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OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
amanda41083 Posted: Jun 23, 2008 03:37 PM+
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Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread

My forist is taking care of our garlands, i requested orchards so it will not weight my neck down.
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trinisweetness Posted: Jun 23, 2008 08:23 PM+
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Posted by trinisweetness

hey ladies!!! where did you get your weddings gardlands made? Or did you have your florist do it for you?

Also anyone know where I can get wedding garlan decorations for hanging in the home? Not the fresh flower ones.

TIA



anyone????
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AR31 Posted: Jun 24, 2008 08:21 AM+
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hey.. my decorator made my garlands.. try house of dipali, they do garlands.. hth
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trinisweetness Posted: Jun 24, 2008 09:21 AM+
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Posted by AR31

hey.. my decorator made my garlands.. try house of dipali, they do garlands.. hth



thanks!!
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pa56 Posted: Jun 25, 2008 09:59 AM+
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Can anyone that's used Sushmita Patel for hair and makeup please tell me your thoughts on her? Did she listen to you or just do whatever she thought was best?

Also, does she provide jewelry or just makeup?
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craznan Posted: Jul 07, 2008 08:48 AM+
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Hey all. Where have all you girls been?? I know there were a few weddings that passed, we wanna see pics and reviews, tell us all! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This thread has been quiet, let's continue to keep it alive!!!
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Caramelatta Posted: Jul 07, 2008 09:41 AM+
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Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread

Hi ladies!!!!

My FH is Bengali and I am hispanic. I want to wear a lehanga for the reception but I cant seem to find one that i really like. I want a champagne of a really nice gold or Ivory lehanga. When i come accross a color that i like its always mixed with another color. Do any of you have pics or any sites that i can go to? I already went to 74th street and they mostly have saris.TIA ladies
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RGV07 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 11:23 AM+
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Posted by Caramelatta

Hi ladies!!!!

My FH is Bengali and I am hispanic. I want to wear a lehanga for the reception but I cant seem to find one that i really like. I want a champagne of a really nice gold or Ivory lehanga. When i come accross a color that i like its always mixed with another color. Do any of you have pics or any sites that i can go to? I already went to 74th street and they mostly have saris.TIA ladies



you could try ustavsarees.com -they have sarees,lenghas,salwar.-or kaneesha.com-also a good site for lenghas
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Caramelatta Posted: Jul 07, 2008 04:58 PM+
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Thankyou. I ve seen utsavsarees but not kaneesha. Thanks
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amanda41083 Posted: Jul 09, 2008 09:35 AM+
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Hi, you can try Jackson Heights, i know Karishma fashions you can customize your outfit i went to Rose Botique in Hickville 516-390-0713, i saw a Lehenga i liked in Blue and ordered it in Red and added more designs to it.
Try this site also:
http://www.khaasboutique.com/khaasboutique/shopping.asp?cat=Ghagras
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Dulhan Posted: Jul 11, 2008 02:30 AM+
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Posted by Caramelatta

Hi ladies!!!!

My FH is Bengali and I am hispanic. I want to wear a lehanga for the reception but I cant seem to find one that i really like. I want a champagne of a really nice gold or Ivory lehanga. When i come accross a color that i like its always mixed with another color. Do any of you have pics or any sites that i can go to? I already went to 74th street and they mostly have saris.TIA ladies



Have you tried Edison in NJ?? They seem to have a better selection than 74th street. Also Hicksville in Long Island.
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Dulhan Posted: Jul 11, 2008 02:32 AM+
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Posted by craznan

Hey all. Where have all you girls been?? I know there were a few weddings that passed, we wanna see pics and reviews, tell us all! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This thread has been quiet, let's continue to keep it alive!!!



you're absolutely right craznan! It has been a lil quiet..All the newly wed brides have been busy it seems, including myself! hehe
I would like to post pics but I dont really know how to! lol Or the whole review thing
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AR31 Posted: Jul 11, 2008 09:02 AM+
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I am sorry girls.. guilty as charged.. haven't been on this site much.. and we're still the process of settling down at our apt. I haven't even looked at thank you cards..

how long did you girls have to wait to get your pictures???

i''ll do a review soon, i tried to put some pics up but it wouldn't post.. didn't get a chance after that.. will do that soo tooo!! soweee
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SainiBride Posted: Jul 14, 2008 03:33 PM+
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wow i never knew that i could find so much information here!
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Soon2bMrsRP Posted: Jul 14, 2008 03:59 PM+
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Hello ladies,
It's been really quiet on the Desi board - so just wondering what everyone's upto. I'm getting married at the end of August - and had my bridal shower this past weekend - which was a ton of fun. Love how there are always some people buying stuff not on the registry! but wtvr - not many of those. Also - ordered FH's tux, both our rings, and did some honeymoon shopping yesterday
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pa56 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 04:02 PM+
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How do you handle people bringing uninvited guests to your wedding?

My mom's friend invited her in-laws to my wedding and the invitations haven't even been sent out yet!

This seems to be a huge problem with my parents' generation in the indian community, at least in NJ. My brother got married 5 years ago and we had 5-7 (can't remember) univited guests show up - these are children and elderly parents of invited guests. It really is a problem!

I told my mom to give my number to every person that creates problems because I have no issues saying 'Oh Aunty, I would love to have your neighbor's cousin's son at my wedding but the reception hall will not allow any more people since we are at our maximum.'

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RGV07 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 04:45 PM+
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bump!
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Soon2bMrsRP Posted: Jul 14, 2008 04:50 PM+
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Posted by pa56

How do you handle people bringing uninvited guests to your wedding?

My mom's friend invited her in-laws to my wedding and the invitations haven't even been sent out yet!

This seems to be a huge problem with my parents' generation in the indian community, at least in NJ. My brother got married 5 years ago and we had 5-7 (can't remember) univited guests show up - these are children and elderly parents of invited guests. It really is a problem!

I told my mom to give my number to every person that creates problems because I have no issues saying 'Oh Aunty, I would love to have your neighbor's cousin's son at my wedding but the reception hall will not allow any more people since we are at our maximum.'




Hey - I totally know this problem - we had it at our engagement party too - but i guess it depends on the relationship - if it's a family member or a really close family friend that you grew up with - you can't really say - don't bring so and so - and for those that are helping you with stuff - I'd be hesitant - and also depends on whether space is an issue - we're having our reception at TOTP - where space is never an issue - goodluck - all desis have this prob
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pa56 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 04:55 PM+
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Soon2bMrsRP - space isn't an issue since we are not even inviting the maximum allowed for the reception hall. We're inviting 350 and the hall can hold up to 500. The issue is more common courtesy and the fact that I don't want strangers at my wedding.

My parents have accepted it, but me and my fiance have not.
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SainiBride Posted: Jul 16, 2008 01:56 AM+
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What we are doing is counting everyone who RSVP, and telling the hall that we might expect more or less... Sometimes they let it slide if it isnt a big difference in the number of guests expected...

So ladies, where are you guys going for your honeymoon :)
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