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kbeana24
I want to do it again!
Member since 6/04 1305 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/21/2005 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
John Anthonys: A-
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Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
Ok, this woman I used to babysit for called me yesterday. I babysat for her son when I was looking for a full time job (which I now have).
I had also sent her a save the date card, and I thought she was calling to say Thanks.
She did say Ohhow cute by the way can you babysit tomorrow (after my 9-5 job) for about 3 hours. Her babysitter now has a wedding to go to and cant work, she's in a bind and needs help.
Of course I felt bad and even though I am exhausted after Im done with my regular job, I said yes.
Does anyone else feel bad telling people no??
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Posted 9/9/04 9:20 AM 
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Danielle&Scott
Mom, I will always love you.
Member since 8/03 8806 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/14/2004 7:30 PM
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
no lol
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Posted 9/9/04 9:21 AM
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btrflygrl
Counting My Blessings
Member since 7/03 11106 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/6/2004 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Timber Point Country Club
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
Oh yea....that's me totally....I don't know HOW to say No.....
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Posted 9/9/04 9:21 AM
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brideinapril
My First Love.....
Member since 11/03 4449 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/17/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Rockhill in Manorville
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
Yes - I admit I have a very hard time telling people "NO" - I am the biggest push-over.
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Posted 9/9/04 9:22 AM
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Irishbride
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 2/03 2170 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/11/2004 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Beach Club Estate on Lake Ronkonkoma
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
I have hard time saying No but I am getting a little better at it.
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Posted 9/9/04 9:23 AM
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Maribelle7777
It's A Sickness!
Member since 5/03 5699 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/30/2004 12:00 AM
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
NO
(heh )
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Posted 9/9/04 9:36 AM
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soxfan
Board Enthusiast
Member since 5/04 165 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/3/2000 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Capital Grille
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
YES and I totally stress about it after making a commitment like that . .
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Posted 9/9/04 9:55 AM
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lilmrs
I am a conundrum
Member since 5/02 12034 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/17/2003 12:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Under a rock
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
I used to but then I felt taken advantage of so now I am getting a lot better at it.
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Posted 9/9/04 10:01 AM
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swags1016
So in love
Member since 3/03 12235 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/26/2003 12:30 PM
Wed. Location:
East Wind- The Estate- A+
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
One of my biggest downfalls! I absolutely have the hard time saying no and get stepped on and used all the time because of it.
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Posted 9/9/04 7:14 PM
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nferrandi
We did it!
Member since 12/03 5367 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/9/2004 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
The Crescent
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
Yes and no. There are certain people, like my sister, that I can not say no to. She's so used to me doing whatever she asks that the rare occasions I say no, she won't talk to me for a week. Just this morning she needed me to help her and she knew I had a fitting. I wound up hitting traffic and was 40 minutes late because of her.
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Posted 9/9/04 7:34 PM
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DebsNY
Me and the MEN
Member since 8/04 7391 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/7/2005 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Meadow Club
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
I do! i try so hard to find excuses to say no 
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Posted 9/9/04 7:38 PM
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nov.bride
Life is good ;)
Member since 1/04 1806 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/21/2004 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Floral Terrace
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
I can totally relate- this is the story of my life.
I take on everyones stuff for them and screw myself over.
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Posted 9/9/04 10:24 PM
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matron
Wiggles and Rascal
Member since 3/04 2002 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/7/2002 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Vineyard Caterers
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
I never say no. That's why I'm a constant stress-case. 
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Posted 9/9/04 11:10 PM
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Kel
It's An Obsession
Member since 2/01 3132 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/30/2001 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
John Anthony's
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Re: Anyone else have a hard time telling people NO?
Posted by kbeana24
Does anyone else feel bad telling people no??
Yes!! (See, I can't even say no here!)
 
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Posted 9/9/04 11:14 PM
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