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aliciahelene
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Good and Bad news!!!

We got the boys!!! They are sending us the contract and this process will officially begin!!!! I got their files last night and learned alittle more about them. They both love soccor and spaghetti, one wants to be a doctor and one wants to be a pilot!!
The bad news is..they will NOT find out they are bing adopted until Ethiopia approves us, and that may be two to three months. I wished they could know sooner, the only postive is that when they DO find out, they will only have to wait a very short time until I am there to bring them home. I just wish they knew, one of the boys doesnt remember his mom at all, his father just died of aids and his baby brother is dying now of aids. it is heart breaking. the other little boy's mom just died this past May and his father died when he was very little. The grief they must live with, it kills me. But atleast I know that they will be mine and they will be safe and loved and I will work with them and their grief. I am so happy to know they are MINE>>>YIPPPPPPPEEEEEEEEEE
Their names are Biruk and Paulos, both in the second grade, but one is 7 and one is 8!! They only sent me zerox pictures..but I am hoping that since Im signing a contract, that thwy will send me a real picture so that I can post it!! They are such beautiful little boys!!!!
All of your kindthoughts, prayers and well sishes worked..this wasnt originally supposed to happen until after christmas, possibly mid January..and here we are at mid december...this is amazing! Next step is immigration, and hopefully that will go fast as well!!!

Posted 12/10/04 2:26 PM
 

M&M2004
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

Congratulations!!! What a wonderful holiday present. Those boys are really lucky to soon have such a wonderful mom like you! Best of Luck!

Posted 12/10/04 2:31 PM
 

wc0143
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

Congrats Alicia!!!!

Posted 12/10/04 2:33 PM
 

StepherG
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8/1/2004 4:30 PM

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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

That's fantastic! It's great to hear that it's happening FASTER than you anticipated! What a great Holiday Season you will have! Cant wait to see pics of YOUR boys!! Congrats!! :

Posted 12/10/04 2:40 PM
 

Donna
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

What awesome news!!! I'm so happy that everything is moving so swiftly.

Can't wait to see pics of your boys and until you bring them home....

Posted 12/10/04 2:50 PM
 

goingtobemrs
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

Congratulations, I am so happy for you, that is wonderful! You sound very deserving of these sweet boys! Best of luck!

Posted 12/10/04 3:02 PM
 

steph4777
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

Wow Congratulations!!! I am so happy for you.

Posted 12/10/04 3:16 PM
 

FeliciaDA
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

Wow, this is just the very best news Alicia

I am so very happy for you and am thrilled to hear that the boys will be yours before long

Cannot wait to see pics of the little guys

Congratulations!!!!!!!!!

Posted 12/10/04 3:30 PM
 

MrsTC
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

amazing! you and your DH are wonderful people to be doing this and will make awesome parents! you are totally changing their lives....

Posted 12/10/04 3:44 PM
 

Jmg11
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

Alicia - I don't know you personally, but I can tell you are such a wonderful, warm, loving human being. This world needs more people like you. I am so thrilled for you and your DH and your new sons. I have never heard of such a wonderful holiday surprise. Good Luck and post pics when you can.

Posted 12/10/04 3:46 PM
 

Summerbride04
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

What wonderful news. I wish you and DH all the best!

Posted 12/10/04 4:01 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

I have been waiting for an update, but I never imagined one like this!!!! That is wonderful, these 2 guys have no idea what life has in store for them, a great mom and dad!!

Posted 12/10/04 4:21 PM
 

rdaley
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What lucky children they are to have you! Best of luck to you!!! Post pics as soon as you can

Posted 12/10/04 4:30 PM
 

lilmrs
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

WOOHOO!! WONDERFUL NEWS!

Posted 12/10/04 4:34 PM
 

kelswiss
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

That is wonderful news!!!!!!!!!

Posted 12/10/04 4:35 PM
 

Adri
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

Congratulations

Posted 12/10/04 4:52 PM
 

drewsgirl
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

Congrats!! I am so happy for the both of oyu that you are getting your little boys!! Goodluck with the rest of the process and post pics of them when you can!

Posted 12/10/04 4:56 PM
 

palebride
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!


congratulations!!!!
what wonderful news!!
the time is going to FLY!!!!!!
Can you scan their picture in so we can see your beautiful new children?

Posted 12/10/04 5:14 PM
 

jcndd
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

You've been blessed! Congrats on your children-to-be!!

Posted 12/10/04 5:22 PM
 

cocoa
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that is the best thing i have heard all day!!!

Posted 12/10/04 5:30 PM
 

aliciahelene
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

You guys make me feel sooooooo good!!! Thank you!!! I am truly blessed..for people like you offering such support and saying such nice things and to be able to adopt these boys, I am so happy right now. I never expected this...if you would have told me a year ago that Id be adopting two older boys from Ethiopia..I would have never believed you...this has been amazing!!!
We have more good news today, my sister still has the twins, she went in last week and their was only one heart beat, the DR. told her to expect to lose one of the babies, but when she went in today, there were TWO heartbeats and it was determined that the baby with no heartbeat last week must have implanted a few days later and thats why there was no herat beat. Its amazing..Ive never heard of this..but am so thrilled for my sister. Now if we can just get rid of my husbands tumor once and for all..we'll be smooth sailing! Thanks again everyone!!!

Posted 12/10/04 6:02 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

Alicia..you and Dex are truly blessed, and those boys will have a lifetime of love and happiness with you both!! Congratulations!!!

Posted 12/10/04 7:02 PM
 

Monkeybride
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

Congratulations, what a wonder christmas present for you and you husband.
You are going to be such wonderful parents. The loved that exudes from your posts just amazes me.

Posted 12/10/04 9:21 PM
 

mrswask
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

I'm so excited for both of you!!! This is Wonderful Alicia!!! And as usual, your posts got me all teary!!

Posted 12/10/04 9:29 PM
 

BabyonBoard
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Re: Good and Bad news!!!

WOW!!!!!!!!! I am so happy for you on the two boys and how quickly things are moving for you BUT I MUST MUST MUST POST on the AMAZING NEWS of your sister.....the dr. told me that there was no h/b on my baby and that we were going to loose her and SHE WAS SO WRONG! WHen i read what you posted just now I cryed tears of happiness, just brings back very very very emotional feelings! I am so happy for you, your sister and her husband and your family!

God bless you all and take that bad news down its all good news to me!




to think you and your sister are going to have 2 kids each

Posted 12/10/04 9:49 PM
 
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