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OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
Dulhan
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:06 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:06 PM
Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
Posted by muttham4u
Welcome Dulhan! =) You're getting married the day after me =)
I'm in the process of looking for a DJ too. What do you consider an arm and a leg? Are you looking for an 'american' DJ? Or an Indian?
Check out the 08 Brides Forum too....I recently posted the question on DJs there.
So how's the rest of the planning going....what vendors have you chosen so far?
Well... the thing is I need the DJ for two events so Im hoping he will sell me a deal.. plus i also wanted to do some extra lighting for the shaadi, not the mehndi. so im looking for someone who can put together a nice package for me prob around 1800. I really cant spend more than that. weddings are a big expense as it is, and there has got to be a budget for everything. Im sure you know that by now since ur planning too! Wow, so memorial day weekend for you too! hehe Congrats!
Dulhan
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:10 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:10 PM
Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
Posted by MrsV2be
I went to Bukhara Grill yesterday.. I loved the samples. I just went to chit chat and give them a copy of the menu we came up with.. they treated us with so much hospitality, gave us free samples, took time out to really find out what we needed.. all in all it was a great experience. I just hope their prices come back to be within our budget![]()
Welcome Dulhan.. another May bride
The DJ for the reception can cost you around 2K plus or minus a couple of hundred depending on who you go with. You could do a so so DJ for the sangeet and mendhi (we all know one right) and go with the really good one for the reception.
I am going with a lady from Queens for mendhi, loved her style, and her prices were great as well.. but she did add on a travel charge because it is a little out of her way..
Thanks for the welcome! wow lots of May brides! its a beautiful time of the year...who are you going with for the mendhi? I would rather not have two separate djs, and instead get one so he could give me a better price package since i will book him for two days..
Is bukhara grill in the city? Isnt it more like a restaurant? Do they have a party room?
AR31
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:15 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:15 PM
Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
Posted by Dulhan
Posted by MrsV2be
I went to Bukhara Grill yesterday.. I loved the samples. I just went to chit chat and give them a copy of the menu we came up with.. they treated us with so much hospitality, gave us free samples, took time out to really find out what we needed.. all in all it was a great experience. I just hope their prices come back to be within our budget![]()
Welcome Dulhan.. another May bride
The DJ for the reception can cost you around 2K plus or minus a couple of hundred depending on who you go with. You could do a so so DJ for the sangeet and mendhi (we all know one right) and go with the really good one for the reception.
I am going with a lady from Queens for mendhi, loved her style, and her prices were great as well.. but she did add on a travel charge because it is a little out of her way..
Thanks for the welcome! wow lots of May brides! its a beautiful time of the year...who are you going with for the mendhi? I would rather not have two separate djs, and instead get one so he could give me a better price package since i will book him for two days..
Is bukhara grill in the city? Isnt it more like a restaurant? Do they have a party room?
Look into DJ Insomnia.. heard he's really good and resonable.. also DJ Amrit from Bollywood DJ's .they're great at multi-day events, because they have various packages. May is a very popular time, especially the holiday weekend.. so you might want to inquire soon since you need them for multiple days.
Bukhara is a restaurant but they do catering as well!! The mendhi lady is from Queens, if you want more details, FM me, I'll be happy to share!
Dulhan
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:17 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:17 PM
Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
I have looked at a couple of DJ's so far..but I'm still looking so I can get the best deal..oh and yes im looking for a desi DJ, not the corny type, but someone who knows how to get the guests motivated and who plays a good variety of music..
MAY24BRIDE
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:18 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:18 PM
Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
FH and I booked our honeymoon yesterday with Tom Varghese from American Express. He said that some of you girls are talking/booking with him too. Isn't he great??
Just so excited about our honeymoon...I had to share
AR31
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:25 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:25 PM
Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
Posted by muttham4u
FH and I booked our honeymoon yesterday with Tom Varghese from American Express. He said that some of you girls are talking/booking with him too. Isn't he great??Just so excited about our honeymoon...I had to share
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FH is planning to speak to him soon.. yah I'm excited about the honeymoon too.. haven't had a real vacation in so long...
Dulhan
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:29 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:29 PM
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question..what is FH?? lol
Dulhan
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:36 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:36 PM
Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
Posted by muttham4u
FH and I booked our honeymoon yesterday with Tom Varghese from American Express. He said that some of you girls are talking/booking with him too. Isn't he great??Just so excited about our honeymoon...I had to share
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ooooooOOooo how exciting!!! that is seriously the best part i feel..with all the planning and stress we gotta go thru, the honeymoon is when we get to relax! where are you guys going??
AR31
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:43 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:43 PM
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Future Husband...
RGV07
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:44 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:44 PM
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try dj essence for your wedding.he really good getting the crowd motivated
Dulhan
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:48 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 09:48 PM
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ohhhhh..right...makes sense lol :P
Dulhan
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 10:08 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 10:08 PM
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have any of you looked at hair and make up??
AR31
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 10:25 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 10:25 PM
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yah..I did 2 weekends ago.. I went for a trial just because.. i'm paranoid so i just do things like wayy before time..
Dulhan
Posted: Nov 20, 2007 10:32 PM+

