Re: Strippers

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by ourday08

I do not want male stripper at my bachelorette party and I would PREFER that FH not have them at his party but knowing his BM then it's a possibility. We had a talk about it and I told him to simply not disrespect himself and to not disrespect our relationship. He knows not to cross the line but my line does not end at having sex , there are a lot of thing that you can do to disrespect yourself that doesn't involve having sex. I want him to have fun but don't be stupid.

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I totally agree and the thing that i find most respectful about all of you women on here is that you have ALL sat down and DISCUSSED this situation with your FH. it's important to be open and honest about your feelings regarding the BP. If you don't and then hear about the escapade at a later date, chances are, you'll be more upset. FH and I sat down and discussed it. Much like you, ourday08, I said, as long as you don't disrespect me or our relationship, it's all good, and I promise to act respectful too.

It's all about communicating what you like, don't like, etc. FH may think you are ok with strippers at his BP and that is why he is having them... there is nothing wrong with not wanting them there or wanting them there, as long as you are communicating with one another...

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Very well said.

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Posted by bemyyoko

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by ourday08

I do not want male stripper at my bachelorette party and I would PREFER that FH not have them at his party but knowing his BM then it's a possibility. We had a talk about it and I told him to simply not disrespect himself and to not disrespect our relationship. He knows not to cross the line but my line does not end at having sex , there are a lot of thing that you can do to disrespect yourself that doesn't involve having sex. I want him to have fun but don't be stupid.

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I totally agree and the thing that i find most respectful about all of you women on here is that you have ALL sat down and DISCUSSED this situation with your FH. it's important to be open and honest about your feelings regarding the BP. If you don't and then hear about the escapade at a later date, chances are, you'll be more upset. FH and I sat down and discussed it. Much like you, ourday08, I said, as long as you don't disrespect me or our relationship, it's all good, and I promise to act respectful too.

It's all about communicating what you like, don't like, etc. FH may think you are ok with strippers at his BP and that is why he is having them... there is nothing wrong with not wanting them there or wanting them there, as long as you are communicating with one another...

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Very well said.

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thanks

Re: Strippers

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by ourday08

I do not want male stripper at my bachelorette party and I would PREFER that FH not have them at his party but knowing his BM then it's a possibility. We had a talk about it and I told him to simply not disrespect himself and to not disrespect our relationship. He knows not to cross the line but my line does not end at having sex , there are a lot of thing that you can do to disrespect yourself that doesn't involve having sex. I want him to have fun but don't be stupid.

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I totally agree and the thing that i find most respectful about all of you women on here is that you have ALL sat down and DISCUSSED this situation with your FH. it's important to be open and honest about your feelings regarding the BP. If you don't and then hear about the escapade at a later date, chances are, you'll be more upset. FH and I sat down and discussed it. Much like you, ourday08, I said, as long as you don't disrespect me or our relationship, it's all good, and I promise to act respectful too.

It's all about communicating what you like, don't like, etc. FH may think you are ok with strippers at his BP and that is why he is having them... there is nothing wrong with not wanting them there or wanting them there, as long as you are communicating with one another...

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very true...I told FH what im comfortable with, and my rules regarding cheating and what i consider cheating but my main concerns arent even about girls. Mine is about money he would gamble bc he can get bad with gambling and i know there will be lots of drugs and thats another concern, i dont know if he would though but see thats one thing i am against, i havent done drugs and this is what i would get mad at.

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uggggh disgusting.. (in response to anal ring toss)

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by ourday08

I do not want male stripper at my bachelorette party and I would PREFER that FH not have them at his party but knowing his BM then it's a possibility. We had a talk about it and I told him to simply not disrespect himself and to not disrespect our relationship. He knows not to cross the line but my line does not end at having sex , there are a lot of thing that you can do to disrespect yourself that doesn't involve having sex. I want him to have fun but don't be stupid.

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I totally agree and the thing that i find most respectful about all of you women on here is that you have ALL sat down and DISCUSSED this situation with your FH. it's important to be open and honest about your feelings regarding the BP. If you don't and then hear about the escapade at a later date, chances are, you'll be more upset. FH and I sat down and discussed it. Much like you, ourday08, I said, as long as you don't disrespect me or our relationship, it's all good, and I promise to act respectful too.

It's all about communicating what you like, don't like, etc. FH may think you are ok with strippers at his BP and that is why he is having them... there is nothing wrong with not wanting them there or wanting them there, as long as you are communicating with one another...

