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May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?
amy&anthony Posted: Jan 17, 2005 11:08 AM+
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May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?

I'm pretty sure the answer is yes.. The reason I ask is - I never saw the groom walk people down the aisle. So during this time - where is he then and with who?
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SomethingBlu Posted: Jan 17, 2005 11:10 AM+
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Re: May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?

Hi Amy, try this link BP - who does what . Ushers are IN ADDITION TO groomsmen and their sole purpose is to escort people down the aisle or help them find their seat.

Good luck!
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amy&anthony Posted: Jan 17, 2005 11:17 AM+
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Re: May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?

o.k. it says sometimes in addition to groomsmen. I ask because in the weddings that Ive been to the groomsman are ushers and theres a few more guys also. I would think the groom would want all his guys with him before the big I do LOL
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Bunnymonkey Posted: Jan 17, 2005 11:26 AM+
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Re: May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?

do what you like - i have seen groomsmen be ushers many times...
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littlebookworm4 Posted: Jan 17, 2005 11:34 AM+
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Re: May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?

my groomsmen are doing the usher thing too
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girlygrl33 Posted: Jan 17, 2005 11:48 AM+
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Re: May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?

Yes back in the day there were called ushers, the groomsmen- more modern way of calling them walked the guest to their seats, we are keeping that 'old' tradition and having the groomsmen walk the guest down, the groom and best man are usually down at the altar or behing the scenes in the church. you will see things called ushers that pertain to groomsmen cause they are the same. modern times have tried to change it but traditionally they are the same just different names.
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BlondeJD Posted: Jan 17, 2005 01:26 PM+
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Re: May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?

This is a good question--I've been wondering the same thing!
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MrsA814 Posted: Jan 17, 2005 01:36 PM+
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Re: May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?

They are both they are onley called usher in the church walking people down the isle
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SFP0214 Posted: Jan 17, 2005 01:38 PM+
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Re: May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?

My gm's are acting as ushers. I don't know what the groom does.
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wood2be Posted: Jan 17, 2005 01:58 PM+
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Re: May be a stupid question.. Can groomsman and ushers be the same people?

My Ushers were Groomen. Honestly, DH and I had never known there was a difference until reading posts on the Knot.
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