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time to say goodbye...

junie20002 Posted: Dec 19, 2004 11:47 PM+

junie20002 MEMBER SINCE: 10/04 TOTAL POSTS : 589 WEDDING DATE: Nov 15, 2011

Posted: Dec 19, 2004 11:47 PM

time to say goodbye...

We called it all off, he is not a happy man
and I realized that no matter what I do i will never make him happy.
It is all about money, 'you do not help enough' are his words and after paying about $23,000.00 in his bills alone I need to get out of here and make myself happy and most of all my kids. At least they are worth every penny I spend and no back talk on how i do not contribute enough. So much for all the false pretenses, he seems to be in love with some one from work and she is a married womanm i picked up on this nightmare last sunday, at the Company party she could not even look at me and he looked at her with the most loving and longing look I have ever seen.
So I wish you all the best in love and in true happiness. is time for me to sign off.

Jen2999 Posted: Dec 19, 2004 11:54 PM+

Jen2999 MEMBER SINCE: 11/04 TOTAL POSTS : 9846 WEDDING DATE: Jul 07, 2006

Posted: Dec 19, 2004 11:54 PM

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Im sorry to hear that hun.

Best of luck in eveything.. doing what is right may be har , but you will be stronger for it.

February05 Posted: Dec 19, 2004 11:57 PM+

February05 MEMBER SINCE: 8/04 TOTAL POSTS : 6573 WEDDING DATE: Feb 19, 2005

Posted: Dec 19, 2004 11:57 PM

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you have FM

Aga Posted: Dec 20, 2004 12:05 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 12:05 AM

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I am so sorry

be strong and we are here if you ever need to talk... my heart is breaking for you

halfpintny Posted: Dec 20, 2004 12:09 AM+

halfpintny MEMBER SINCE: 10/04 TOTAL POSTS : 1599 WEDDING DATE: Aug 13, 2005

Posted: Dec 20, 2004 12:09 AM

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I'm sure it will be hard for a while but you will be a stronger woman for it. Good luck to you sweetie....this just frees you up for when your true soulmate passes by.

OctBride05 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 12:17 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 12:17 AM

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i am so sorry

LadyPrincess Posted: Dec 20, 2004 12:35 AM+

LadyPrincess MEMBER SINCE: 2/04 TOTAL POSTS : 8881 WEDDING DATE: Mar 05, 2005

Posted: Dec 20, 2004 12:35 AM

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So sorry Junie !! All the best - we are here for you !!

brooklynbridezilla Posted: Dec 20, 2004 06:16 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 06:16 AM

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Junie, I am so sorry!

DebsNY Posted: Dec 20, 2004 07:10 AM+

DebsNY MEMBER SINCE: 8/04 TOTAL POSTS : 7391 WEDDING DATE: Aug 07, 2005

Posted: Dec 20, 2004 07:10 AM

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I'm so sorry Junie - I wish there was something I could do. I wish you only the best.

David'sbride Posted: Dec 20, 2004 07:21 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 07:21 AM

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I'm so sorry. It must be devistating to realize all of this. Try to be strong and be good to yourself. He isn't worthy of you. There is someone out there who will truly appreciate you and not take you for granted.

Sweetpea130000 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 07:25 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 07:25 AM

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I am so sorry Junie!

d&d05 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 07:29 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 07:29 AM

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azoodie Posted: Dec 20, 2004 07:53 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 07:53 AM

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we're still here for you anytime you need it...

you're a total sweetheart, and if other things are more important to him, then it's better he's not in your life.

i'm so sorry for all you're going through right now

LIBrideinBWI Posted: Dec 20, 2004 08:24 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 08:24 AM

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Please don't leave the boards.... what you need right now is a strong support system. And we are all here for you....
Amy

morales066 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 08:27 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 08:27 AM

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So sorry to here that junie. Hope everything gets better.

Happybride2005 Posted: Dec 20, 2004 08:33 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 08:33 AM

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We're here for you if you want to talk

frosty Posted: Dec 20, 2004 08:57 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 08:57 AM

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Sorry to hear about it.

You'll find the right guy. And it will be worth the wait.

Good luck.

KimberlyBride Posted: Dec 20, 2004 09:05 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 09:05 AM

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I'm so sorry Fabi - here is a great big hug!

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Dec 20, 2004 09:22 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 09:22 AM

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Blu-ize Posted: Dec 20, 2004 09:23 AM+

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Posted: Dec 20, 2004 09:23 AM

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Hang in there...we are here for you. It's time to concentrate in yourself! Surround yourself with good friends and love from family. True love will find you.