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What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????
deedee Posted: Oct 21, 2003 11:38 AM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

I know thats its out of my control- But god forbid there is an ice storm or a blizzard and my guests don't show up. that is my all time biggest wedding day fear....
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JimmysBride Posted: Oct 21, 2003 11:38 AM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

I think I'm a little more morbid and pessimistic than you guys....I'm worried about big things like...some kind of tragedy befalling the family and no one feels like attending a wedding, I'm worried my dad might get sick or, um, not be around to walk to me down the aisle (Not that I have any justifiable reason to think that), but my worst fear is that I won't be the most beautiful girl that day.... You know how sometimes you wake up and look in the mirror and you're like 'ok, I look good today' and other days you feel like crap and think you look like even bigger crap? Well, my fear is I'll wake up the morning of my wedding and be having an 'I look like crap' day!!
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EvenEdan Posted: Oct 21, 2003 11:41 AM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

Jimmysbride—
I worry about those morbid things too. I basically worry about all there is to possibly worry about!
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Boop2704 Posted: Oct 21, 2003 11:44 AM+
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I have IBS!
My biggest fear, and I have had nightmares about it, is that when they open the doors at church for me to walk down the aisle, I am going to have a sudden panic attack and have to say to everyone, excuse me, I'll be right back, I have to run to the bathroom!!

This is really my ONLY fear right now!!
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embee Posted: Oct 21, 2003 11:49 AM+
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my biggest fear is that it will rain. the problem is that my family and i have big issues with weather. we used to go to Fire Island every summer, twice we had hurrianes, always we had rain...i mean always. once we were on vacation in virginia, and they shut down the water park we were at because of a tornado!!! in the area. we just have baaaad weather luck. kind of why i picked may, it is usually very mild.
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backwards_bride04 Posted: Oct 21, 2003 11:49 AM+
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I worry about:
1.Falling flat on my face while either walking down the aisle or making our entrance
2. My father making a scene like he did at my sisters, long story, basically he & his girlfriend fought and I spent the better 1/2 of the night keeping them apart and not letting my sister see what was going on.
3. No one showing up
4. One of my kids or me getting sick

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DrmnBlnd Posted: Oct 21, 2003 11:54 AM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

The weather is my biggest fear. The 2004 Farmers Almanac say there is a possibilty for Thunderstorms that day. Our ceremony is outside, so we want to at least have it sunny for then.
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BMD'sPeanut Posted: Oct 21, 2003 11:59 AM+
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Aww...Jimmysbride...I feel for you! That is ME!!!!!!
I worry about everything.
Specifically I am worried about the band, the pictures, the weather, not enough guests, cold food, bigger and worse things too that I don't want to talk about.
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Jordan Posted: Oct 21, 2003 12:05 PM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

That I have a migraine, sinus infection or stomach virus that day - or for the HM.

I'm pretty confident in the choices I've made thus far (my dress being the exception...I'm nervous it won't fit the way I think it should.).
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mlp924 Posted: Oct 21, 2003 12:06 PM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

My biggest fear is that my 3 year old will ruin the day. Sad to say, but he is loud and likes to run around. Hopefully, he will be nervous and behave himself.
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LIPrincess00 Posted: Oct 21, 2003 12:48 PM+
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I am most worried about either getting sick or passing out during the ceremony. My second fear is that my FSIL creates a scene.
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franksbride Posted: Oct 21, 2003 12:56 PM+
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I worry that my pictures are going to come out ugly. I know I shouldn't worry...but I just want nice, decent looking pics of me and FH on our wedding day, so that I'll want to look at them forever and not want to BURN them!!!

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kptoys Posted: Oct 21, 2003 01:09 PM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

Worst fears

Weather - I want an outside ceremony
Bridesmaid - That one wont show... she has a bad habit
People - Everyone showing up, there are a lot coming from OOT
Everything being perfect!!!
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regina2 Posted: Oct 21, 2003 02:20 PM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

That no one would show up.
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Maribelle7777 Posted: Oct 21, 2003 02:32 PM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

1 - that my guests dont get drunk
2 - that the guests that are not used to going to a wedding where they don't have a 'cash' bar don't go 'overboard' - see #1
3 - that guests from #1 don't freak out when bar closes towards end of reception and start a small riot
4- that no one from FH's side complains about anything pertaining to the wedding or reception because it's 'not done that way' where they are from
5- no one starts any fights
6- no one gets pissed off that the reception ends at 1am instead of going all night (we're asking one of the hotels we blocked rooms at to keep the bar open in their hotel until 4am, what more can my guests ask for)

Of course I have other concerns but those are my biggest.
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butterfly20 Posted: Oct 21, 2003 04:49 PM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

1-that mom will probably do something embarassing(already did for my sisters wedding)
2-that fh's cousin will bring her not invited boyfriend and have him propose
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kdelace Posted: Oct 21, 2003 05:30 PM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

SNOW!!! I am getting married on 2/7 and who could forget last years snow nightmare in February. I was luckily in the Dominican Republic.

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TESS Posted: Oct 21, 2003 07:55 PM+
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I want everything to be PERFECT. So I fear everything going wrong. If I had to choose one thing it would be that my contacts are going to bother me and I m going to have blood shot eyes for my pictures!
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kkattau Posted: Oct 21, 2003 08:28 PM+
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1. I GET SO NERVOUS I GET SICK TO MY STOMACH (I DO THAT OFTEN - IS THERE A CURE FOR THAT??)

2. BLIZZARD

3. FAMILY TRAGEDY
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sophie78 Posted: Oct 21, 2003 08:36 PM+
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Re: What is your worst fear for your wedding???? What are you most worried about going wrong????

Major Worries:
Someone breaking a body part before the day.
Someone dying.
My FFIL making a scene.

Petty Worries:
The weather.
The ceremony being anticlimatic for FI and me because we will have seen each other during picture taking.
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