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that's beyond horrible.

i have a story for you. when fi & i first started dating he told me about one of his friend's bachelor parties. they didn't go to strip club, they got strippers (this was the first and LAST time they did). now, i have to preface this with a note that i was shocked when he told me what happened b/c he & his friends are, with the exception of drinking too much once in a while, relatively stand-up citizens. strong morals & all that jazz. i mean, all of them are such good guys.

anyhow, he was telling me at the end of the nite he walks into bathroom to find groom-to-be with pants down and the two strippers, um, well, you can figure it out.

the WORST part is that anytime we hang out with them, i feel HORRIBLE that i know this about the girl's husband and she has not a clue. i won't even begin to tell you what i think of him...

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That's so wrong and disrespectful!!!

FH can have strippers and all that nonsense, but I trust that he will not do anything with those girls. I know he thinks they are trashy and dirty so I am not concerned...

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It makes me sad to hear this. My fh said that he would be insulted if his friends included strippers that touched him at all. He said he would be okay at a strip club but doesn't want to be touched at all.

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Ughhh just the thought is horrible!! I hope the guy felt like a piece of s**t in the morning.

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gross.

My fi went to a strip club for a bachelor party, and there was a shower room where they wait to each take one hand and soap up the girl. he said it was quite sad and funny at the same time. I thought it was yucky. at least she was clean!

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Posted by ChristineAE

Terrible - but it happens all the time, and not only MEN, but WOMEN do it too.

Who knows, this guy could have been cheating the entire time on his FI....

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And I thought the Champagne room was bad....although I am still not totallu conviced that what goes on in there is kosher. Neither of us will be going toa stip club....or any of that. I would love to go to a spa and he is so active that I am sure his will invovle some sort of outdoor activity. The weeks before a wedding are so hectic..why add extra tension with something crazy like that.

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Posted by jennymac

gross.

My fi went to a strip club for a bachelor party, and there was a shower room where they wait to each take one hand and soap up the girl. he said it was quite sad and funny at the same time. I thought it was yucky. at least she was clean!

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A shower room?? I'm sorry but that's just funny!! What is wrong with men???

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MY FH DOESN'T WANT TO HAVE ONE - I'LL PROBABLY GO TO THE HAMPTONS FOR MEMORIAL WEEKEND - IF YOU CAN'T TRUST HIM NOW OR VICE VERSA, YOU WILL NEVER MAKE IT. CAUSE WITH OUT TRUST, YOUR RELATIONSHIP MEANS NOTHIG.
-THAT IS JUST MY OPINION

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My FI is going to Canada in 2 weeks for his cousins bachelor party.. i dont even want to know why Canada of all places on earth.. Oh well.

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Posted by Jennie0898

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Posted by jennymac

gross.

My fi went to a strip club for a bachelor party, and there was a shower room where they wait to each take one hand and soap up the girl. he said it was quite sad and funny at the same time. I thought it was yucky. at least she was clean!

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A shower room?? I'm sorry but that's just funny!! What is wrong with men???

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OMG!!!! How crazy!! What has this world come to.

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Posted by SIBride06

My FI is going to Canada in 2 weeks for his cousins bachelor party.. i dont even want to know why Canada of all places on earth.. Oh well.

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I think people love Canada....because anything goes up there....at least that is what I heard.

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I cant even fathom the thought. I trust my FI, but still. I hate bachelor parties.

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THE BACHELOR NIGHT SCARES THE **** OUT OF ME. I TRULY TRUST MY FH AND AT TIMES HE EVEN SAYS HE DOES NOT WANT ONE, BUT I KNOW HE DOES, I DO NOT MIND THE STRIP CLUBS BUT NO WAY IS HE GOING TO GET A ROOM AND BRING ONE UP THERE.. WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ABOUT. THATS JUST LIKE SOME GUYS GO TO VEGAS, MY FH KNOWS I WANT TO GO THERE FOR THE 1ST TIME WITH HIM.

WE HAVE TO SAY........

1 NIGHT AND COME HOME THAT NIGHT, GIVE ME BREAK, THAT GUY MUST NOT BE SERIOUS WHAT ABOUT DISEASES THAT IS JUST WRONG THAT POOR POOR BRIDE TOBE.

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Posted by soontobemrsgordon


About a month my FH went to one of friends Bachelor Party (He's not in our wedding party)!Thank God!
My FH came home and told me everything.....They Went out to dinner then a bar and a strip club..... All I was fine with but then my FH told me that the groom to be:

1) Got a hotel room for himself for the night

Get ready cause this is the big one....


2) The groom to be and the best man were
search around the strip club to get one of the strippers/prostitutes to go back with the groom to his hotel for the night........

My FH told me that he asked the groom.
'Dude, are you really going to do this, your getting married next weekend?'

The groom told my FH to 'chill out and that it's his bachelor party and that he was bringing his night down.....
I was shocked.......... But I think Scott was even more surprised. He never thought that his friend would do something that awful. His friend and new bride have been together for 10 years.... No to mention she was at there condo that night all alone. She never ended up having a bachelorette party.

My FH refuses to have any strippers. He even made it clear to the guys that are in our wedding party. I'm alright either way about it.....BUT I like that he decided that without me telling him NO STRIPPERS....

I'm fine with a strip club BUT: when I hear

HOTEL ROOM
STRIPPER IN HOTEL ROOM
PROSTITUTES
OUT FOR THE NIGHT.
Not going to happen................
Just wanted to hear your thoughts on this slime ball and what you have discussed about Bachelor Parties with your FH..

Thanks,
-Jenn

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Posted by SIBride06

Ughhh just the thought is horrible!! I hope the guy felt like a piece of s**t in the morning.

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I hope so too... and I hope she finds out before she winds up with some cooties! Ugh Gross!!!!

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Posted by BJandDan

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Posted by SIBride06

Ughhh just the thought is horrible!! I hope the guy felt like a piece of s**t in the morning.

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I hope so too... and I hope she finds out before she winds up with some cooties! Ugh Gross!!!!

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That was exactly my thought....sure your upset about what he did...but how discusting is that!!!!!!!

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To all the ladies that responded:

I AGREE WITH YOU ALL 100%



I know him personally and he is a dog.
I just feel horrible everytime I see them now after the fact........

My FH never did find out if he did bring someone back with him.........To be honest just knowing that he tried...... He's a real S**T!

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I feel sad for the bride. That is horrible.

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Some guys are slime! I've heard these stories all too often. It's horrible! I know a few guys bought my husband a few lap dances and each time the girl came over my DH would flash his ring and say Im already married and then hed explain.. I know this is what really happened! I was so proud of him.
I feel so bad for that bride. She should know and if it was me as horrible as it sounds I would send an anonymous email or something.