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Some people have SOME NERVE...VENT

stephanief Posted: Sep 06, 2005 03:49 PM+

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Posted: Sep 06, 2005 03:49 PM

Re: Some people have SOME NERVE...VENT

Posted by JCMsGirl05

I did nothing to her in this. She was the hurtful one here. The truth hurts and you are right, reading this probably does hurt her.

I agree that if the friendship is severed, why even discuss this? You are OBVIOUSLY upset at her and I can't understand why you don't admit that?

VS11 Posted: Sep 06, 2005 03:49 PM+

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Posted: Sep 06, 2005 03:49 PM

Re: Some people have SOME NERVE...VENT

If one of my BM'S did this to me, I would be more concerned with our friendship and the reasons why she backed out,,rather than losing money. I wouldnt worry about the money I am losing for the gift I bought the bridal party..I wouldnt worry about the bridal party line-up..I wouldnt worry about wanting the gift I gave at her wedding back or wishing I paid by check that way I can cancel it....
I would worry about where the hell our friendship went wrong......do you honestly believe that because you dropped out of her wedding that she is doing this out of spite??? You had to have seen your friendship in jeapardy prior to this incident...no?
I am not taking sides,,i am just looking at it as if it happend to me...

ETA: just wanted to add that you have every reason to be upset and hurt,,who wouldnt be...but you should be less upset with her for dropping out of the bridal party and more upset that u are losing a friend..

MrsA814 Posted: Sep 06, 2005 05:29 PM+

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Posted: Sep 06, 2005 05:29 PM

Re: Some people have SOME NERVE...VENT

i'm so sorry that happened to you

Happybride2005 Posted: Sep 06, 2005 07:52 PM+

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Posted: Sep 06, 2005 07:52 PM

Re: Some people have SOME NERVE...VENT

Posted by bella11

If one of my BM'S did this to me, I would be more concerned with our friendship and the reasons why she backed out,,rather than losing money. I wouldnt worry about the money I am losing for the gift I bought the bridal party..I wouldnt worry about the bridal party line-up..I wouldnt worry about wanting the gift I gave at her wedding back or wishing I paid by check that way I can cancel it....
I would worry about where the hell our friendship went wrong......do you honestly believe that because you dropped out of her wedding that she is doing this out of spite??? You had to have seen your friendship in jeapardy prior to this incident...no?
I am not taking sides,,i am just looking at it as if it happend to me...

ETA: just wanted to add that you have every reason to be upset and hurt,,who wouldnt be...but you should be less upset with her for dropping out of the bridal party and more upset that u are losing a friend..

i agree. the friendship would mean more than having her in the bridal party