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Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?
Charly Posted: Oct 01, 2004 10:13 AM+
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Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

When we did our invitations the woman suggested we say 10:30 am rather than 11am to ensure most people aren't late. But do you think they are going to be bored sitting around for a 1/2 hour....I guess its too late now...but I was just wonderining if I'm the only one who did this.

Thanks
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nferrandi Posted: Oct 01, 2004 10:17 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

We didn't do that, but now I'm wishing we had. Oh well, if people miss the ceremony than that's their problem.
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FrescaBride Posted: Oct 01, 2004 10:17 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

This is a good idea as long as the reception place doesn't mind that your guests arrived so early. Then, you are surely to have everyone there including the latecomers.
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Charly Posted: Oct 01, 2004 10:18 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

Its actually a church!! I hope there are no funerals...ugh...I think I made a mistake.
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nferrandi Posted: Oct 01, 2004 10:23 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

Call your church just to give them a headsup and see what they say. I think it would be safe to say that you're not the first one to do that. I don't think you should worry about it, it will be fine and it will ensure that most people will actually be there in time for the ceremony.
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Blu-ize Posted: Oct 01, 2004 10:26 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

I did, worked out great.
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eogara Posted: Oct 01, 2004 10:44 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

We're getting married at the hall and they do an arrival time of 30 minutes before the ceremony to ensure that everyone gets there on time and no one is walking in on your ceremony and being disruptive. They provide fresh fruit and champagne during that half hour.
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dkwife Posted: Oct 01, 2004 10:47 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

I did and it worked out well
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anjerandunder Posted: Oct 01, 2004 10:50 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

i believe my hall made it a 1/2 hour prior also they will be serving champagne and fruit also..
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pbandtim Posted: Oct 01, 2004 11:12 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

On our invites we wrote 3:00, but it's really 3:15.
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Charly Posted: Oct 01, 2004 11:14 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?


Posted by pbandtim

On our invites we wrote 3:00, but it's really 3:15.



I wish I only did 15 minutes vs. the 1/2 hour. Oh well...what's done is done!
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FTRBRIDE Posted: Oct 01, 2004 11:36 AM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

We are inviting guests 1/2 hour before the ceremony begins as well. the harrison house (where the ceremony is) will be serving champagne and strawberries. It will also allow guests to be escorted to their seats, and say their initial hellos to other family members.
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Sassyz75 Posted: Oct 01, 2004 12:01 PM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

yes...
I did.
I said 7pm and it was really 7.30
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MrsJ Posted: Oct 01, 2004 12:04 PM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

i think if people are sitting and waiting for 30-45 mins for the ceremony to start they are going to get a little annoyed. I just said ceremony at 3pm, I will make sure it starts by 3:15 the latest (God willing).
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MCDO15 Posted: Oct 01, 2004 12:06 PM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

your guest wont be bored..there are plenty family/friends or a guest that they can talk to. have soft music playing while they are waiting
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JimmysBride Posted: Oct 01, 2004 12:08 PM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?


Posted by nferrandi

Oh well, if people miss the ceremony than that's their problem.




I agree. We didn't do it either.
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JoJoTeej Posted: Oct 01, 2004 12:35 PM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

Honestly, I don't think anyone will be bored. They talk with people they haven't seen and you wouldn't beliee the amount of people that show up as the doors are closing to the church. I wouldn't worry.
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G&D Posted: Oct 01, 2004 12:50 PM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

Our ceremony starts at 11:30 but on the invitation it says 11:00...people wont be bored..I dont think that many people will start coming in until 11:15 or so.
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laudipop Posted: Oct 01, 2004 01:27 PM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

Nope, although I'm wishing I had.
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Bunnymonkey Posted: Oct 01, 2004 01:29 PM+
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Re: Did you say your ceremony was 1/2 hour earlier than it really is?

15 minutes -
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