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Posted by TGs Lady 22908

I've been avoiding getting into this conversation but whatever.......I respect everyones opinion absolutely and people can do whatever they are comfortable with and all that but honestly, maybe it's because FH worked in a sex shop and was constantly surrounded by them or because I have a family member in the 'industry' (in Vegas) but I seem to be more de-sensitized to the whole stripper situation. My FH can pretty much do anything he wants outside of have sex because I know that strippers will only go as far as your money and we don't have all that much money And yes, there will ALWAYS be horror stories etc, etc but seriously it all comes down to cash. I think of them like used-car salesmen....they can smell how much money you have, if you have alot, they'll go far to get it, because money is the only thing that makes up for the relative shittyness that these girls have to put up with. So yeah....

That's my 2 cents.

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well ive been to a female strip club, have met strippers so maybe thats why...but i agree, it costs money for the girls to sleep with the guys, so unless his boys are ready to put up quite some money then they wont do anything. ALSO, many strip clubs the guys cant even get near them, cant touch them or anything or you will get kicked out. But for a pretty price you can get in the back rooms

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i really don't care for male strippers cuz i've never found meatheads to be attractive~...fh's bachelor party is another story, i am really not looking forward to it-fh is prob going to be drunkas$ and highly encouragable, i can only imagine dirty whore$ all over the place doing things with my fh that would make me really really

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Posted by Espo22

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I told FH if by chance he sees vida i'll give him a free pass but see im smart bc FH has been out at a club and she was there and he was right by her, did he go to even say hello or even like try to give her the eyes NOOOOO(btw this was when he was single) and you know why!!!! bc he says he doesn't approach most girls and he will never sweat any girl no matter who she is...FH is the type that if every guy is sweating a girl he makes sure not to even pay attention to her so he doesn't gas her up, and if she goes up to him he'll have a ok whatever attitude. So uhmmm yeah FH would expect Vida to go up to him and that was my reaction when he told me this

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LOL!

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you don't understand he is dead serious too. He was out recently and all the guys were sweating some girl at a club and she stood by FH and smiled at him so he just looked at her and laughed at her then walked away. Then there was some other chick, i think real tall, blonde, implants and every guy was drooling and when she walked by right in front of her face he said 'i dont think shes hott, her friend looks better than her' the blonde looked at him and was like what OMG hes like its true youre not hott and the girl with her was the small petite girl that everyone kept pushing aside to get to the friend and he said she got so shocked when he said that and put her head down to say thank you. When he is out FH is an A**Hole

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OMG Denise! That is hilarious! Fh is like that too! The funniest part is that, since he's engaged and usually goes out with single guys, the girls migrate towards him since he's usually standing by himself cuz his friends are out girl searching so they 'feel bad for him'. Last time he went out one girl was like 'Aww I feel bad for you, youre all alone' And he shot her down quick. I bet she didnt feel too bad for him after that. I like when theyre A-HOLES. He also comes home like, 'They were sweating this chick and she wasnt even hot' Your FH and mine should go out together, they'd probably make girls cry

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wait dont they know eachother your FH hangs out with Frank M, goose and them right? so they probably have lol, i think its the way they all are

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by TGs Lady 22908

I've been avoiding getting into this conversation but whatever.......I respect everyones opinion absolutely and people can do whatever they are comfortable with and all that but honestly, maybe it's because FH worked in a sex shop and was constantly surrounded by them or because I have a family member in the 'industry' (in Vegas) but I seem to be more de-sensitized to the whole stripper situation. My FH can pretty much do anything he wants outside of have sex because I know that strippers will only go as far as your money and we don't have all that much money And yes, there will ALWAYS be horror stories etc, etc but seriously it all comes down to cash. I think of them like used-car salesmen....they can smell how much money you have, if you have alot, they'll go far to get it, because money is the only thing that makes up for the relative shittyness that these girls have to put up with. So yeah....

That's my 2 cents.

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well ive been to a female strip club, have met strippers so maybe thats why...but i agree, it costs money for the girls to sleep with the guys, so unless his boys are ready to put up quite some money then they wont do anything. ALSO, many strip clubs the guys cant even get near them, cant touch them or anything or you will get kicked out. But for a pretty price you can get in the back rooms

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This is kind OT but everytime I hear even a reference to someone having sex in a strip club I think about that Chris Rock song from forever ago 'No Sex in the Champange Room'...

...now it's stuck in my head.

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Posted by Songstress1212

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Posted by Espo22

I told FH if by chance he sees vida i'll give him a free pass but see im smart bc FH has been out at a club and she was there and he was right by her, did he go to even say hello or even like try to give her the eyes NOOOOO(btw this was when he was single) and you know why!!!! bc he says he doesn't approach most girls and he will never sweat any girl no matter who she is...FH is the type that if every guy is sweating a girl he makes sure not to even pay attention to her so he doesn't gas her up, and if she goes up to him he'll have a ok whatever attitude. So uhmmm yeah FH would expect Vida to go up to him and that was my reaction when he told me this

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LOL!

