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THE BACHELOR PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DanaMZ Posted: Aug 14, 2005 10:10 PM+

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Posted: Aug 14, 2005 10:10 PM

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Posted by N.Y.bride

Some guys are slime! I've heard these stories all too often. It's horrible! I know a few guys bought my husband a few lap dances and each time the girl came over my DH would flash his ring and say Im already married and then hed explain.. I know this is what really happened! I was so proud of him.
I feel so bad for that bride. She should know and if it was me as horrible as it sounds I would send an anonymous email or something.

I agree!!! As much as nobody wants to 'get involved' I would hope that if I were in that situation (god forbid), someone would tell me.

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Aug 14, 2005 10:20 PM+

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Posted: Aug 14, 2005 10:20 PM

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omg

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Aug 14, 2005 10:25 PM+

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Posted: Aug 14, 2005 10:25 PM

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i'm so grossed out and even though i trust FH knowing that friends of grooms can be so persuasive scares me

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Aug 14, 2005 10:52 PM+

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Posted: Aug 14, 2005 10:52 PM

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i just had my FH read this post and he was like what a scumbag and he says if this guy was willing to do this then hes probably cheated before. he feels bad for the bride.

SIBride06 Posted: Aug 15, 2005 10:52 AM+

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Posted: Aug 15, 2005 10:52 AM

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I read this post to my FI. He agreed that this guys is an *******. One thing about my FI is that his conscience will eat him alive if he ever did anything like that.

Goldi1021 Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:05 AM+

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Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:05 AM

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I can honor the idea that what happens at a bachelor party STAYS at the bachelor party but FH was warned that ALL BETS ARE OFF if he TOUCHES anything. He can LOOK all he wants, he can even go back to his hotel room for 'self love' if he has to. If I find out, that his hands were on anything ('things' being strippers, prostitutes) then there is no wedding and I HOCK THE RING!!!

soontobemrsgordon Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:27 AM+

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Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:27 AM

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Posted by Goldi1021

I can honor the idea that what happens at a bachelor party STAYS at the bachelor party but FH was warned that ALL BETS ARE OFF if he TOUCHES anything. He can LOOK all he wants, he can even go back to his hotel room for 'self love' if he has to. If I find out, that his hands were on anything ('things' being strippers, prostitutes) then there is no wedding and I HOCK THE RING!!!

I couldn't agree with you more!

SIBride06 Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:29 AM+

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Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:29 AM

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Hells yeah.. i totally agree!

Goldi1021 Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:34 AM+

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Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:34 AM

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Posted by CaseyVM214

Posted by SIBride06

My FI is going to Canada in 2 weeks for his cousins bachelor party.. i dont even want to know why Canada of all places on earth.. Oh well.

I think people love Canada....because anything goes up there....at least that is what I heard.

Why? BECAUSE IT IS LEGAL TO TOUCH BOOBIES IN CANADA - THATS WHY!!!!!

SIBride06 Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:43 AM+

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Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:43 AM

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Figures. My FI loves Boobies.

I cant.. Im starting to hate Canada.

Love_my_Freddybear Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:51 AM+

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Posted: Aug 15, 2005 11:51 AM

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like it or not stuff like this happens a lot!!!
And if it happens during the BP most likely it happened before it and will happen after it.
Those type of guys are low and shouldn't be marrying in the first place. We all know who we are with!!! Don't let stories like that upset you or get you thinking crazy stuff.

BKtoLI Posted: Aug 15, 2005 12:11 PM+

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Posted: Aug 15, 2005 12:11 PM

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It's disgusting, and let me tell you, as someone who used to waitress in a strip club, I've seen EVERYTHING in the VIP room!!

Let's just put it this way, when you sit there and hear guys and strippers negotiate prices for sexual acts, it can really be a turn off!! And I've had offers from bachelor parties as well! (Of course I said no!)

So trust me, it's not just the strippers you have to worry about! There are plenty of girls in night clubs that would love to be some guy's last fling before he gets married!!

My only saving grace is that although I know my FH may end up at a strip club, although he prefers the casinos, my BROTHERS will be there with him!! That, and I trust my FH 100% or I wouldn't let him go!!