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very true...I told FH what im comfortable with, and my rules regarding cheating and what i consider cheating but my main concerns arent even about girls. Mine is about money he would gamble bc he can get bad with gambling and i know there will be lots of drugs and thats another concern, i dont know if he would though but see thats one thing i am against, i havent done drugs and this is what i would get mad at.

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But you took the initiative to sit down and talk to him. None of this is easy to talk about, period, so I think it is awesome that we are all strong enough to say, hey, this is what I'm cool with, and this isn't gonna fly. rather than not talk about it and hope everything goes fine. That is when the problems come in.

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by ourday08

I do not want male stripper at my bachelorette party and I would PREFER that FH not have them at his party but knowing his BM then it's a possibility. We had a talk about it and I told him to simply not disrespect himself and to not disrespect our relationship. He knows not to cross the line but my line does not end at having sex , there are a lot of thing that you can do to disrespect yourself that doesn't involve having sex. I want him to have fun but don't be stupid.

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I totally agree and the thing that i find most respectful about all of you women on here is that you have ALL sat down and DISCUSSED this situation with your FH. it's important to be open and honest about your feelings regarding the BP. If you don't and then hear about the escapade at a later date, chances are, you'll be more upset. FH and I sat down and discussed it. Much like you, ourday08, I said, as long as you don't disrespect me or our relationship, it's all good, and I promise to act respectful too.

It's all about communicating what you like, don't like, etc. FH may think you are ok with strippers at his BP and that is why he is having them... there is nothing wrong with not wanting them there or wanting them there, as long as you are communicating with one another...

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very true...I told FH what im comfortable with, and my rules regarding cheating and what i consider cheating but my main concerns arent even about girls. Mine is about money he would gamble bc he can get bad with gambling and i know there will be lots of drugs and thats another concern, i dont know if he would though but see thats one thing i am against, i havent done drugs and this is what i would get mad at.

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But you took the initiative to sit down and talk to him. None of this is easy to talk about, period, so I think it is awesome that we are all strong enough to say, hey, this is what I'm cool with, and this isn't gonna fly. rather than not talk about it and hope everything goes fine. That is when the problems come in.

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LOL i always talk about these things with FH, he thinks i have issues...I always even ask about his past and stuff, i dont mind and ill bring it up casually and he'll start telling me things then he'll be like OMG why are we talking about this, why do you wanna hear these things lol...But yes you are very right, communication is key. Let them know how you feel about things and dont just let it go hoping things go the way you want

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Posted by GinaBambina88

uggggh disgusting.. (in response to anal ring toss)

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i dont know whats worse that or the girl who shoots ping pong balls out of there

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by ourday08

I do not want male stripper at my bachelorette party and I would PREFER that FH not have them at his party but knowing his BM then it's a possibility. We had a talk about it and I told him to simply not disrespect himself and to not disrespect our relationship. He knows not to cross the line but my line does not end at having sex , there are a lot of thing that you can do to disrespect yourself that doesn't involve having sex. I want him to have fun but don't be stupid.

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I totally agree and the thing that i find most respectful about all of you women on here is that you have ALL sat down and DISCUSSED this situation with your FH. it's important to be open and honest about your feelings regarding the BP. If you don't and then hear about the escapade at a later date, chances are, you'll be more upset. FH and I sat down and discussed it. Much like you, ourday08, I said, as long as you don't disrespect me or our relationship, it's all good, and I promise to act respectful too.

It's all about communicating what you like, don't like, etc. FH may think you are ok with strippers at his BP and that is why he is having them... there is nothing wrong with not wanting them there or wanting them there, as long as you are communicating with one another...

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very true...I told FH what im comfortable with, and my rules regarding cheating and what i consider cheating but my main concerns arent even about girls. Mine is about money he would gamble bc he can get bad with gambling and i know there will be lots of drugs and thats another concern, i dont know if he would though but see thats one thing i am against, i havent done drugs and this is what i would get mad at.

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But you took the initiative to sit down and talk to him. None of this is easy to talk about, period, so I think it is awesome that we are all strong enough to say, hey, this is what I'm cool with, and this isn't gonna fly. rather than not talk about it and hope everything goes fine. That is when the problems come in.

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Exactly! I think that's really what i was trying to say even though it didnt work that way lol.
Basically, if you're not cool with something, have the guts to say something rather than sitting back and letting things happen.
Also, if you're cool with it, say that too b/c that can take away a lot of stress as well.