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you don't understand he is dead serious too. He was out recently and all the guys were sweating some girl at a club and she stood by FH and smiled at him so he just looked at her and laughed at her then walked away. Then there was some other chick, i think real tall, blonde, implants and every guy was drooling and when she walked by right in front of her face he said 'i dont think shes hott, her friend looks better than her' the blonde looked at him and was like what OMG hes like its true youre not hott and the girl with her was the small petite girl that everyone kept pushing aside to get to the friend and he said she got so shocked when he said that and put her head down to say thank you. When he is out FH is an A**Hole

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OMG Denise! That is hilarious! Fh is like that too! The funniest part is that, since he's engaged and usually goes out with single guys, the girls migrate towards him since he's usually standing by himself cuz his friends are out girl searching so they 'feel bad for him'. Last time he went out one girl was like 'Aww I feel bad for you, youre all alone' And he shot her down quick. I bet she didnt feel too bad for him after that. I like when theyre A-HOLES. He also comes home like, 'They were sweating this chick and she wasnt even hot' Your FH and mine should go out together, they'd probably make girls cry

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wait dont they know eachother your FH hangs out with Frank M, goose and them right? so they probably have lol, i think its the way they all are

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Yeah they do. He always tells me he knows Joe! but I never know how well they know eachother. Im sure they've been out together. He hangs out more with Goose, Harry, Bobby. He hangs with Frank once in a while. They Are all like that, thats why I like then they go out together!

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i don't know how i feel about strippers.. not too crazy about the whole idea!

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Yeah they do. He always tells me he knows Joe! but I never know how well they know eachother. Im sure they've been out together. He hangs out more with Goose, Harry, Bobby. He hangs with Frank once in a while. They Are all like that, thats why I like then they go out together!

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YEAH I asked FH about your FH and he said he knows him, i think thats what he said they hung out a couple of times when everybody went out. I asked him after you sent me the pics you had of me and FH when we went to rock candy, its so funny. I said hes engaged to the real pretty girl that was out that night and he said yeah shes a singer i know

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Astoria is such a small little world, I feel like everyone knows everyone here. I guess its part of the reason why he NEVER WANTS TO LEAVE! lol
Im sure we'll all bump into eachother again sooner or later! Im surprised it hasnt been more often

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Astoria is such a small little world, I feel like everyone knows everyone here. I guess its part of the reason why he NEVER WANTS TO LEAVE! lol
Im sure we'll all bumo into eachother sooner or later! Im surprised it hasnt been more often

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well that is because FH doesn't like to go out clubbing anymore he does here and there for someones birthday or something, he went from a party animal to being domesticated, i wish he did go out more lol, i convinced we have to go out dancing soon lol. But yeah astoria is like a small town lol

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C'mon ladies, you know you LOVE this...

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Posted by Songstress1212

Astoria is such a small little world, I feel like everyone knows everyone here. I guess its part of the reason why he NEVER WANTS TO LEAVE! lol
Im sure we'll all bumo into eachother sooner or later! Im surprised it hasnt been more often

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well that is because FH doesn't like to go out clubbing anymore he does here and there for someones birthday or something, he went from a party animal to being domesticated, i wish he did go out more lol, i convinced we have to go out dancing soon lol. But yeah astoria is like a small town lol

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Dont feel bad, getting mine to go out is like pulling teeth, hes always tired. Someone has to throw a big birthday party again or a party at a hall to get him to go out. I kinda like that he doesnt like to go out anymore but at least go out with ME! Im sure he'll go all out for the bachelor party though...HE BETTER!

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Posted by yelley77

C'mon ladies, you know you LOVE this...

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LMAO YELLEY!! Is that TOM?!!

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Posted by Songstress1212

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Songstress1212

Astoria is such a small little world, I feel like everyone knows everyone here. I guess its part of the reason why he NEVER WANTS TO LEAVE! lol
Im sure we'll all bumo into eachother sooner or later! Im surprised it hasnt been more often

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well that is because FH doesn't like to go out clubbing anymore he does here and there for someones birthday or something, he went from a party animal to being domesticated, i wish he did go out more lol, i convinced we have to go out dancing soon lol. But yeah astoria is like a small town lol

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Dont feel bad, getting mine to go out is like pulling teeth, hes always tired. Someone has to throw a big birthday party again or a party at a hall to get him to go out. I kinda like that he doesnt like to go out anymore but at least go out with ME! Im sure he'll go all out for the bachelor party though...HE BETTER!

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UGH whats wrong with these men my god you couldnt get this kid to NOT go out for god knows how many years and now it is like pulling teeth lol. EXACTLY!!! i want him to go out to clubs with me more, i love going out dancing with him. I told him while we're in Florida he better lol.

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OH WAIT wanna know why we cant go out to clubs, bc he has softball early sunday mornings

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Indeed!! lol!

gotta love photobucket!! :)

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UGH whats wrong with these men my god you couldnt get this kid to NOT go out for god knows how many years and now it is like pulling teeth lol. EXACTLY!!! i want him to go out to clubs with me more, i love going out dancing with him. I told him while we're in Florida he better lol.

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I HATE THIS..FH TOO...i mean what do they want for us to stay home and get FAT.

lol- when we lived together., and i went out without him he had a big problem....i wonder how it is gonna be when we are married

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OH WAIT wanna know why we cant go out to clubs, bc he has softball early sunday mornings

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Lets not even get started with the excuses!!! I guess them not wanting to go out anymore is because of us! They found their women, whats the point of going out anymore right?!! I think the REAL reason is because he hates disrespectful men and doesnt want to get into a fight. Does FH ever tell you that. Youre gorgeous so Im sure when you guys go out he has to put up with guys who dont know how to act right...I kind of understand when he puts it that way but its still not Fair!

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Posted by yelley77

C'mon ladies, you know you LOVE this...

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omg.

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Posted by yelley77

C'mon ladies, you know you LOVE this...

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omg.

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Man, I wonder if Tom is available for my bachelorette party and how much...

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i dont want strippers (though som e of my BM are insiting htat i have one ... i lovet them however if they take me to a strip club i am leaving htme there and going to a club) ... and i don tmind at all if FH has them i told him to have some ...