thing, especially since now you know he never got help and is still up to his old tricks!

Tomorrow after you sign those papers is the start of a whole new life.

JodiBabe Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:12 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:12 PM

Re: signing my annulment papers tomorrow

Kristi

Sasha96 Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:23 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:23 PM

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we're here for you now and if you need us tomorrow you know where to find us!

mrswask Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:25 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:25 PM

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We love you Kristi!!!

Summerbride04 Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:26 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:26 PM

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lbf404 Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:29 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:29 PM

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Stay strong- you have the love and support of all of us here on the boards.

beachgirl13 Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:29 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:29 PM

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Good luck. So sorry you are going through this.

kdelace Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:54 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:54 PM

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thanks everyone for all of your support. i appreciate your kind words...

please also say a prayer for my poor dad. He has to go in for exploratory knee surgery tomorrow... too many things going on in the family tomorrow.....

lvdolphins Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:56 PM+

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luvsbob4603 Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:57 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:57 PM

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Lots of hugs for you!

ETA: Just know what you are doing tomorrow is what is best for you! you dont need someone who is lying to you about not going to couseling and drinking. you are a very beautiful woman and you will meet that right person when you are ready and just know we are here for you always.

salsbride06 Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:59 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 09:59 PM

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we love you and we are here for you. i think that maybe this will help him realize what a good thing he is losing. god bless you

Cindy Posted: Jan 26, 2005 10:12 PM+

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Samanthas Mom Posted: Jan 26, 2005 10:26 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 10:26 PM

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I am so sorry, I hope you get a fresh new start and build a new life for yourself

BethGail Posted: Jan 26, 2005 10:31 PM+

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allure Posted: Jan 26, 2005 10:38 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 10:38 PM

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Wishing you all the best

Keep The Faith Within Yourself

june262004 Posted: Jan 26, 2005 10:41 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 10:41 PM

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Kristi Now you are making the right decision. It is not a failure and you are NOT a failure. After all of this he lied to you by telling you he was getting help which he wasn't. He doesn't want to change. So many

to you. And remember we all love you here and are here to listen.

FeliciaDA Posted: Jan 26, 2005 11:28 PM+

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Posted: Jan 26, 2005 11:28 PM

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Kristi , I will be thinking about you tomorrow sweetie

I know that this is probably the most difficult decision you have ever made, but I feel from your words and the way you have expressed yourself (especially tonight) that this is truly what you need to do - now the time has come to put some distance between you and this relationship, and find some closure to this sad chapter in your life. You are strong, and you WILL get through this!

Try to make peace with your decision in the coming weeks and also try to keep in mind that there is a wonderful future ahead of you. You seem like such a amazing woman and you have much to offer this world. One day you will have everything you deserve and more - and I firmly believe will find true happiness in all aspects of your life .

As all the other ladies and gents have said, we are here to support you and we love you!

And I'm only an FM away if you ever need to chat!