Communication is the biggest issue when it comes to the stripper 'controversy'.

Re: Strippers

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by GinaBambina88

uggggh disgusting.. (in response to anal ring toss)

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i dont know whats worse that or the girl who shoots ping pong balls out of there

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OMG My FH's friend said that's who he's hiring for the bp. A girl who will not only stick anything up there, but also shoot it back out.

I wonder if he knows about this anal ring toss game... i can just see FH's friend and FBIL now...
FH and his bestman would be off playing video games somewhere lol

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I just tell FH not to make any mistakes and if he does, I better not find out or I'll end up in jail.

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Well, I went to Hunkmania for a friends bday and it was fun. I don't care either way if I have them or not. I know FH's friends will have them for his BP. We'll also have our parties on the same night and meet up after they're done.

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LOL i always talk about these things with FH, he thinks i have issues...I always even ask about his past and stuff, i dont mind and ill bring it up casually and he'll start telling me things then he'll be like OMG why are we talking about this, why do you wanna hear these things lol...But yes you are very right, communication is key. Let them know how you feel about things and dont just let it go hoping things go the way you want

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I am also very inquisitive... I want to know about his past, not because I want to know who he slept with, or who he dated, but where he came from that made him who is is... He'll start spilling some good beans and then be like, wait, i just told you about blah, blah blah...

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by GinaBambina88

uggggh disgusting.. (in response to anal ring toss)

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i dont know whats worse that or the girl who shoots ping pong balls out of there

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I feel so sheltered...

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Posted by Songstress1212

I just tell FH not to make any mistakes and if he does, I better not find out or I'll end up in jail.

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We'll be in the same cell, my dear!

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Posted by bemyyoko

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by GinaBambina88

uggggh disgusting.. (in response to anal ring toss)

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i dont know whats worse that or the girl who shoots ping pong balls out of there

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OMG My FH's friend said that's who he's hiring for the bp. A girl who will not only stick anything up there, but also shoot it back out.

I wonder if he knows about this anal ring toss game... i can just see FH's friend and FBIL now...
FH and his bestman would be off playing video games somewhere lol

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FH's friend was teasing me like that too! Telling me all the nasty things the strippers would do. I was like 'COOL,AWESOME'

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Posted by yelley77



LOL i always talk about these things with FH, he thinks i have issues...I always even ask about his past and stuff, i dont mind and ill bring it up casually and he'll start telling me things then he'll be like OMG why are we talking about this, why do you wanna hear these things lol...But yes you are very right, communication is key. Let them know how you feel about things and dont just let it go hoping things go the way you want

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I am also very inquisitive... I want to know about his past, not because I want to know who he slept with, or who he dated, but where he came from that made him who is is... He'll start spilling some good beans and then be like, wait, i just told you about blah, blah blah...

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HAHAHA EXACTLY! i wanna know how he acted in other relationships, treated other girls or just how he handled situations lol. I'll be ok with it too so i'll joke around about it so he'll get comfortable and then realize oh no what am i saying hahaha.

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by GinaBambina88

uggggh disgusting.. (in response to anal ring toss)

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i dont know whats worse that or the girl who shoots ping pong balls out of there

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O

M

G

I feel so sheltered...

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i think i saw this in the movie beer league

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by GinaBambina88

uggggh disgusting.. (in response to anal ring toss)

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i dont know whats worse that or the girl who shoots ping pong balls out of there

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what in the h*ll happened on this thread! LMAOOOoooo!

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Posted by Songstress1212

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Posted by bemyyoko

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by GinaBambina88

uggggh disgusting.. (in response to anal ring toss)

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i dont know whats worse that or the girl who shoots ping pong balls out of there

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OMG My FH's friend said that's who he's hiring for the bp. A girl who will not only stick anything up there, but also shoot it back out.

I wonder if he knows about this anal ring toss game... i can just see FH's friend and FBIL now...
FH and his bestman would be off playing video games somewhere lol

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FH's friend was teasing me like that too! Telling me all the nasty things the strippers would do. I was like 'COOL,AWESOME'

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That's just gross

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Posted by florezpeeps

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by GinaBambina88

uggggh disgusting.. (in response to anal ring toss)

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i dont know whats worse that or the girl who shoots ping pong balls out of there

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what in the h*ll happened on this thread! LMAOOOoooo!

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i am more impressed by the girls who can carry an egg and NOT break it. . . it really is awe inspiring