Posted: Nov 20, 2007 10:32 PM
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yeah ur right. thats the best thing to do..ask around for the best vendors..who did you decide on going with? i looked at two in hicksville and they charge like 150 for a trial!!
MAY24BRIDE
Posted: Nov 21, 2007 06:59 AM+

Posted: Nov 21, 2007 06:59 AM
Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
Posted by Dulhan
Posted by muttham4u
FH and I booked our honeymoon yesterday with Tom Varghese from American Express. He said that some of you girls are talking/booking with him too. Isn't he great??Just so excited about our honeymoon...I had to share
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ooooooOOooo how exciting!!! that is seriously the best part i feel..with all the planning and stress we gotta go thru, the honeymoon is when we get to relax! where are you guys going??
We're going to St. Lucia. Staying at Jade Mountain...it seems so cool.....we'll be staying 4 nights around the base of the mountain, closer the beach..all inclusive....and then 2 nights up high on the mountain, where there is 1 missing wall....fully open to the mountain view AND an infinity pool in the room!!
MAY24BRIDE
Posted: Nov 21, 2007 07:01 AM+

Posted: Nov 21, 2007 07:01 AM
Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
Posted by MrsV2be
yah..I did 2 weekends ago.. I went for a trial just because.. i'm paranoid so i just do things like wayy before time..![]()
Yea, I gotta start moving on that...I heard a lot of good people are already booked up...and I need someone to come to me early in the AM for a morning ceremony =\
craznan
Posted: Nov 21, 2007 08:15 AM+

Posted: Nov 21, 2007 08:15 AM
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Welcome Dulhan!! Good Luck on all the planning.I went with DJ Sharad. I have gone to some of his parties and he's really good. His DJ's can also speak punjabi/hindi if you need that. His MC's are also awesome, they really get the party going. His prices are a little higher than usual, but he is definately willing to work within your budget.
Here's his site: www.djusouthasia.com.
Also, for hair and makeup, check thru this thread and a lot of girls have put up great reviews on some vendors. I'm using a small salon that did my engagement party and they are giving me a great rate for me and my girls. But i'm not having her come to the house in the morning, i'm going to her in the afternoon for the reception.
AR31
Posted: Nov 21, 2007 01:36 PM+

Posted: Nov 21, 2007 01:36 PM
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Yeah exactly.. my wedding is in the afternoon but we're doing our pictures and stuff earlier...
AR31
Posted: Nov 21, 2007 05:10 PM+

Posted: Nov 21, 2007 05:10 PM
Re: OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread
Posted by muttham4u
Posted by Dulhan
Posted by muttham4u
FH and I booked our honeymoon yesterday with Tom Varghese from American Express. He said that some of you girls are talking/booking with him too. Isn't he great??Just so excited about our honeymoon...I had to share
![]()
ooooooOOooo how exciting!!! that is seriously the best part i feel..with all the planning and stress we gotta go thru, the honeymoon is when we get to relax! where are you guys going??
We're going to St. Lucia. Staying at Jade Mountain...it seems so cool.....we'll be staying 4 nights around the base of the mountain, closer the beach..all inclusive....and then 2 nights up high on the mountain, where there is 1 missing wall....fully open to the mountain view AND an infinity pool in the room!!![]()
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that looks gorgeous!!! tell me more about the room on top of the mountain please.. looks tres' intresting... love the view and infinity pool..
st. lucia is awesome..
MAY24BRIDE
Posted: Nov 21, 2007 08:18 PM+

Posted: Nov 21, 2007 08:18 PM
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Mrs.V2be, FM me and I can give you my travel agents info. He was sooo good....both FH and I were on the phone with him and he told us a couple of sites to go to...took us through a little 'journey' according to what we oo'ed and ahhh'ed about =) And once we saw Jade Mountain, that was it!Welcome New Vendors
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) and go with the really good one for the reception.

















